However, many people who study Buddhism abandon their families and even quarrel with them because their families don't believe in Buddhism, don't study Buddhism and oppose themselves. This is hurting all beings! Only those who have good fortune, foundation and fate can enter Buddhism and learn Buddhism, otherwise it is impossible. Family members don't have the same blessings and wisdom as you. You should pity them, take care of them, and let your family realize the benefits of learning Buddhism.
Your family opposes you, quarrels with you, and your life is a mess. You can't cope with these obstacles for a while, so you are sad and disappointed, and then you want to escape: "It's important to learn Buddhism or yourself, regardless of these." As a result, home is becoming less and less like home, leaving only a lot of trouble in the end, which is very pitiful! Can't learn Buddhism or learn Buddhism, don't know Buddhism or practice. They are all biased.
Just make all beings happy; Making parents happy is filial piety. So no matter when, no matter what method, you can make your family happy; But you should know that this is not for yourself, but for all beings. In the past, they did not listen to their parents, which made them sad and angry. Now they follow their hearts and realize their wishes. They feel that their children have become better, and then they begin to accept Buddhism. I used to be very bad to my lover, but after studying Buddhism, I was very good to him (her), and my home was clean and tidy, and then my lover began to learn Buddhism. This is Purdue sentient beings! If you can influence them slowly, you will become a bodhisattva.
But some people don't understand this truth, so they close the door, chant Buddhist scripture, kowtow, meditate, don't clean up at home, don't cook, and even quarrel with their families. When your family saw it, it wasn't like this when you didn't study Buddhism, and it wasn't as good as before when you studied Buddhism. Can I not object to you? If you hurt all beings in your family when you worship or offer Buddha, the Buddha and Bodhisattva will not bless you, and the good God will not bless you. Because you violated the teachings of Buddhism and Sambo. Your family, your husband, your wife and your children all need your care and care, but you ignore them. This is abandoning all beings. To abandon all sentient beings is to abandon bodhicitta and Buddhism. No need to enter the Buddhist temple, burn incense or kowtow. As long as you take good care of your family and make them happy, buddhas and bodhisattvas will naturally be satisfied and good gods will naturally protect you. In this way, you will be happy in this life and the next, and you will always be happy. This should be the result of studying Buddhism and practicing.