First of all, I want to say that this feeling of wanting to escape is normal. When people encounter high-intensity major choices, they will always have the idea of escaping subconsciously, but if you always want to escape from problems, you are suspected of being unwilling to take responsibility. This feeling of always trying to escape may be that you are not strong enough inside and don't want to think about how to solve problems when you encounter them. After all, some choices have to be decided by yourself, and escaping is not the solution to the problem.
Secondly, if you haven't improved at all after reading the above contents, think about it. Life is made up of various flavors, such as sweet, sour, bitter, spicy and salty. Happiness and sadness exist together like black and white, and the easy choice and the difficulty of the important choice are half. Only by tasting all kinds of experiences can we know the true taste of life and appreciate the richness of life. It is more meaningful to have bitterness and sweetness. In the face of major choices, we should think that this is the only way in life, and the idea of escape cannot always exist, so we should look at things more broadly; In the face of major choices, you can also consult your family and friends. People who have experienced it will be your guide. People with more life experience will give you the right advice, which will make it easier for you to make a choice, and those who want to escape will disappear.
Finally, I want to warn you that no one is perfect. Always trying to escape may be that you are still in the growth stage and your thoughts in all aspects may not be mature. Maybe after a lot of experience, you will be suddenly enlightened and look down on some things, so that you will no longer want to escape when facing major choices, but face them calmly.