Children's disobedience is a headache for many parents. However, many parents can't find the root of the problem. In fact, only by finding the root cause of children's disobedience can we find the corresponding solution. Otherwise, if you just have a headache or even go to the hospital in a hurry, it will be difficult to solve the problem.
1. Children's disobedience is a big worry for parents.
Children's disobedience is a reflection of their rebellious psychology.
3. Treating children's disobedience scientifically is divided into two parts.
4. Children's excessive disobedience is a manifestation of mental health.
You can't let your child's excessive disobedience go unchecked.
6. Be a good life mentor for children and guide them to grow up healthily.
Second, the various manifestations of children's excessive disobedience
Children's disobedience is always associated with inner thoughts. If parents want to completely correct their children's disobedience, they must go deep into their children's hearts and talk to them attentively, so as to really influence their children and make them consciously change.
1. willfulness: do whatever you want.
2. Fun: I really want to have enough fun at once.
3. Tired of learning: I am tired of seeing textbooks.
4. Conceit: think too highly of yourself and look down on others.
Third, parents are to blame for children's disobedience.
Parents should reflect on themselves while trying their best to correct their children's disobedience. In the process of educating children, are there any improper things, excessive behaviors, tests on children's understanding and acceptance, etc. Only by finding out the shortcomings of our own education can we foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and find a scientific solution to children's disobedience from both children and ourselves.
1. Love without education: dote on children and be responsive.
2. Go with the flow: believe that trees are natural and straight.
3. Sensitive period: navigation will not be conducted during this navigation.
4. Expectations are too high: immature shoulders are overwhelmed.
5. Rough snoring: The child is physically and mentally exhausted.
6. Family breakdown: the child's heart injury is difficult to heal.
7. External pollution: lack of prevention and guidance.
Fourth, the right medicine: the general countermeasures for children's disobedience
Disobedience is a unique psychological phenomenon of children and an inevitable physiological phenomenon. Parents need not worry about it. As long as parents find the root of their children's disobedience and guide them correctly with scientific tutoring art, they can turn their children's disobedience into a driving force for learning and progress and promote their healthy growth.
1. The most fundamental thing is to stimulate children's self-motivation and curiosity.
2. Set an example: Parents should set an example for their children.
3. Persuasion is better than coercion: don't force children.
4. Correct the child's shortcomings by affirming the advantages.
5. Respect children and be their bosom friends.
6. Appreciate children properly: let children feel valued.
7. Moderate punishment: too much is not enough.
8. Gradually enhance children's self-management ability.
How to effectively educate disobedient children
First, the spring breeze turns to rain: correcting children's rebellious and rebellious psychology
For rebellious children, parents should always keep in touch with them and urge them to pour out their thoughts and feelings. Then, through persuasion, suit the remedy to the case, guide the children to the right path of life.
1. Resolving the rebellion in children's hearts is nothing more than a temporary solution.
2. Active guidance: let children vent their emotions.
3. Understanding and caring: reducing children's psychological burden
4. Facing the "generation gap" conflict, solve it in the right way.
5. Treat children as equals and let them move from confrontation to happy cooperation.
6. Respect children's privacy and don't interfere with children's legal rights.
7. Get rid of the high-pressure policy and listen to the children's voices.
8. Teach children to treat and accept teachers' criticism correctly.
9. Help children eliminate teachers' misunderstanding of themselves.
10. Eliminate children's resistance to teachers in time.
1 1. Guide children not to taste the bitter fruit of puppy love.
12. Don't tolerate children's disrespect for their elders.
Second, temper justice with mercy: change the child's bad personality.
For wayward children, on the one hand, parents should strictly control his unreasonable waywardness and nonsense, on the other hand, they should adopt the strategy of tolerance and guidance for his reasonable self-assertion, which is the educational method of combining leniency with severity.
1. Parents indulge their children, which will lead to their willfulness.
2. Don't accommodate your child's unreasonable demands.
3. Cultivate children's self-control and correct their unreasonable troubles.
Don't let the child cry to achieve his goal.
Don't let children neglect discipline.
6. What if children don't accept criticism from their parents?
7. Correct the child's bad habit of losing his temper
8. Change children's unreasonable attitude.
9. Correct children's bad habit of asking for things.
10. Resolutely correct children's self-centered psychology
1 1. Help children to know themselves correctly and overcome their conceit.
12. Don't make your child arrogant: "I'm just better than others!"
13. Don't let children be too narrow-minded: "I can do it, others can't!"
14. Correct the shortcomings that children do wrong and refuse to admit.
Third, relax moderately: methods and skills to overcome children's playfulness
If parents want to change their children's playfulness, they must first identify the crux of their children's playfulness, and then adopt correct educational methods. Under the dual role of guidance and compulsion, relaxation and moderation have changed children's bad habit of being playful and put them on the right track.
1. Guide children to play sometimes, with restraint and restraint.
2. Restrain naughty children with proper rules.
3. Follow the trend: develop the intelligent potential of "naughty bag"
4. Cleverly stipulate the study time of naughty children
5. Correct the children's failure to finish their homework on time.
6. Don't just focus on yourself and leave the children to the TV.
7. Don't indulge your children to have fun during the holidays.
8. Exercise the patience of naughty children with "three-minute training".
9. Never let children get lost in video games.
10. Save the children who are addicted to the Internet
1 1. Don't forbid children to play normally.
Fourth, comprehensive management: correct children's weariness of learning.
Parents should study and analyze the root causes of children's weariness of learning according to their children's reality, so as to suit the remedy to the case and be targeted. Experts believe that correcting children's weariness of learning requires comprehensive management, and multi-pronged approach from all aspects is the key to help children raise their ideal sails and establish self-confidence in becoming talents.
1. Let children raise their ideal sails and cross the swamp that is tired of learning.
2. Build self-confidence for children who are tired of learning and find the correct life coordinates.
3. Guide children to change their "headache" impression of learning.
4. Don't put too much pressure on children.
5. Eliminate children's psychology that "teachers don't like me"
6. Guide children to gamify learning and turn hard study into interesting study.
7. Make learning fresh: stimulate children's interest in learning by drawing lots.
8. Leverage third parties: urge and urge children through others.
9. Use the power of example: Let children make more friends with excellent classmates.
10. Wake up children who are tired of learning: wake up thinking with thinking.
1 1. Use rebellious psychology to deliberately stimulate children.
12. urge children to change from wasting time to cherishing time like gold.
13. Promote the change of children from partial subjects to all-round development with a wise attitude.
Fifth, make up: correct the child's bad habits.
To overcome children's bad behavior habits, we should not take rude "beating, scolding and punishing", but should patiently guide children to obey and consciously develop good habits. Only by educating their children to start with trivial matters of life, distinguish right from wrong, adhere to correct and correct wrong habits, can children embark on the society with a good mental outlook and become educated people.
1. Bad habits are invisible shackles that bind children.
2. Correct children's bad habits of picky eaters and partial eclipse.
3. Reject the child's "gluttony": Don't let him "eat at once"
4. Correct the child's habit of not cleaning.
5. Don't let your child sleep for a while: correct the bad habit of staying in bed.
6. Life lies in exercise: change children's habit of not exercising.
7. Correct the child's love of pretending to be sick: "I have a headache and can't go to school!"
8. Eliminate language rubbish: Don't let children curse all over the sky.
9. Take precautions: Take children's stealing seriously.
10. Be careful that your child will become a "just one puff" little smoker.
1 1. Gambling harms others and harms oneself: Never let children become small gamblers.
12. Correct children's bad habit of making trouble in public places.
13. Change the child's boast: "I know everything!"
14. Correct the crazy idolization of children: "I love F4!"
15. cleanliness: correct children's procrastination.
16. Don't let the children with poor learning jingle.
17. Correct children's bad manners.
18. Guide children to correct scrawled handwriting neatly and clearly.
19. Resolutely correct children's bad habits of cheating in exams.
20. Resolutely correct the bad habit of children hitting people.
Six, stay away from the devil: drive away the child's spiritual shadow.
As parents, we should be alert to and attach great importance to children's bad emotions, create a healthy atmosphere conducive to their growth, enhance their psychological endurance, and cultivate their optimistic, positive and upward healthy mentality. Parents should know that cultivating children's mental health is even more important than cultivating children's physical health. Only when children have a healthy psychology can they challenge the future and succeed.
1. Light the fire of hope and guide children out of the whirlpool of depression and emptiness.
2. Drive away the demons that plague children and help them overcome anxiety.
Don't be afraid of the exam! Help children overcome exam anxiety
4. Guide children to overcome gloomy mood: get out of the quagmire of melancholy.
5. Melt indifference and strengthen children's "enthusiastic" behavior.
6. dispel doubts in children's minds: guide children to overcome paranoia
7. If you fall, you must get up: treating children's frustration syndrome.
8. Don't ignore children's self-destruction: warn children of self-abuse behavior.
9. Don't let your child's naive nature get lost: help your child overcome vanity.
10. Eliminate children's jealousy of others.
1 1. Deal with it rationally and remove the violent tendency in children's thoughts.