It is said that which is more important, marriage or entrepreneurship? I think for a woman, having a happy family is much happier than being a strong woman, but the premise of all this happiness is that you have to choose the right husband.
Marrying into a rich family is the envy of many women. Looking at the glamorous life of the rich woman of the rich family every day, no one is envious. Does marrying into a rich family mean marrying a good husband? Obviously not. Because rich and powerful people also have the troubles of rich and powerful people, not every woman who marries rich and powerful can live happily.
There is a passage in the inscription of Peony Pavilion written by Tang Xianzu in Ming Dynasty:? If you don't know what's going on, the living can die, the dead can live, life can't be with death, and death can't be resurrected. It's not emotional. ? Since ancient times, how many people are because of one? Love? Words can go through fire and water. The most fundamental reason why we pursue a relationship is that we hope to meet our own uniqueness and preference.
Talking about marriage is the most important thing in a person's life and the most important turning point in a woman's life. Who you choose to live with, you choose what kind of life.
What is the most successful thing in a woman's life? Faced with this question, different people will have different answers. Some people will say:? The most successful thing is to have a career of your own. ? Some people will say:? The most successful thing is to marry a good husband. ? Everyone has different directions and choices in life, no matter which way is right, but I think the latter is more important to a woman than the former.
The most successful thing in a woman's life is to choose the right husband.
A good husband can change your character.
I have a friend who has been married for ten years and feels a different person. When we met him before, she was a careless and grumpy girl, but she was very kind at heart. On her wedding day, many friends went to congratulate her, that is, on the wedding day, we first met her husband.
Her husband is the opposite of her, very quiet. Once we had dinner together, we jokingly said: Our sister is quick-tempered, so you should take care of her more. ? After listening to our words, he also smiled and said: Don't worry, I'll take good care of her. ? Say that finish, they both smiled at each other.
After a year of marriage, they soon had children. My friend's reaction during pregnancy is obvious, and her temper is urgent, because she becomes very anxious during pregnancy.
After giving birth to a child, the child also relieved them a lot. At one time, my friend even became depressed. Her husband gave up his job to accompany him and stayed at home with her for more than a month. When talking to us later, she said: I don't know how to spend that time without my husband's company. ?
After listening to her words, we are also very moved and envy their feelings. Now that they have been married for ten years, my friends are getting younger and more virtuous. We were all surprised to see her change so much, but she smiled and said to us: After being with him for so long, I found that my biggest change was that I was impatient in everything before, but he was willing to change for the better with me. Later, his patience infected me. I think two people should change each other when they are together. He has a lot to do with how much I can change now. I think the most correct thing I have done in my life is to marry him. ? I was deeply impressed by what she said.
From my friends' stories, I found that a good husband can not only change his wife's appearance, but also change her personality. It is said that a woman is a tigress, but when she meets the right man, she will become more and more gentle.
Joker Xue once said such a gentle sentence:? I won't be mean to my girl, and I won't lose my temper, because I know many people are good to her, but she only chose me, and I have no reason not to love him. ? Women's gentleness is spoiled by men, and men who really love you will always care about you.
A good husband can change your personality, bring stability to your mood and improve your happiness index.
A good husband can make a family flourish.
Some people have a happy married life because they have a good husband. A man, the pillar of the family, needs to shoulder the responsibility and burden of a family. A man's attitude towards his wife can also determine the degree of family harmony. After marriage, women need a sense of security more. When she takes off high heels for you, puts on an apron and cooks for you, you should understand that such a woman should love her all her life.
In fact, what women want in marriage is nothing more than men's care and preference. The more a man dotes on his wife, the more harmonious his family life will be. A good man will not leave all the family responsibilities to women, let alone use his own woman as a nanny.
A truly responsible man knows how to respect women, how to think from the perspective of women, and how to care for and care for women. In feelings, what men want is nothing more than understanding and consideration, while what women want is nothing more than love and care. Men take good care of women, regardless of career or family, will be smooth sailing. The more successful a man is and the more he knows how to love his wife, the happier his life will be.
A good husband can help your career.
A truly responsible man will not think that women are material. On the contrary, a man with nothing will show women's material.
A really good man is not how many women can walk around him, but that he always only takes the same woman with him. A really good man will not only teach you the skills of wandering the rivers and lakes, but also protect you. While teaching you to grow up, he will also protect you. That's why we should marry a good man.
Choosing the right husband is far more important than career, because it can measure a man's foreign trade, as well as his personality, ability, self-restraint, temperament and other conditions. It's not a rarity for a man to pour you water and buy a barbecue. What is really scarce is a man's speech, a man's business vision, a man's ability to control emotions, and his ability to control future scenes.
The best spouse is definitely not to say that two people go to darkness together. The really best spouses are teachers and friends in life. He can push you forward and make you better, instead of falling with you.
A truly responsible man will always grow up with you instead of leaving you behind. A good husband can broaden your career, improve your pattern, expand your contacts and make your life by going up one flight of stairs. He will comfort you when you are sad, and guide you when you are confused. Only with such a man can we always join hands and make ourselves better and better.
For women, an excellent husband is the most advanced card in life, because what kind of man a woman looks for also reveals her taste. A good career needs to be won by yourself, and a happy marriage needs to be won by yourself. If you are in full bloom in Xu Lai, you will meet whoever Xu Lai is. If you want to meet a better man, you must first become better, so that you can meet a perfect man. Choosing the right husband is the most successful thing for a woman.