It's really embarrassing to go out with girls and let others pay! I've been an idiot n times! I'm embarrassed to ask someone out to pay for it!

First, look at the girl's personality. If she is a picky person, you must spend money. But if she is the kind of woman who spends money casually, even if you spend more money on her, one way is to AA or pretend that she has something to do, or you agree that she won't go out recently because she is short of money. It is important to see what she says before deciding whether to lose face, but you don't have the capital. Remember that men should learn to be patient. I hope my answer is helpful to you.