Parents should discipline their children, not indulge them. Parents all over the world don't love children, but excessive protection and doting will delay the growth of children throughout their lives. As parents, they must deeply understand the harm of these wrong practices in order to be conducive to their healthy growth.
Therefore, in order to educate children well, let them get rid of their wayward bad habits, and educate children to keep the same thoughts. Especially when parents criticize their children, grandparents should never come forward to protect and interfere. When adults have different opinions, they should also avoid discussing with children.
2. Don't care too much about children.
Paying too much attention to children will make children develop the bad habit of relying on "others' attention". Children will always get used to the attention of others and feel that they are valuable only when others pay attention. In the future, children will also look for this kind of attention in every relationship. Once they lack this kind of attention, they are prone to distorted psychology.
Therefore, when a child completes a thing or is in progress, he can give appropriate praise and encouragement to enhance his self-confidence, but if praise is unrealistic, it will have a negative impact on the child.
Praise in the true sense should be given in time, encouragement and guidance at the same time after the child tidies up the toys or finishes something independently.
3. Don't blindly meet all the requirements of children.
Parents should be consistent with their children's unreasonable demands, explain the truth to their children, resolutely refuse them, and cannot accommodate them, because once they accommodate them, it will increase the difficulty of rejecting their children's unreasonable demands next time and lose an opportunity to correct their wayward shortcomings.
Parents can meet their children's requirements moderately; But be responsive to children, be obedient, and blindly meet all their requirements. Parents should not easily meet their children's requirements, but let them wait and be patient.
And tell children that the pursuit of life, even a small goal, will not be smooth sailing; Many things need to wait, endure, overcome difficulties and strive hard to get, which can not only prevent children from having too strong material desires, but also help to cultivate their self-control ability.