The fuse was that the tour guide took us to visit the jade shop in Xinjiang. Tourists seriously appreciate the exquisite jade ornaments from Hotan, Xinjiang, whether they buy them or not. Only Miss He was dragged by her boyfriend to visit them far away. When we chose the suet jade buckle, we were interrupted by Miss He's loud complaint. We only know through quarreling that Miss He and her boyfriend have been together for three years. No matter what holidays, her boyfriend will prevaricate her with no money, good feelings and no sense of ceremony, and Miss He has long wanted to buy jade.
When girls buy what they like, most of the criteria are that I am willing to buy if I have money, while boys like to judge whether it is worth buying by the value of the goods at any time.
The quarrel between lovers has always had its own reasons, and others can't persuade it. After the quarrel, Miss He went shopping alone, and her boyfriend probably knew that he was boring and went shopping by himself. When I checked out, I finally saw that the boy bought a jade pendant. Just when we thought he would take the initiative to apologize with the pendant, Miss He also came over. She asked happily whether to give it to her. As a result, the boy pulled back the bag in his hand and said, "Who said that how to send more than 3,000 pendants?" I want to leave it to my future wife. " We thought he was joking, but it turned out that he never gave the gift to He Laoshi. I didn't know they really broke up until the guide booked an extra room at the front desk the next day.
I thought the longer we spent together, the more inseparable we became. Finally, I found that the longer I look at people's hearts, the more I accumulate, and the easier it is for a little thing to crush people's hearts instantly.
Mr. Z and I have been sitting in the last row of the bus, and there is an empty seat. Miss He will accompany us all the way so that we can follow up the story. She asked me curiously, "I was born in 1986. It seems that you are younger than me. Are you married? " After getting my affirmative answer, she sighed and said, "I'm afraid I won't believe in love again these years."
As Miss Ho complained when she quarreled, her boyfriend never gave any expensive gifts during the three years together. In his opinion, it is very ceremonial to spend 80 yuan on a birthday meal on her birthday. Miss he has put up with it. On the one hand, I love him, on the other hand, I think what my boyfriend said is reasonable. If two ordinary families want to buy a house and get married by themselves, they will definitely save more money than others. But three years later, she found that he was not reluctant to spend money. On holidays, he brought hundreds of gifts to his relatives and never relented. It's just that he came to see her, which became extravagance and waste.
What impressed her most was that they went to IKEA with their girlfriends. When she was eating in the restaurant, she ordered 15 Swedish meatballs. Before she finished eating the rest, her boyfriend complained all the way that she wanted to listen to what she ordered. The originally pleasant party turned into an unpleasant weekend.
Girls want bride price and gifts, and boys say that talking about money hurts feelings; However, when girls are wasting, they can justifiably scold. Can such feelings really be called love?
Miss He said that because they have been in love for more than three years, both families know that they have been urging marriage. She also wants to get the certificate after the trip, but now it seems that this relationship can only stop here.
Miss He's boyfriend is not unwilling to spend money, but unwilling to spend money for her in front of him. Even a 3000 pendant can say such a thing to a future wife. You can imagine how uncertain he is about this three-year relationship.
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When Liu Shishi got married, many people were envious of her dream wedding, but few people noticed that Nicky Wu treated his ex-wife and Liu Shishi differently.
Nicky Wu's first wife was Ma Yashu. At that time, Nicky Wu gave Ma Yashu 1000 many crystal necklaces and 10000 diamond rings, but these were bought by Ma Yashu himself. The wedding was hasty and the wedding photos were taken casually. The wedding cars were all given by Ma Yashu's parents. After marriage, they didn't even have their honeymoon, so they went back to the crew to shoot.
Liu Shishi's dresses and accessories are all made by famous artists, and the total cost of the whole body is 725,000 RMB, while the cost of the wedding banquet is only 2 million RMB for the guests staying in Bali for three days and two nights, and the accompanying gifts of the guests are as high as 2,000 RMB each.
The contrast between Ma Yashu and Liu Shishi is worlds apart.
Some people may say that Nicky Wu didn't have that much money at that time, so she couldn't give it that much ostentation and extravagance, but do women really have to make ostentation and extravagance? I think what most girls want is a heart from a boy who is willing to spend time and energy on himself.
Whether a man loves you or not is judged by money. It seems vulgar, but it can give a simple and rude answer. We all know that the diamond itself is not valuable, but the story of "Love lasts forever, one will last forever" raises the price, but it is such a diamond ring endowed with special significance that can help you shine a clear picture of a person's heart at a critical moment. No big or small, no diamonds, but if there is nothing, it is probably not just a ring.
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There will be romantic relationships when you are in love, and there will be daily necessities after you get married.
Many people think that love has nothing to do with money. When you are in love, you can love me without anything. I don't know that after marriage, it's more rice, oil and salt.
Many girls feel very sensible, and they don't ask boys to pay anything for themselves when they fall in love and get married. The result is to smooth the edges and corners day after day and lose youth in trivial matters. At that time, they suddenly realized that they used to be a girl immersed in love, but now they can't find any traces of love.
A man who is willing to spend money for you cares about you at least temporarily, and a man who is unwilling to spend money for you is likely to be your "husband" who takes care of others temporarily. Instead of reasoning with them, let them find the right person.
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