Before going out, his mother Feng-Chiao Lin told him:
"Don't tell anyone that your father is Jackie Chan."
Young Fang Zuming don't know what mother means, can't help but ask:
"Why?"
"Because after you reveal your father's identity, someone will kidnap you!"
Feng-Chiao Lin said.
Looking at his mother's pleading eyes, Fang Zuming thought for a moment and nodded in agreement.
At this point, I can't tell who my father is, which has become the only trouble on Fang Zuming's growth path.
In his impression, dad always comes and goes in a hurry.
I am the man on my father's back.
Fang Zuming said.
At that time, Fang Zuming and his mother Feng-Chiao Lin lived in a big house in Los Angeles.
He often asks his mother why my father doesn't come to see me. Even if there is, he only comes for two weeks and never takes me out.
Feng-Chiao Lin told Fang Zuming that your father is a big star and very busy, so he usually can't come back to see you, but he always thinks of you.
Fang Zuming believed what his mother said.
But one night, he discovered the secret that belonged to his mother.
It was a hot night, and Fang Zuming, who couldn't sleep, was awakened by a strange sound.
At that time, only he lived with his mother and servants in the whole room.
Fang Zuming got out of bed and followed the sound to find the source of the strange sound.
Finally, he came to his mother's bedroom.
The voice came from Patricia Lam Fung Bridge's room, and it took him a while to recognize who it was.
That's the voice of mother secretly crying.
Before Feng-Chiao Lin knew Jackie Chan, he was a household name in Taiwan Province Province.
When they fell in love, Jackie Chan was not as famous as Feng-Chiao Lin.
But for her boyfriend Jackie Chan, Feng-Chiao Lin is optimistic and willing to be the woman behind him.
But there were many women behind Jackie Chan at that time.
Feng-Chiao Lin was not the first, much less the last.
Shortly after they fell in love, Feng-Chiao Lin became pregnant.
This incident surprised Jackie Chan.
Originally he wanted to marry one of his many girlfriends.
This time, I can't live without Feng-Chiao Lin.
In addition, the Japanese media announced the news of his fake marriage at that time.
Two fans committed suicide.
Jackie Chan understands that this has reached the "autumn of life and death"
Therefore, when Feng Qiaolin admitted to him that he was pregnant and needed to get married.
Jackie chan agreed.
He told Feng-Chiao Lin that he had to have this baby.
Feng-Chiao Lin was very excited to hear her boyfriend say this.
Then start preparing with great fanfare.
First of all, she decisively held a press conference and announced her retirement.
Then he went to America alone to have a baby.
During that time in America.
She once fantasized that Jackie Chan would come to see her scene.
Two people are crying with their children in their arms.
But Jackie Chan never came to see her, not once.
Because he is making a movie.
Disappointed Feng-Chiao Lin had to comfort himself.
"Jackie Chan belongs to his career. He can't even have it himself. How can I have him completely? "
It's 1982, and Fang Zuming is going to be born.
Jackie Chan arrived in America.
I took Father Lin and Feng Qiao to a restaurant on the top floor.
The wedding was hastily held.
Witnessed by many unrelated strangers,
Feng-Chiao Lin thus married into his old house.
The next day, Fang Zuming was born.
It can be said that Feng-Chiao Lin is lucky to marry Jackie Chan.
Jackie Chan chose her, not because he loves her more, but because he needs surgery.
After all, judging from Jackie Chan's attitude towards Wu Qili and his mother.
If no Japanese fans committed suicide, he might really let Feng-Chiao Lin abort the baby.
Only then can we see Fang Zuming today.
After getting married and having a baby, Feng-Chiao Lin felt that it was time for her husband to become a dragon.
But this is not the case.
Jackie Chan is very wary of his wife Feng-Chiao Lin.
At that time, he even suspected that Feng Xiaolin's behavior of having children was to take the opportunity to bind him.
Plus Jackie Chan had a friend who was cheated by his girlfriend before.
A friend's warning added to Jackie Chan's suspicion.
So Jackie Chan prepared a big house for Feng-Chiao Lin and his son, but only remitted them a fixed home every month.
At that time, Jackie Chan thought, "If I divorce in the future, she won't get my money."
Suspicion of his wife also influenced Jackie Chan's view of his son Fang Zuming to some extent.
So when I was a child, Jackie Chan was not very nice to Fang Zuming.
Not only do you not visit him often, but you don't give Fang Zuming a good look when you see him.
Once, Jackie Chan came to Los Angeles and lived at home.
Fang Zuming was very happy when he saw his father coming home, so he wanted to play with him.
So he ran to Jackie Chan, grabbed his key and threw it away.
Jackie Chan gave him an impatient look and went to pick up the key.
Fang Zuming kicked the key away before he had had enough fun.
Now Jackie Chan is completely angry.
Grab Fang Zuming with one hand and throw it on the sofa.
In this way, Fang Zuming is completely finished.
He doesn't know what he did to make his father so angry.
Tears fell uncontrollably.
Looking at his crying son, Jackie Chan's irritability increased instead of decreased.
He grabbed his son and prepared to teach him another lesson.
At this moment, hear the sound of Feng-Chiao Lin hurriedly blunt come over, eagerly said to:
"You are quick to apologize to dad! Hurry and apologize to Dad. "
There is something of a vibrato in the voice.
Perhaps the crying of the child influenced Jackie Chan, or perhaps Feng-Chiao Lin's low-key made Jackie Chan figure something out.
After this incident, Jackie Chan assured Feng-Chiao Lin:
"I swear, I will never hit him again."
After this incident, Jackie Chan began to reflect on his attitude towards his son Fang Zuming.
And began to approach his son intentionally or unintentionally.
Once, a friend asked him
"Jackie, do you know what your son wants?"
Jackie Chan looked puzzled after hearing this, and then his friend told him that Fang Zuming's wish was:
I hope my father will pick me up from school.
Jackie Chan thought for a moment, said nothing, and decided to satisfy his son's wish.
He called the driver and told him he was going to pick up Fang Zuming.
When school was over at one o'clock, Jackie Chan waited at the door half an hour in advance.
But as time went by, Jackie Chan still didn't wait for his son.
At that moment, the driver stopped Chen Long:
"Young master is waiting, have you arrived?"
Jackie Chan quickly said, "I am already at the gate of the primary school."
I heard Jackie Chan's reply on the other end of the phone. Somehow, there was a sudden silence before the sound came out.
"He is in middle school now."
Jackie Chan suddenly realized this and hurried to middle school.
When Jackie Chan arrived, Fang Zuming was standing on a slope, covered in sweat.
Maybe he was very happy when he learned that his father came to see him. He ran out of the classroom anxiously and ran to the school gate.
But as a result, I didn't meet the person I wanted to see.
When I got on the bus, the atmosphere was awkward. Fang Zuming felt wronged and stuck his head out of the window.
Jackie chan feels indefensible and can't say anything.
Halfway through the car, Fang Zuming spoke, not loudly, but very lethal.
"I'm already in middle school."
These short seven words made Jackie Chan like a lightning strike, and tears kept spinning in his eyes.
He quickly said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry."
It was an embarrassing experience. In an interview many years later, Jackie Chan talked about this matter and still could not help but sigh.
"Hey, always remember, I am so angry!"
Because of guilt, Jackie Chan finally began to take his children seriously.
Because of his childhood experience, he is very strict with Fang Zuming.
On the one hand, he hates iron not to produce.
On the other hand, it comes from his own prejudice against his son Fang Zuming.
We all know Jackie Chan's experience.
When he was very young, he was sent to Yu Zhanyuan, a martial arts student of Peking Opera to study there. Yu Zhanyuan is very strict with his disciples. The basic way to control children is to beat and punish them.
Jackie Chan is a martial artist who grew up beating, scolding and punishing.
So he suffered from childhood, but Fang Zuming didn't.
He has lived a rich life since he was born. He has never suffered, nor will he suffer.
Jackie Chan feels in his bones that people who have never suffered can't succeed.
In addition, when Fang Zuming was very young, there was no one to accompany him, so Jackie Chan didn't recognize this child who was not raised by himself and didn't suffer.
Therefore, he has high demands on his son Fang Zuming. He once said this in an interview.
"I will never be satisfied with Fang Zuming. He has 10, I want 15, he has 15, I want 20, and he has 100. I want 1 10. "
"I think everyone is better than him!"
Jiang Wen once invited Fang Zuming to make a play called The Sun Also Rises. With this role, Fang Zuming was nominated for Best Actor in Venice Film Festival.
According to his own words: "I should try my best to make Mr. Jiang Wen's film. I put my whole life in danger. "
Jiang Wen also commented on Fang Zuming. "He has a special sense of responsibility and is never tired."
But Fang Zuming's father Jackie Chan has nothing to say to his son.
Fang Zuming said, "He never praises me. It's good not to talk. If it is better, just give me a smile. "
I don't know how much bitterness is contained in the words.
In 20 14, Fang Zuming was arrested and imprisoned for taking drugs.
During his six months in prison, Fang Zuming read, wrote and wrote songs every day.
On the day of his release from prison, Jackie Chan personally greeted him at the prison gate.
I haven't seen you for half a year, and my son has changed a lot.
This time, when he got home, he could finally tidy up his shoes and take the bowl into the kitchen after dinner.
Jackie Chan was very happy to see all this. When he participated in the "Everyday Up" program, he joked:
"I said he'd better go back and sit for half a year every year."
This is of course a joke, but behind this joke, Jackie Chan is happy that his son is in prison.
Maybe this is the moment he waited for. He has been expecting his son to suffer.
He mentioned more than once in the interview:
"I hope he can fall as many times as possible."
This time, my son finally fell the hardest and suffered the most. He can finally be my son Jackie Chan.
So in the following days, Jackie Chan began to be kind to Fang Zuming.
Not only did he take him to acting, but he also left his legacy to him and Feng Qiaolin.
Even Fang Zuming himself said, "Dad used to be very strict, but now he will take me to meet some friends like his brother."
After this incident, Fang Zuming and Jackie Chan are more and more alike, but they are no longer like themselves.
Before he went to prison, Fang Zuming was actually a very polite and talented boy.
Fang Zuming has appeared in 2/kloc-0 movies and published 2 albums since her debut. He has won a music award and a film nomination award.
But his father never praised him once.
When he was a child, Jackie Chan asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up.
Fang Zuming replied that he wanted to make a film in the entertainment circle.
He said this partly because he wanted to try, and partly because he hoped to show his face in front of Jackie Chan one day and let his father recognize him once, even if only once.
I remember that Dong Shengyi once asked Fang Zuming to shoot "The True Color of Men" and asked him out on the set.
"Why do you want to make movies and sing? Just spend your dad's money slowly. Jackie Chan has a lot of money. "
Fang Zuming listened, made no answer, and bowed his head with a straight face.
At that time, Fang Zuming still wanted to prove himself, acting and singing, but now. ......
This drug abuse incident completely changed him.
After he was released from prison, Fang Zuming no longer chose to be himself. He chose to be a good son in Jackie Chan's eyes and Fang Zuming in the eyes of the public.
He no longer resists, and he no longer proves.
Peace of mind to be a lonely "dragon prince"
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