How to be a leader

As a leader, a person's ability, strength and experience are of course important, and some intangible things are called personality charm, which we define as leadership temperament here. The temperament of a leader should be cultivated from the following five aspects: 1. Self-confidence. A leader is a person who takes a group of people on the road and a group of people with ideals to where they want to go. The value of self-confidence lies in whether you can influence others when you are with others. Self-confidence can be manifested in the following four aspects: 1, image. Your value of the image Million. Every minute, your image may affect another person, especially when you are down and out. You must look like a successful person first, before someone will be willing to invest in you and follow you. So, pay attention to your dress, appearance, makeup and so on. Anytime and anywhere; 2. Eyes. Are your eyes firm? A person's eyes are a reflection of his inner confidence; 3. Language (1) gives people praise (2) gives people strength (3) gives people confidence (4) gives people wisdom (5) gives people direction. Experience. Self-confidence is an external strength, firmness and firmness, and internal self-confidence comes from internal experience and ability. Second, calm down. Sink, hold on. 1, goal 2, values. People who have achieved great things in ancient and modern times are people who stick to their own values. 3. Emotion. Don't be an emotional person, try not to have great joy and great sorrow. Of course, in addition to being extremely unstable, it will also hurt the body. An unstable person's face is a barometer. What happened on his face can be seen at a glance, and the fluctuation of his inner world is also obvious on his face. It is an ability to keep calm in the face of unexpected events. Emperor Kangxi acceded to the throne at the age of 8, and Ao Bai monopolized the power, which was very arrogant. He often embarrassed the emperor in the temple. Ao Bai had to kill anyone who wanted to kill Kangxi, and the emperor lived a peaceful life every day. Once little Kangxi was wronged again and ran to the back garden and shouted: Ao Bai, I must kill you. Grandma Xiaozhuang stopped behind and said, grandson, you are too impatient. If you dare to shout like that again, you will have been killed by him before you kill him! From that day on, Kangxi waited for eight years and never made any noise to kill Ao Bai. He endured humiliation for eight years and killed Ao Bai at the age of 16. This is the composure of an emperor! Third, the courage to take responsibility 1, the courage to drive 2, the courage to learn 3, the courage to admit mistakes 4, the courage to take responsibility 4, the sunshine is reflected in the following five aspects: 1, optimism. Get into the habit of looking at everything positively. At that time, a group of us traveled to Laoding Mountain in Changzhi, and everyone was going to draw lots in a temple that was said to be very strange. As a result, I shook out the next sign at the first sign, and everyone was speechless immediately. At that time, our team experienced a big storm, and everyone has not yet come out of the haze. If they believe that sign, it will determine their confidence in the future. So, I untied the sign: "This bamboo tube in my hand is our destiny. There are two kinds of signs in the bamboo tube, one is the upper sign and the other is the lower sign. The symbols above represent success, happiness and auspiciousness, and the symbols below represent failure, poverty and poverty. This bamboo tube and the two signing moments in my hand are in my hand. I shake it and shake it out, which means that in the long river of our future life, we have killed failure, poverty and poverty, and the rest is success, happiness and auspiciousness! " Everyone is relieved. It seemed a bit deceptive at that time, but in retrospect, I am willing to bring confidence and happiness to others! Coincidentally, all the "unlucky people" gathered together that day and almost all of them took the next sign. A leader has won the best brand, and they are all unhappy and envious of others' next brand ... It is this attitude that has made a group of leaders today. So, everything that happens has a good side. Even if you go to jail, you can list some benefits, such as: (1) no need to buy a house or rent a house; (2) Eat three meals a day regularly, and someone will send it; (3) Free re-education; (4) We can also make a group of like-minded friends ... After hearing this, some people are willing to go to jail ... Therefore, it is very important for us to develop the habit of positive thinking. 2. enthusiasm. Leaders should have the enthusiasm to shine wherever they shine. 3. Take the initiative. Successful people are positive people. 4. Health. Don't show physical or mental illness and fatigue. A leader is a person who takes the bad side and shows the good side to others. Language should also be healthy, green and environmentally friendly, and learn to praise. 5. humor Let the place where you appear burst into laughter, and let the people around you enjoy a high happiness index with you. Fifth, rigor. Performance in the following three aspects: 1, rigorous work. Developing a rigorous work style will make people feel safe. A person's quality depends on the work done by his hands. How to make the work rigorous: (1) clear goals (2) detailed planning (3) meticulous preparation (2) rigidity in getting along with people. Are you always considerate when you get along with others and never hurt them? Your carefulness and meticulousness will make people feel comfortable when they are with you. 3. rigorous thinking. It is reflected in whether you have the following three kinds of thinking: (1) positive thinking (2) causal thinking (3) essential thinking. Learn to think positively about everything, consider the law of cause and effect before and after, and explore the essence of things. A man rode a donkey to catch sheep. Passers-by advised him to ride the donkey in front and the sheep behind him to speed up. The bell on the sheep's neck rang, so he knew if the sheep was there, so he followed it. The bell rang all the way. As soon as I turned around, the sheep disappeared and I saw the bell tied to the donkey's tail. The man was remorseful and asked passers-by urgently. Passers-by told him that the sheep had gone up the hill. If he goes up the mountain to look for sheep, he can look after the donkey for him and listen to the donkey bark. When he came back from the mountain, when the donkey was not there, he began to cry, but he saw a man beating his chest and crying by the pool. He asked and learned that his bag of gold and silver jewelry had fallen into the pool, but he couldn't swim. Whoever catches it will enjoy it with him. The man took off his clothes in a hurry, got into the water, but didn't see the jewelry, so he went ashore and lost his clothes ... Without rigorous thinking, he would be in a hurry and make mistakes again and again. Many people are just delirious, but they don't stop. The temperament of a leader is not formed in a day, but is formed by the accumulation of several days and years. I hope that one day each of us can become a charismatic and dignified leader.