It is not easy to make children sympathize with their parents, starting with getting them involved in housework at home. Not only the elder sister, but also the younger brother, as long as they can participate, they should participate. This is very necessary for a family's life.
If the two brothers and sisters look alike and the mother is eccentric, it is not good for the younger sister to take care of the younger brother or even wash his clothes. For example, two brothers and sisters go to school outside and have the ability to do their own things. Why do you want your sister to wash clothes for your brother? My brother is a good boy, isn't my sister my own child? What age is it now? You still prefer boys to girls. Obviously, men and women are the same, and it should not be this good or that bad. This is not a positive guidance for children's education. Are boys born more expensive than girls? Of course not. Therefore, it is absolutely unnatural for my sister to help my brother wash clothes. It is my sister's duty for my brother to help, but it is my sister's duty not to help.
If my sister is my sister and my brother is my brother, will my mother still let my brother wash my sister's clothes? Of course not. Therefore, for their children, a bowl of water should be flat. If it is too inclined, it will only aggravate the contradictions within the family, and it is also a disguised form of reducing brotherhood. With such treatment, can my sister and brother still love each other? My sister will think that she is my brother's servant, and my brother doesn't know how to make a living. She will feel that she is a boy and deserves this special care, which will have a wrong influence on her values.