? Nowadays, children's academic pressure is much greater than when we were young. I remember when we were in primary school, we came home from school every day and just played around. Even if we have homework such as reciting and writing new words, we can finish it quickly at school. When we get home, we just let ourselves go. Nowadays, children carry heavy schoolbags every day. Even if you come home from school, you have to do your homework at least 10 before you can go to bed. If they write slowly, they can't imagine when they will fall asleep. They must get up at seven o'clock the next day. In some schools, regardless of lunch and lunch break at noon, either parents take them home, or take them to the remedial classes near the school for lunch break, or bring their own dry food and rest on the table. In the long run, children can't keep up with nutrition, energy and body. What is the result of the vicious circle?
? Booking a bed from pregnancy, accompanying a child after birth, sending a baby-care class at the age of 2, going to primary school can't meet the needs of public schools, and private schools draw lots and so on. Junior high school is very top-notch and has the opportunity to choose a good school, and the rest are drawn lots. Many parents are forced to borrow money to buy a house, hoping that their children can have better public schools. Even so, there is no guarantee that junior high school will be a good school. In order not to delay their children, many parents are willing to bite the bullet and send their children to private schools, knowing that private schools are extremely expensive. First, because it can be repaired until 8 pm, it is not necessary to take time off to pick up the children at 5 o'clock every day to affect the work, which meets the needs of most office workers; Second, most private schools have nine-year courses. As long as the results are not bad in the end, at least you can ensure that you can go on and avoid a new round of crushing parents and children in junior high school.
? The road to parenting is slow. When I was young, I was worried about the health of my children. When I first entered school, I was very worried about my children's study. After graduation, I am worried about my children's work. After working for several years, I am worried that my children will get married. After having grandchildren, I take care of them day after day, year after year, and I have no regrets. China's parents are really worried about raising their children for 99 years. Poor wind, difficult!
? Sometimes we will say that XXX is too self-centered, too personal and too ostentatious, but no matter who is a mother, she will change more or less for her children and even lose herself, and devote herself to her family and children. Nowadays, more and more people don't want to get married and have children, but just want to live their own lives according to their own wishes. This is not unreasonable.
? Fortunately, with the development and progress of society, people's minds are more and more open and inclusive, and you won't be unable to live because you don't take the traditional route. Of course, some people are urging marriage, but we wouldn't care too much if it weren't for our parents. After all, we can support ourselves, and what others think is beyond our control, so we don't have to worry.
? Everyone has his own ideas and the right to choose his own life. Respect each other's differences, tolerate different cultures and not hurt each other. This is the sunshine.