Liu Dage of Tangxian County, Baoding City, Hebei Province is a door-to-door son-in-law. He met a "trouble" According to Liu Dage, he has been working hard outside for years, first in the northeast and then in Shenzhen. When I came back, I wanted to spend the next year with my family, but my daughter-in-law kicked me out. I climbed over the wall to go home and my daughter-in-law kicked me out. In desperation, he had to temporarily live in an old factory building on the hill around the village. Seeing the end of the year, he was anxious to go home, so he called the mediator, hoping to help him go home.
My husband worked outside all the year round and finally went home for the New Year. Generally, we should welcome him in quickly and treat him well. How can this daughter-in-law shut her husband out? Daughter-in-law said that this family has nothing to do with him. She hasn't been home for more than 20 years. What makes her even more angry is that when her mother died, several people called him, but the son-in-law didn't return, and finally hung up and didn't even answer.
Regarding the daughter-in-law's accusation, Liu Dage explained that he had cerebral thrombosis a few years ago. When my mother-in-law died, she was so ill that she couldn't lift her legs or walk. Daughter-in-law said he had been talking nonsense. Even though I have been ill for two years, I haven't been home for several years. In front of the mediator, the daughter-in-law asked a few more questions.
"Do you know when the eldest son got married?"
"Do you know when the second child got married?"
"Do the two daughters-in-law know you?"
"Now the grandson is more than ten years old. Have you seen him? "
For this series of questions, Liu Dage began to prevaricate. This is a little strange. Marriage and funeral in rural areas is a major event. I have to go home anyway. Why didn't Liu show up once? In this regard, Liu Dage gave an explanation, saying that when the child got married, he just found a job outside and was too busy to leave.
So what is this old Liu doing so busy? During the conversation, Brother Liu revealed that he had taken over the work of gazebo, artificial lake and rockery. A fellow villager in this village has also been to the Northeast in his early years, and he knows something about his situation, which proves that he is indeed a contractor. It stands to reason that the contractor should make money. Does Lao Liu subsidize the family?
Speaking of this issue, Liu Dage's daughter-in-law is even more angry, saying that he has never paid a penny to his family. Even when his mother-in-law died, no one came and no money was given. I raised my two children with great pains. When the sons go to college, there is no pot at home, and the children are studying while working. Lao Liu denied this, saying that at that time, he would transfer 1000 yuan of living expenses to his children every month, and he would also give 9000 yuan of tuition at the end of the year.
Their stories are always quite different. Who is lying? In order to verify the authenticity, the mediator wants to call his son and dial him face to face. Unexpectedly, the son said, "He (father) never cared about me and never gave me money." Hearing his son say this, Liu Dage was somewhat silent. The mediator knows that he hasn't found the crux yet. There must be a reason why Lao Liu didn't go home for so many years and made money without subsidizing his family.
Brother Liu claimed that a lot of project money had not been paid back, but then his daughter-in-law pulled out a photo from her mobile phone, which was an intimate photo of Lao Liu and a woman in Henan. The other person put his arm around his neck, and both of them smiled happily. The daughter-in-law said that someone else found it from her husband's circle of friends and then forwarded it to her. It seems that she was blocked when she was walking in circles. For this photo, Liu Dage said that he is a square dance dancer and has a good relationship. ...
Speaking of which, the facts can basically be guessed. The mediator also felt that there was no need to persuade Liu Dage's daughter-in-law to take him in, just saying that the family should give him a chance to mend his ways. Lao Liu said that his illness is getting worse and worse now, and he can't go to work any more. After the New Year, he will show people a door, pick up a scrap and earn some pocket money. The only thing I want now is that the end of the year is coming. I don't want to stay in the mountains, I want to spend the New Year at home.
I think as you expected, the daughter-in-law still didn't agree to let him go home, but she didn't do everything. The son said that although it was not good, he had to call his father after all. Two sons bought Liu grain and 1000 kilograms of coal, and sent them to the scrap factory to ensure that he was not hungry or frozen. Whether he can go home in the future depends on his own performance.
It is not a bad thing for a person to be enterprising. In real life, many people neglect their families in order to enter their careers. It's just that family should be the source and goal of your career, and the purpose of making money is to make your family live better. At the same time, no matter how busy you are at work, you should take time out for your family, at least when there is something at home. Lao Liu seldom goes out to work and never comes back for many years, so he is indifferent to things at home.
I hope Brother Liu Can will really warm his family's hearts with practical actions as he said, and move down the mountain to go home as soon as possible. Do you think his family should give him a chance until he is accepted?