Busy every day, running around worrying about family fatigue, in the end, what should happen is inevitable. It's better to let nature take its course and not work too hard. So if you want a family, this constellation is average.
So don't be persistent, just do what you should do. If you want to change this situation, do more good deeds and be kind to others, you'd better have faith and Buddhism. But don't worry, everything has its own destiny. Thank you, may the Buddha bless you!