If you want something good, you are eager to win, and your in-laws are only busy for the time being.
After all, in the end, it is also a good thing for the nobles to lead them back to their hometown.
Look at the following story about Liu Bei's adoption in Soochow. Liu Bei has Kong Ming and Zhao Yun, and Joe helps him. Didn't he win the beauty in the end?
The wonderful description of "strategy" in Romance is nothing more than the strategy and wits of Zhou Yu and Kong Ming. The wedding of Liu Bei and Wu Dong is the most popular part in Fifty-four Chapters.
In order to get Jingzhou out, Zhou Yu had to come up with a plan. When Liu Bei lost his wife, he pretended to be sympathetic and said that he would take Liu Bei's sister Sun Quan as a concubine to make the two families better. The ultimate goal, of course, is to trick Liu Bei into China. Do not kill Liu Bei, take Jingzhou. The plot intention of this plan is so obvious that even Liu Bei knows it. When Kong Ming asked Liu Bei for permission, Liu Bei really didn't want to. He said, "Zhou Yu is determined to harm Liu Bei. Can he go to a dangerous place lightly? " "Of course, Kong Ming knew Zhou Yu's plan, but he still encouraged Liu Bei to go to Soochow to see relatives. He didn't do this to make Liu Bei underestimate his enemy, but he knew exactly how things could be arranged and how to turn the corner. Not only that, he finally wanted Liu Bei to marry a beautiful wife without losing Jingzhou. Let Zhou Yu "lose his wife and lose his soldiers." "
The reason why Kong Ming dared to do so, according to the romance, was because he "had a good omen for Bu Yi", so he encouraged Liu Bei to get married. This mysterious description, from a modern point of view, should be said that he has a full understanding of the other party's current overall situation and knows the ins and outs of this matter, so he is confident that as long as he carefully arranges, he can turn a crisis into an opportunity, and he will also take advantage of it and let the other party suffer some losses.
He arranged for Zhao Yun to go out and lead troops to protect Liu Bei. Gave him a trick up his sleeve and told him to take turns walking. There is a reason why Kong Ming sent Zhao Yun instead of Guan and Zhang. Guan, Zhang and Zhao are brave, but their temperaments are different. Mao Zonggang made a general comment 35 times ago, saying that Cai Mao wanted to assassinate Liu Bei: "Zhao Yun turned around outside Xiangyang City for several times, but he didn't see Liu Bei near Tanxi River. It can be said that he is in a hurry. If Francois were here, he would kill Cai Mao. If the cloud is strong, we can catch Cai Mao and get my brother back from him. Anken let Cai Mao go gently, but he found a new field himself. Three people are brave, and Zilong is a human being, very delicate and stable, and everyone has their own personality and is different. " This passage is quite vivid by comparing the personalities of Zhang and Zhao. Of the three, Zhang Fei is impulsive, Guan Gong is sometimes reserved, and Zhao Yun is delicate and calm. Therefore, Zhao Yun should be the best escort general for this dangerous trip and treacherous trip, so as to be foolproof. Zhao Yun's calmness and delicacy are the best talents to carry out Kongming's plan in unpredictable journey. This is also an example of Kong Ming being good at employing people. Good use of people lies in knowing people.
Kong Ming taught Zhao Yun how to play tricks and Liu Bei how to cooperate. So, after Liu and Zhao and his party came to Soochow, before meeting Sun Quan and others, Liu Beixian went to see Joe, while the sergeant deliberately went to the city to buy and sell things, and the legend about Liu Bei's son-in-law came into being.
Qiao Guo has always been the father of a beautiful woman in Jiangdong, and also the husband of Sun Quan and Zhou Yu. Liu Bei invited Joe Lao Guo according to the ceremony, and reported to him that he had come to Wu Dong to meet his relatives. Joe and Sun Quan's mother are good in-laws. Hearing the news, they thought it was a big deal and didn't know it until now. With some complaints, they ran to their mother Wu Guotai and congratulated them in time. When Wu Guotai heard this, he was in the fog. Of course she doesn't know about it. So I immediately sent someone out to inquire. Therefore, the whole city has long clamored for Sun Quan to marry his sister and Liu Bei. The country is so surprised, because her daughter is married, what makes her completely ignorant? So I called Sun Quan to prove that "Sun Quan is a very filial person", but I dare not hide it from my mother, so I have to tell the truth. However, Guo Tai loves his daughter so much that he agrees with Joe Lao Guo that even if he wins Jingzhou, he will be laughed at by the whole world. Egged on by Joe, he asked to see Liu Bei's talents before making a decision. Because Sun Quan was filial and didn't dare to disobey, he had to arrange Guo Tai to see Liu Bei. When Guo Tai saw that Liu Bei was a handsome man and could be a son-in-law, he immediately decided to recruit Liu Bei as his son-in-law.
Before and after the marriage, and later, I left Soochow with Mrs. Sun, where all the thrills were resolved by Kong Ming's pre-arranged coup and Zhao Yun's courage and calmness. I don't need to elaborate.
Among them, it is particularly worth mentioning that Kong Ming was able to use Zhou Yu's plan to get into the trap because he had a clear understanding of the temperament of relevant people in Wu Dong and the relationship between them, so he could use them one by one to make them echo each other and contain each other, making Wu Dongren a pawn unconsciously. The most important thing is that he knows that Sun Quan is a very filial person, so he studies with Sun Quan's filial piety. And Joe's position and attitude towards life, as well as his harmonious relationship with him, have of course been taken advantage of. And although Liu Bei is older, but good looks, will win the favor of Wu Guotai this layer, should also be as early as Kong Ming expected. And all kinds of possible risks coming and going have long been speculated and prevented. 』