First of all, gaining weight is your love for her, but you have raised her well. When two people are together for a long time, they will inevitably lack freshness and become indifferent to their mentality and appearance. Because we live together day and night, no matter what changes have taken place, the other party can be aware of it. Because of this, our eyes on each other have also declined. We are no longer demanding of ourselves or each other, because in any case, the other person is the one you want to spend your life with and the one you love.
But if life is too dull, then the flame of love will go out. We also need to add some fun to our life, add some other elements to our boring life, add a fire to our love and make the fireworks of love brighter. When the other person thinks that you care about her, she will question whether she is worthy of your infatuation. So as to strive to become better step by step, in order to show you a better self.
Every woman likes a slim figure, which will make them more confident. So they will lose weight for you and return to your beautiful face. Sometimes solving problems too actively can have the opposite effect. Maybe you just want to make your partner better, but in her eyes, you may take your words as a sign that you don't like her. Therefore, when solving such problems, we should take gentle measures, pay more attention to her, and let her change herself and become better.