0 1, sister-in-law should straighten her position. My sister's house doesn't belong to my own. Sister-in-law doesn't let her sister and daughter eat at the table, so she really doesn't treat herself as an outsider. Obviously, she didn't put herself in the right position. This home is not your home, but the home of my sister and brother-in-law. It's nothing to get married and take the children home for dinner. It's a visit at best. It's not surprising that my sister-in-law went to visit her sister. But it doesn't make sense not to let someone else's little daughter serve at dinner. Even if there is not enough room, the children need to sit somewhere else to eat, and it should not be said by my sister-in-law. Besides, why don't the children she brought down from the table? They are children, too. If they want to give way, it will be their children, not the children of the host family. Put yourself in others' shoes. If the brother-in-law doesn't bring the children to dinner, will the sister-in-law's family be willing? Just because they are such guests, they will never agree.
02. Guests should have a sense of being guests. It is unlucky not to let the host family eat the staff's brother-in-law stall at the dinner table. If they get married, they will dally with their children and eat and drink, and they will not be the daughter of their brother-in-law. Decide the dining staff on the table without authorization, and drive the brother-in-law and daughter off the table. I think such people should reduce their contact. If it is not a necessary holiday, it is best not to contact. Because they only care about themselves and are selfish. You can see a person's character from small things, and there are such people around me. My aunt is just like this sister-in-law Every Spring Festival, she doesn't let her children eat at the dinner table, except her husband and children. Every time we quarrel about it, everyone is not in the mood to eat in the end. I don't give lucky money to my children during the Spring Festival, but I ask my relatives to give them lucky money. If I were this brother-in-law, I would drive my sister-in-law out of the house directly. The more I accommodate such people, the more I rub my nose and face.
03, my sister-in-law was embarrassed by her brother-in-law's daughter. As a sister, if there is nothing special, it is best not to go to my sister's house often. Because once you go to find your brother-in-law, you have to spend time and thought to receive it. Too many times, others will think that your sister-in-law is trying to take advantage of her brother-in-law's family. In addition, if you are not good to your brother-in-law's children and often make things difficult for them, it will make your sister's position very embarrassing. In the future, the quarrel between husband and wife must be caused by the fuse of sister-in-law. Many couples quarrel because brother-in-law and sister-in-law often come to take advantage. Although this sister-in-law didn't ask for money or gifts, she was not much better.
Finally, to sum up, whether you are married or not, you should refrain from going to your sister's house. Don't bring your old lifestyle at home to your sister's new family. Just because my sister can tolerate her waywardness doesn't mean my brother-in-law can tolerate it. Everyone has a different temper. She is too pretentious to offend people easily.