1. Pay attention to your interests
Interest is the easiest soil to grow dreams. Always pay attention to what you love, and dreams are also the seeds of growth.
First, look at how much you know about people like you, what they are doing, what kind of life they recommend and what they want, and then try and get in touch with what you don't know. If one day you do something, you are happy to do it, it is easy to do it well, and there is room for exploration, you may find it.
2. Desire notebook
Prepare a notebook and write down what you want. Suppose there is an Aladdin magic lamp that can satisfy your countless wishes. Write every day, big or small, and then stick to it for a week or more. You will see what you repeat the most times and basically understand what you want.
This method is not only to help you find your dream by repeatedly writing things, but also to find out what you really want by constantly asking yourself. Of course, dreams may change with your growth, but you only need to pay attention to yourself now, and your future dreams will come naturally.
3. Self-questioning method
Ask yourself a question, if you die in ten years, what do you want to accomplish before you die? Or what kind of life do you want you to live in ten years?
Constantly asking yourself can not only help you find what you want, but also help you find what you need to do now in order to realize what you want.
How to realize your dream?
Laozi said, "great things in the world must be done in detail, and difficult things in the world must be done easily." Fat people don't eat in one breath, but stutter.
With a dream, you need to break it down into small executable goals as much as possible. However, in the process of goal setting and decomposition, many people don't know how to decompose it reasonably and scientifically, which leads to many goals and plans becoming empty checks, but they still stand still. For example, many people learn English and let themselves get up at 6: 30 every morning to learn English. This is feasible in theory and practice. Most people often give up after a few days. Why? Because you got yourself into trouble.
If you find a time where you can control yourself without difficulty every day, such as after lunch or some free time in the afternoon, you don't have to worry about getting up early and then choose a relatively easy number.
For example, memorizing 50 words is as easy as watching a short film, which makes them much easier to do, but achieves the same effect as learning English. In this way, they can persist for a longer time, thus forming a habit and becoming persevering people. It can be seen how important reasonable decomposition and planning are.
The target needs to be decomposed, and the decomposed target may need to be decomposed. Your goals will not be linked by an effective line until you implement what you can do every day. Such a goal is the ultimate goal. Otherwise, it is probably just a fantasy.