Second, your marriage may be hindered by some surrounding environment, which may come from family members or financial problems.
Third, 10,000 yuan must be what you said. It is in short supply recently.
Fourth, it may also involve some recent legacy issues of Grandpa.
In a word, you still love your grandfather very much. Maybe there are many things that make you sad and embarrassed again. . . Just make a good adjustment and it will be OK.