As we all know, everyone's family has their own fortune and destiny, and each has its own characteristics, but we need to find the right methods and skills to achieve the effect of prosperous wealth. Let's see how the luck of rich people is the most effective.
How to be prosperous is the most effective. 1 Have a harmonious relationship and keep a good house.
Emotional harmony is the foundation. Good luck at home has nothing to do with staying at home every day, but if there is no popularity at home, then luck is equal to no vitality. Therefore, many people who choose to work in different places, their wives and children stay at home and work outside, are not lucky! But if there is a big family with a large population, a wife and children, parents and brothers, and they are happy, not alone, not bullied, and some people know how to be warm and cold, it is considered lucky. Of course, if you are happy at work and enjoy family happiness at home, that is the best.
The way of running a family includes filial piety to the elderly, dedication to the lover, unity and friendship to brothers and sisters, and moral education to the youth. In the tradition of China, filial piety is the first virtue, because your attitude towards the elderly will really affect the attitude of children towards themselves in the future, whether to continue good or evil, which is manifested in the word filial piety; Be single-minded to your lover, including the relationship between rights and obligations. You have the right to care for your lover, and you also have the obligation to provide care for your lover. You are used to urging your lover to change his mind, because urging is far less effective than encouraging; Unity and love for brothers and sisters, unity and strength, can do things like bamboo, but also can not be bullied by outsiders; Children's moral education, children's moral education, can have a family style The ancients said, "Virtue has been passed down for more than ten generations, followed by farming, poetry and books, and wealth for three generations." This profoundly illustrates the importance of moral education.
Good housekeeping also includes eating and drinking well, which is the most basic daily life of a family. Instead of pursuing luxury and richness in diet, you can also pursue health and health preservation. Living includes reasonable and healthy daily living habits, and building decoration pays attention to geomantic omen.
Hold good thoughts and do good deeds.
The first spring in Xiangyang is always there, and the accumulation of good deeds is not limited to celebration. There are four things that people think are the most ethical to do good. First, filial piety. Buddha said that supporting parents once is better than supporting a hundred monks. Many people are used to going out to worship Buddha and pray for blessings, but they swear at the old people at home and have evil thoughts. How can family luck be good? Second, save lives. As the saying goes, saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda. Third, build bridges and pave the way to support education. Building bridges can benefit millions of people, paving roads can benefit millions of people, and education can benefit future generations. Fourth, release. Releasing is a good thing for Buddhism to promote merit first, but folk customs are more accustomed to people-oriented, so human life comes before other lives. Buddhism advocates the equality of all beings. In fact, release can cultivate a person's good thoughts and deeds. Release is commonly used in folk customs to help people eliminate disasters and diseases and prolong life. In fact, it is also one of the commonly used blessing methods. The above four things are the four things that people think are the most meritorious. If they do well, the family fortune will be blessed and the family fortune will flourish more easily. What needs to be understood here is that there is no need for anyone to see a good thing, and there is no need to be sad because no one knows what you have done.
Know your responsibilities, know your responsibilities.
People are born with responsibilities. A person's responsibility is to live a good life, make himself healthy, happy, ambitious, positive and strive to do his duty well. Next, everyone should know that he is a member of the family and society. Therefore, it is also a responsibility to take care of his family and outsiders. Knowing the responsibility, you have to abandon willfulness, because the essence of willfulness is selfishness. A person has done his job well and lived a good life, but if he forgets his family and his return to society, it will damage his virtue and ruin his family. The greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, and we cannot engage in egalitarianism.
Be tolerant and broaden your horizons.
We know that the world can hold as much as the heart is big. If you are tolerant, you should not only tolerate your own faults, but also tolerate the faults of others. Being too narrow-minded will ruin the family fortune. Although Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions claimed to be a good housekeeper and extremely clever, she was "obsessed with the authorities and lost her life" because of haggling over every ounce. Chen Peng's Interpretation of Dreams puts forward a term here, which is called mind phase. When your mind conflicts with the truth, please hold your mind. A broad vision is the basis of a person's foresight. Only by being good at communication, reading, understanding the outside world and learning new life skills can he keep himself from decay and the whole family from falling behind the society.
Get rid of the habit of damaging the family fortune.
In addition to the well-known cheating, cheating and even worse criminal habits, sloppy habits and dirty habits, Chen Peng Dream Interpretation Agency has sorted out eleven habits that are most harmful to family fortune. Let's get rid of them together.
1, the habit of dirty export.
Literacy is an important standard to measure a family's education, and virtue is a means to detect literacy. Export pollution is considered to be of low quality, which will lead to gentlemen staying away from each other and villains getting together easily. Dirty export is more likely to cause mass annihilation, all kinds of right and wrong.
2. I am used to sighing, getting sick, complaining and frowning.
There is an ancient saying that it takes three years to sigh. Accustomed to the habit of complaining about illness will first lead to family disharmony, and then make the body worse and worse. Habitual frowning and pouting can easily lead to loneliness and unfavorable popularity.
3. Pick your nose in public, roll your eyes, pick your teeth and lick your feet unabashedly.
It's disgusting to pick your nose and leak money, roll your eyes and provoke villains, and pick your teeth and be stingy in public. None of this is good for your fortune.
4, ear piercing and other habits that hurt the body.
Chen Peng's dream interpretation once wrote an article against ear piercing, which means normal ear piercing. As long as you don't wear too ostentatious earrings, you will give women extra points. But if you make a bunch of holes in your ears and make irregular holes, that's a blessing. Habits harmful to health include tattooing pictures and texts that are not recognized by local customs, staying up late, drinking, overeating, dieting, indulging, dying, and avoiding medical treatment, all of which are harmful to good luck.
5. Kindness has no principle, and kindness has no bottom line.
Some people often turn over some swearing words, saying that turning them over will add happiness and longevity to their families. Some people will sympathize with the normal legal treatment suffered by a criminal who kills more people than goods. Some people will release poisonous snakes and mice in places where people often walk. Some people will eat, drink and have fun with people who have just committed atrocities against their families. They like to be proud of making friends with criminals and hooligans, people who often do immoral things, and people who have no bottom line in jokes. All kinds of good behaviors with no bottom line and good habits without principles will make people who have these habits lose their caring family, friends, family wealth and even their own value and life. A friend said when consulting, I really can't forget my hatred for a person who often insults my parents in public. Chen Peng's answer to dream interpretation is that kindness should have a bottom line and principles. For this kind of person, you need to let him know your principles. Of course, scolding is the worst revenge. Confucius said, good for good.
6. Unwilling to express your habits and lying habits.
Is silence golden? Don't people who know themselves need to explain? In fact, expressing intention is to respect each other. If you don't know how to express yourself, it's easy to misinterpret your wishes and get unwanted or disliked results. Therefore, grievances and anger are caused by ignorant habits that are unwilling to express. Good luck is even harder! If you don't want to express yourself, it will be misinterpreted and lead to bad luck. Then, the habit of lying will dust your fortune, and habitual lying will lead to no real friends and good popularity. It's too difficult! It is even harder for nobles to have a blessing! Lonely lifestyle is most often manifested in people who are used to lying.
7. Greedy habits.
Vulnerable to officials and villains and various disasters. This habit includes petty gain and gambling.
8. Leisure habits in the bedroom.
The bedroom is a place to recuperate, not a place for you to meditate, not a place for you to work, not a place for you to take outsiders for entertainment. Especially in married families, both husband and wife have not yet entered menopause. Never bring other messy elements into this private bedroom. Otherwise, the family is not harmonious and easy to fall apart. The habit of leaving the bedroom door open can easily lead to family disharmony, especially the relationship between husband and wife, which will lead to many problems because of disharmony with other family members.
9. The habit of throwing change and spending money indiscriminately.
It's hard to save money when you lose your family wealth, and it's easy to get into trouble and die in misery when you spend money at a critical moment.
10, wayward habit, arrogant habit.
Willfulness is a moody behavior, regardless of the endurance of physical and economic conditions and the feelings of others. Arrogance is synonymous with going its own way. The former is easy to consume itself, while the latter is easy to be hurt by villains and accidents. Arrogant habits include smoking, spitting, making noise, doing exaggerated actions and so on in public.
1 1, arms turned outwards, not loving the habit of home.
Such people are often called by the people to collect debts. Their family doesn't love outsiders, and they give all kinds of benefits and alms to outsiders, but they treat their families coldly, disloyal and unfilial, and have good family wealth. It is out of the question. Know honor and disgrace, have virtue! Without virtue, there is no wealth, and people do not take it.
How to prosper is the most effective? Look around your room; If you are not at home, please think back to what your room looked like when you left home not long ago: Is there dust on the floor? Whether there are mountains of back-dated magazines on the sofa; Whether the wardrobe is messy; Are there any oil stains on the kitchen stove? ...
If so, be careful, your life may be full of danger. This is by no means alarmist, but comes from the philosophy of life sweeping the world: sweeping power.
After years of research, Harvard Business School found a phenomenon: successful people with strong happiness often have a very clean and tidy home environment; Unfortunately, people usually live in chaos and filth.
From a small family to everyone, a successful enterprise is often smooth; On the contrary, an enterprise on the verge of bankruptcy must have a dirty corner.
The process of cleaning is the process of handling, selecting and discarding, and it is the interaction between you and the environment. A clean environment clearly shows your logic and organization.
The God of Wealth likes to live in a clean and bright home.
You travel: Two friends warmly invite you to live in her house. My friend's house is clean, bright and tidy. My friend's house is dirty, messy and smelly. Whose house do you choose to live in?
It must be clean, bright and tidy.
And God is as wise as you, and God likes to live in such a clean and bright home. I think the god of wealth frequents your house, so take action to clean it!