Ghost in white: lonely and lacking in vitality
In boys' dreams, there is often a female ghost with long hair and white clothes standing in the lake, showing her upper body. The boy was born in a rich family. He is the only child in the family. Growing up, no matter what he wants, his parents will be satisfied. However, due to his parents' busy work, there are few opportunities for emotional exchange between them. To outsiders, he should live a happy life. But in fact, his heart is extremely painful, and he longs for the care and love of his parents. However, parents use money instead of emotional communication. For him, money can't fill the lack of affection, so there will be a female ghost in white standing in the water in his dream.
This is a case encountered by Chenrui Cai, a psychological counselor. Chenrui Cai said that the ghost in white is the most common image in our dreams. They are characterized by long hair fluttering and listless, representing depressed mood. White symbolizes purity and nobility, but when it is combined with ghosts, it represents the lack of strength and vitality, and represents paleness and powerlessness. White symbolizes the pallor after blood dries up. Here, blood is a symbol of love and emotion. When a person's love and feelings are gone, she becomes pale. In the dream, this kind of female ghost often appears alone and is very lonely. Because an essential feature of depression is loneliness.
Zombies: apathy and numbness to feelings
A 27-year-old man came to consult. He said he was bohemian and often had nightmares about zombies. He was born in a wealthy family and has a high degree. I once had a girlfriend. At first, his girlfriend was very kind to him. He thinks he has found the love of his life and paid a lot of affection and money for his girlfriend. Later, his girlfriend went to the United States to study through his relationship. He entrusted a friend and made his own contribution, which made his girlfriend realize her dream. But he didn't expect that his girlfriend abandoned him less than half a year after going abroad. The man was taken care of too much in his early emotional life, and there was no exercise of emotional frustration. The blow of breaking up with his girlfriend has greatly changed his views on people in this world, especially the opposite sex. His attitude towards the opposite sex began to become as cold as a zombie, and he regarded himself as a zombie. Frustration made him retaliate against the opposite sex. He balanced his frustration with attack and possession.
This is a case encountered by psychological counselor He Minghua. He Minghua said that zombies, seemingly bloodless, are just like the living dead, but they are already mentally indifferent. Such people are numb to the whole life, completely close their hearts, have no emotional reaction to the world, and are mechanical to others. This kind of person's mood is extremely depressed, because of lack of emotion and love, it becomes rigid and loses vitality.
Drowning ghost: indulgence
Emotion can't extricate oneself
A foreign girl who just came to Beijing to go to college often dreamed that a ghost with long hair appeared beside her and wanted to suffocate herself. This image originated from the girl's mother. Out of anxiety about her daughter who is far away from home, the mother always needs a telephone remote control to know if her daughter is there.
What to do, who to be with. Girls feel the oppression of their mothers all the time. For her, her mother's love became a kind of control, which caused her mental stress and pain. Excessive love gives people a sense of encirclement and suffocation, which makes people feel drowned and die of embarrassment.
Drowning a ghost means too much emotion and wet image characteristics. In the above cases, this drowning ghost expresses an expression of emotional depression. Such a drowning ghost is just like what we often say: I will torture you with emotions, without hitting you or scolding you. There is also a drowning ghost, which expresses the desire and entanglement of feelings. If a person indulges in emotions, he will be drowned. He Minghua believes that drowning people are often very emotional and may die for love. Such people can't extricate themselves by hiding in the emotional world.
Symbolic significance of ghosts in other dreams
Skeleton ghost: Skeleton ghost is the extreme expression of white female ghost and zombie. When a person's emotion is extremely lacking to a certain extent, it becomes a skeleton. Chenrui Cai said that the skeleton symbolizes death. When we are particularly afraid of death, or when our vitality is particularly weak, we may dream of skeletons.
Hungry ghost: People who dream of hungry ghosts are mostly drug addicts. Hungry ghosts are characterized by a hunger for food. When taking drugs, people will have excitement and pleasure that they can't usually feel, thus paralyzing themselves and avoiding facing their spiritual hunger and thirst.
Eating goods: the image is characterized by sticking out your tongue. Dreaming of eating people means that he dare not face the dark things in his heart, let alone express them. The tongue expresses the desire to speak. He wants to say that I'm actually scared. I'm scared, but I dare not say it.
Headless ghost: head represents reason, chest represents emotion, and below chest represents desire. Headless means that reason and emotion are very separated. Dreaming of a headless ghost shows that this person is too rational and depressed. However, the dark side of repression is as powerful as repression. If the power of the dark side of the heart is not vented, it will turn into a dream.
Ghost painting: There is another kind of ghost, which looks charming, but there are many nasty things around the body, such as some sticky things, which represent semen. Such a ghost is dissolute at heart. Symbolic pervert with sexual psychological problems.
Ghost party: pent-up anger
A female tourist in her forties described the experience that she was always severely reprimanded by her parents when she was a child, which made her childhood very unhappy. After she got married, she adopted the same education method for her children. In her dreams, there are often hideous ghosts. It turned out that she had been bitter about her childhood experience, and she
She was dissatisfied with her parents' harsh treatment, but she learned the way her parents treated herself invisibly. In her mind, there has always been a negative emotion angry with her parents, which turned into a ghost in her dream.
He Minghua said spectre stands for repressed anger. If anger accumulates for a long time, spectre will appear in dreams or images, which also expresses the dreamer's rejection of anger. Ghosts often have two claws, grinning and fierce eyes. People who suffer many setbacks are often full of aggressive psychology, and this kind of attack is not satisfied, and often changes in one direction, that is, the ghost of dreams.
Vampires: Heavy dependence
A 26-year-old woman often appears as a vampire in loneliness and dreams. When she was a child, this woman was seldom taken care of by her parents because she preferred sons to daughters at home, and her self-emotion was not well cultivated and developed. As an adult, I face the society independently and rely on others for everything. Just like leeches, I suck human blood and animal blood. Emotionally, she is more dependent. After making a boyfriend, she really wants to tie herself with her boyfriend with a rope. As long as her boyfriend is not around, she will track his information in various ways. What she says in her mouth is care and love, but it is actually an adsorption behavior and a dependence psychology with extreme emotional deficiency.
He Minghua said that people who often see or dream about vampires have serious dependence. People who dream of such ghosts, when they feel lack of emotion and love, do not look for their own reasons, but maintain their vitality by absorbing other people's emotions. We often see some women emotionally dependent on others, stalking men all day and making phone calls all the time. Vampires symbolize invisible absorption and deprive others of their emotions. We will also see that some mothers who control their children's emotions for a long time are actually an emotional exploitation of their children, but their mothers have a sense of dependence on their children.
Dream Interpretation Story: Chu Huaiwang dreamed of Wushan, Yu Yun.
Chu Huaiwang has been to Wushan Gaotang. On the day of his visit, he was probably too tired during the day and fell asleep soon at night.
Then, in her sleep, Chu Huaiwang saw a charming woman floating in and volunteered to report her wealth to Chu Huaiwang: My concubine Wushan's daughter is also a guest of Gaotang. I heard that you went to Gaotang and wanted to recommend a pillow. Say that finish is tender as water, tears streaming down her face, Chu Huaiwang also naturally accepted the beautiful things delivered to the door, a night of ecstasy until dawn. At dawn, the goddess said she was leaving. When leaving, she said to Chu Huaiwang: My concubine is in the sun of Wushan, in the shade of high mountains, when it is a cloud, it is rain at dusk. Morning and evening, under the balcony.
After waking up, it seems that everything is still there. Chu Huaiwang has a deep memory of the words of the dream goddess.
This story is also told in Selected Works and Gao Tang Mi by Song Yu. It is said that the later son, Xiang Wang of the Qing Dynasty, accompanied by the imperial poet Song Yu, visited the same place downstream and had a similar dream at night. After waking up, King Hexiang told Song Yu about his dream adventure, which was a drunken dream, and immediately ordered Song Yu to write Gao and Goddess Fu to describe these two melancholy dreams. Among them, Gao Tang Mi takes Wushan Yu Yun as a whole symbol, exaggerating and enthusiastically describing the copulation process between the king and the goddess. Because the dream of the king of Chu is located on the balcony, it was later called the dream of the king of Chu or the dream of the balcony. Song Yu's ci makes the nature of Wushan a metaphorical code for men and women to communicate. Up to now, people still use the nature of Wushan to describe things between men and women, and dreams in the Tang Dynasty and sexual dreams are also used to express the love between men and women.
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