Because I'm reading Freud's Interpretation of Dreams, and I can't use the traditional dream interpretation method of China (referring to the dream interpretation method guided by Zhouyi), so we need more information about dreams.
The interpretation of dreams mentioned in this article is based on Freud's interpretation of dreams. )
Let us explain your first dream step by step.
As for "the streets of Shanghai", I don't know why you are so sure it is Shanghai. The reason may be that you live in Shanghai, or that you have been there. Then "a woman in her forties". Why are you so sure that she is over forty? Did you decide her age in your dream or did you wake up and think about it? Have you seen this woman before? There is also what you can remember about the conversation between you, which may also be the key point. You described the latter thing very well.
The result of my analysis of your words (your meaning) is that you live in Shanghai, you should have been to your dream place, and you have an impression. Then, a middle-aged woman came (a woman's appearance is also very important). The woman's dress is actually not very good. You don't want to chat with her, but she pesters you to chat with you. You didn't cooperate. You kept walking, and her hand was caught.
You didn't describe the dream clearly, so I'll explain your dream according to my understanding.
First of all, regardless of the location, this woman should be your elder or boss. Maybe they did something that hurt your interests, and you seem very helpless and angry about this kind of thing. For example, you may be under great pressure to lay off employees or find a job. Because I feel that your wallet actually represents your income, your source of money, your job, and your job being robbed in this dream may symbolize the pressure of layoffs you are facing, or your job has been robbed by a competitor.
This is the first dream I understand temporarily. Let's start the second dream.
The second dream is also about your wallet. Let's take a look at it from the beginning. When eating in a restaurant, you should describe the situation of the restaurant, such as the decoration and how you feel. Then there is the office area. Be sure to say that you are their colleague, or imply that you have no job yet, and your boyfriend will give you food, drink, shelter and transportation. Chat content is more important. If you remember, please provide it if it is convenient. Then I went to the bathroom and you were cheated. If we look at the dream above, we can understand that you have been cheated in finding a job. The only thing you can catch is your boyfriend. From the last paragraph of the dream, you found that many people were cheated. I think you may have been cheated. As the saying goes, once bitten, twice shy, so you may have doubts about something in real life, either your job or the people around you. You care about whether you have been cheated or not.
I'm going to eat. If you think it's credible or we can keep talking, M, why don't you leave me a message? I am very interested in your business.