1. the feeling of power or status: not having your own seat in your dream may reflect that you feel inadequate or dissatisfied with your status or power in real life. Maybe you feel that your position in the work or social circle is not stable enough, and you need to make more efforts to achieve better results.
2. Discomfort in peer relationship: Not having your own seat may also represent your discomfort or worry in social situations. You may feel that your relationship with others is not close enough or trusting enough. Such dreams may remind you that you need to participate more in social activities and build stronger relationships with others.
3. Think about self-worth: not having your own seat may also reflect your thinking about your own value. You may feel neglected or unrecognized in your dreams. This may be because you question your ability and value in real life, and you may need to conduct self-reflection and re-evaluation to improve your self-confidence.
Please note that the interpretation of dreams is subjective and influenced by everyone's personal background and experience. If this dream continues to haunt you, you can further think about your feelings in the above aspects and seek advice from friends, family members or professionals around you.