People are not buried immediately after death, but should be buried in the tomb for three to five days. This custom began in dynasties and generations, and there is no test on years, months and days. Legend has it that Zhao Xiucai's family in Zhaojiazhuang Village of Hejian Prefecture bought four lives. It is said that Zhao Xiucai married a very educated wife. This is a talented woman who has been familiar with the Five Classics and Four Books since childhood. She entered the Zhao family and gave birth to three sons to Zhao Xiucai. Unexpectedly, Zhao Xiucai's life was short and he died young, leaving all his children's debts at home. Really a good husband. Two little feet, just raised three sons, got married and had children, and had a full house of children and grandchildren. Theoretically, it's time to retire, but the old man is used to working and refuses to do nothing. He is over 60 years old and still works nonstop, raising more than 20 big hens. She regards these 20 chickens as her darling and lives beside them every day. One day, the big reed hen that loves to lay eggs suddenly disappeared, and eight neighbors looked everywhere. The old lady was in a hurry, and she fell to the ground with a splash and died. At that time, people died when they were buried in the sky, and her family was no exception. It is said that three sons had the same dream in the middle of the night on the day you were buried, dreaming that you were still alive, and said to their sons, "Son, your mother is not dead yet, please dig me up quickly!" Because it was a dream, none of us took it to heart, just wondering-can people be resurrected after death? I have nothing to say all night. The next day, the three brothers got together to discuss. The boss first said to the two brothers, "I dreamed of my mother." She said that she is still alive, let me take you to plan her. " The second child and the third child dreamed of their mother, and her mother said the same thing to them as to her eldest brother. Hearing this, the boss was puzzled and seemed to realize something. "Is mom really alive?" ? I'm afraid to tell people who don't believe me, so I'll ask them one by one. In this case, let's dig a grave to find it, or we'll be sorry for mom's parenting! "The two brothers felt that the eldest brother was right, so they invited their neighbors and took tools like iron milling to dig Niang's grave. When the grave was dug up and the coffin was pried open, they were all shocked! I saw my mother's clothes torn off, her head broken and her hands broken, all covered with blood. What's more strange is that there are many words scrawled in blood on the coffin. After careful identification, it is a poem: Who listened to Joule's suspended animation? Leaving a poem waiting for the day of coffin opening, Xiao Fang's mother had a dream. The scene in front of her proved that Niang was really alive, but because her brother and sister failed to come in time to save her, she choked to death in the grave again. Sage regretted this and hated himself, so much so that he slapped himself in the face, called himself an asshole, and knocked his head on Niang's coffin and bled. The villagers came forward to persuade them to stop. With the help of villagers, brothers and sisters reburied the old man. After that, the three brothers felt that they were unfilial and had no face to live in the world, so they hanged together on the poplar tree in front of the grave and apologized to their mother. The villagers were inspired by the Zhao family incident. In order to avoid repeating the story that the Zhao family came back from the dead and could not be saved, they learned a lesson. Whoever dies in the future will never be buried on the same day, but for three to five days. In this way, one after another, one village after another. The more it spread, the wider it gradually evolved into a custom that is still in use today.
Why do people have to walk around the grave for three days after they die?
This so-called three-day round grave is a local custom.
Every place has local customs.
As for whether it is necessary to go to the tomb for three days.
First of all, respect local customs and habits.
Second, look at your own actual situation.