What's the short story about optimism?
A celebrity visited the ward of a cancer patient. One of the patients with advanced liver cancer said to him with a smile. "Compared with you, I only know when I will leave. I know my life is counting down, but if I say something unpleasant, we may not know who will go first! " At least now you are healthy. What is worse than health? Happiness costs nothing (money can't buy it) \x0d\▲ Believe that you are an eagle ▲\x0d\ A person caught an eagle in the Ying Chao at the top of the mountain. He took it home and put it in the henhouse. Eagles and chickens peck, play and rest together. It thinks it is a chicken. The eagle has grown up and its wings are full. The owner wants to train it into a falcon, but because it is mixed with chickens all day, it has become exactly like a chicken and has no desire to fly at all. The host tried all kinds of methods, all to no avail. Finally, he took it to the top of the mountain and threw it out. The eagle fell like a stone and flapped its wings desperately in panic. In this way, it finally flew! Secret 1: hone the power to summon success. \x0d\▲ Five gold coins ▲\x0d\ Once upon a time there lived a man named Abage on the grassland in Inner Mongolia. Once, the young Abago and his father got lost on the grassland. Abag was tired and afraid, and finally he couldn't walk. Dad took five coins out of his pocket, buried one coin in the grass, put the other four coins in Abago's hand, and said, "There are five gold coins in life, one for childhood, adolescence, youth, middle age and old age. You have only used one now, that is, the one buried in the grass. You can't throw all five coins into the grass. You should use them bit by bit and use them differently every time. " We must go out of the grassland today, and you must go out of the grassland in the future. The world is very big. When people are alive, they should go to more places and see more. Don't throw away your gold coins if they are useless. "That day, with the encouragement of his father, Abag walked out of the grassland. When he grew up, Abag left his hometown and became an excellent captain. Secret 2: Cherish your life, and you will walk out of the swamp of frustration. \x0d\▲ Sweeping the sun ▲\x0d\ has two brothers, only four or five years old. Because the bedroom window is closed all day, they think the room is too dark, and they feel envious when they see the bright sunshine outside. The two brothers discussed and said, "We can sweep some sunshine together and come in. "So, the two brothers took brooms and dustpans and went to the balcony to sweep the sun. When they moved the dustpan into the room, there was no sunshine inside. After repeated sweeps, there was still no sunshine in the room. My mother, who is busy in the kitchen, saw their strange behavior and asked, "What are you doing? They replied, "The room is too dark. We should sweep some sunshine in." Mother smiled: "As long as you open the window, the sun will naturally come in." Why do you have to sweep? "Secret 3: Open the closed heart door, and the sunshine of success will dispel the darkness of failure. \x0d\▲ A spider and three people ▲\x0d\ After the rain, a spider struggled to climb the broken net on the wall. Because the wall was wet, it collapsed after climbing to a certain height. It climbed up again and again and fell down again and again? The first man saw it, sighed and said to himself, "Isn't my life just like this spider?" "Busy and no income." As a result, he became more and more depressed. The second man saw it, and he said, This spider is really stupid. Why not climb around in a dry place? I can't be as stupid as it in the future. So, he became smart. The third man saw it, and he was immediately moved by the spider's spirit of fighting and losing. So he became strong. Tip 4: People with a successful attitude can find the power of success everywhere. \x0d\▲ Help yourself ▲\x0d\ Someone took shelter from the rain under the eaves and saw Guanyin walking by with an umbrella. The humanitarian said, "Guanyin Bodhisattva, how about spending some time with all beings and taking me for a while?" Guanyin said, "I am in the rain, you are under the eaves, and there is no rain under the eaves." I don't need to spend it. " The man immediately jumped off the eaves and stood in the rain: "now I'm in the rain, too." Is it time to treat me? " Guanyin said, "You are in the rain and I am in the rain. I didn't get wet because of an umbrella.": You were caught in the rain because there was no umbrella. So it's not me, it's me. If you want to think about it, don't look for me, please find your own umbrella! " Say that finish and left. The next day, the man was in trouble and went to the temple to ask for Guanyin. When I walked into the temple, I found a man worshipping in front of Guanyin statue. That man looks exactly like Guanyin, not bad at all. The man asked, "Are you Guanyin? The man replied, "I am Guanyin." . "The man asked," then why do you still worship yourself? "Guanyin smiled and said," I have encountered difficulties, but I know that it is better to ask for help than to ask for help. Tip 5: Winners help themselves. \x0d\▲ Make the loss lovely ▲\x0d\ An old man accidentally dropped his new shoes from the window on the high-speed rail, and everyone around him felt sorry. Unexpectedly, the old man immediately threw the second shoe out of the window. This move is even more surprising. The old man explained, "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it's useless to me. If anyone can find a pair of shoes, maybe he can put them on! " "Secret 6: Winners are good at giving up and seeing value from losses. \x0d\▲ Please don't open the wrong window ▲\x0d\ A little girl was lying on the windowsill, watching the people outside the window bury her beloved puppy, and she couldn't help crying. When her grandfather saw this scene, he quickly took her to another window and let her enjoy his rose garden. Sure enough, the little girl's mood suddenly became clear. The old man held up his granddaughter's chin and said, "Son, you opened the wrong window." Tip 7: Open the window next to failure, and maybe you will see hope. \x0d\▲ The Secret of Life ▲ \ x0d \ Thirty years ago, a young man left his hometown and began to create his own future. His first stop was to visit the patriarch of his own family and ask for advice. The old patriarch is practicing calligraphy. He heard that a junior in his family had begun to embark on the journey of life, so he wrote three words: Don't be afraid. Then he looked up at the young man and said, "Son, the secret of life is only six words. Today I will tell you three of your half lives. " Thirty years have passed, and the former young people have reached middle age, achieved something, and added a lot of sadness. After a long journey home, he visited the patriarch again. When he arrived at the patriarch's house, he realized that the old man had passed away several years ago. His family took out a sealed envelope and said to him, "This was left to you by my father before his death. He said you would come again one day. " Wanderers returning home remember hearing half the secrets of life here 30 years ago. He opened the envelope and there were three big words in it: No regrets. Tip 8: Don't be afraid before middle age, and don't regret after middle age. \x0d\▲ driver's exam ▲\x0d\ A big company is going to hire a car driver with a high salary. After screening and examination, only three players with the best skills are left. The examiner asked them, "There is a piece of gold on the edge of the cliff. How close do you think you can get to the cliff without falling? " "Two meters." The first one said. "Half a meter." The second man said confidently. "I will try to stay away from the cliff." The third person said. As a result, the company accepted the third place Tip 9: Don't compete with temptation, but stay as far away as possible. \x0d\▲ Tutoring of Lions and Antelopes ▲\x0d\ Every day when the sun rises, the animals on the African prairie start running. The mother lion is educating her child: "Son, you must run faster and faster. If you can't outrun the slowest antelope, you will starve to death. " In another arena, the mother antelope is also educating her children: "Son, you must run faster and faster. If you run faster than the fastest lion, you will definitely be eaten by them. " Tip 10: Remember, if you run fast, others will run faster. \x0d\ A fake leaf \x0d\ Oh? Henry told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf", saying: There was a patient lying in a hospital bed, looking desperately at a bleak tree swept by the autumn wind outside the window. He suddenly found a green leaf on the tree. The patient thought that my life would be over if this leaf fell off. So he looked at the leaf all day, waiting for it to fall, quietly waiting for the end of his life. However, it was not until the patient recovered completely that the leaves fell and remained as green as jade. In fact, there are no leaves on the tree. These leaves were painted by a painter. They are not real leaves, but they achieve the vivid and real effect of real leaves, giving patients a strong belief: I am alive, as long as that leaf does not fall, my life will not die. As a result, he really recovered and went out of the ward to look under the tree. \x0d\ He stood under the tree and was moved by the painter's heart. \x0d\ Because the painter is the only one who knows his inner secret, he knows that he is waiting for all the leaves to fall and then ends his life quietly. Therefore, the painter designed such a fake leaf according to the patient's mind. It is this fake leaf that constantly injects him with the courage to live. \x0d\ What really has vitality is not leaves, but people's beliefs. \x0d\ secret recipe for the blind \x0d\ once upon a time, there was a story about two blind people, an old man and a young man, who lived by playing the piano and performing arts every day. One day, the old blind man finally got sick. Knowing that he was going to die soon, he called the little blind man to the bed, held the little blind man's hand tightly and said with difficulty, "Son, I have a secret recipe here that can make you see the light again." I hid it in the piano, but you must remember that you can't take it out until you break the thousandth string, or you won't see the light. " The little blind man promised the master with tears in his eyes. The old blind man left with a smile. \x0d\ Day after day, year after year, the little blind man memorized Master's will, kept playing and kept the broken string in his heart. When he broke the1000th string, the frail young blind man was in his twilight years and became an old man who had experienced many vicissitudes. Unable to restrain his inner joy, his hands trembled, and he slowly opened the piano box and took out the secret recipe. \x0d\ However, he was told that it was a blank sheet of paper with nothing on it. Tears fell on the paper and he smiled. \x0d\ The old blind man cheated the little blind man? \x0d\ The blind man in the past is now an old blind man with a blank sheet of paper in his hand. Why did he laugh instead? The moment \x0d\ took out the "secret recipe", he suddenly understood Master's intention. Although it's a blank piece of paper, it's an unwritten secret recipe and it's hard to steal. Only when he has broken a thousand strings since he was a child can he understand the true meaning of this secret recipe without words. \x0d\ secret recipe is the light of hope, and it is the lamp of hope that Master lit for him in endless darkness and suffering. Without it, he may be swallowed up by darkness, or he may fall into pain. It is because of such a lamp of hope that he insisted on breaking 1000 strings. He is eager to see the light and firmly believes that darkness is not forever. As long as he never gives up his efforts, the darkness of the past will be infinitely bright. At a trade fair, as a staff member of the conference group, I sent a middle-aged man and a young man to their home-the 38th floor of a high-class hotel in this city. The young man looked down and felt a little dizzy, so he looked up at the blue sky. The middle-aged man standing by asked with concern, are you a little afraid of heights? \x0d\ The young man replied a little, but he was not afraid. Then he talked about one thing when he was a child: "I am a baby in the mountains, where it is very poor." Every rainy season, flash floods erupt, and the pouring floods drown the small stone bridge that we must pass when we go home from school. The teacher sent us home one by one. When I reached the bridge, the water had not passed my ankles, and below it was roaring turbulence. I looked flustered and dared not move. At this time, the teacher said, hold the railing with both hands and look up at the sky. This move is really clever, and my heart has lost the horror of the past. I also remembered the teacher's method from now on. When I am in danger, as long as I hold my head high and refuse to give in, I can cross the past. " \x0d\ The middle-aged man smiled and asked the young man, "Do I look like someone who has tried to die?" The young man looked at the resolute and respected vice president in front of him with a face of surprise. The middle-aged man himself went on to say, "I used to work in an office, but later I resigned to do business." I don't know whether it is bad luck or I don't know how to do business. Several businesses have been ruined, and I owe a lot of money. Creditors come to collect debts every day, more than 60 thousand yuan. This was a big number at that time. How can I afford it in this life? " I thought of death, and I chose the cliff in the deep mountain. I was about to take that step when an old folk song suddenly came from my ear. I turned around and saw an old man collecting medicine in the distance. He looked at me. I think he interrupted my suicidal thoughts in this kind way. I found a piece of grass and sat on it until the old man left. Then I went to the edge of the cliff and saw the dark Lin Tao below. At this time, I was a little scared. I stepped back and looked up at the sky. The light of hope flashed in my mind, and I chose life again. After returning to the city, I started from wage earners and walked step by step to the present. "\x0d\ In fact, every one of us will encounter turbulence and danger like the two of them at any time in our life. If we lower our heads, we will only see danger and despair, lose the fighting spirit of life in dizziness and let ourselves fall into hell. If we can look up and see the distant sky, a world full of hope, and let us fly, we are confident to build a paradise of our own with our hands. \x0d\ Magnifier and telescope \x0d\ A famous public relations expert gave an example when talking about building good interpersonal relationships. He said that no matter how beautiful a young lady is, if a beautician looks at her beautiful face with a magnifying glass of 500 times, what she sees must be a pitted and uneven face, which is disappointing. And when we look at the castle peak through a telescope, what we see is picturesque scenery and charming mountain scenery, which is refreshing. \x0d\ This shows that if you always look at others with a magnifying glass, you will make them show their true colors and look useless, and you will also be unable to trust others and make friends. On the contrary, if you hold a telescope, you can always appreciate the beautiful side of others. It is this informal feature that makes the host and guest happy and invincible. \x0d\ also tells us that if the magnifying glass focuses on ourselves, not others, and if we can humbly ask others for advice and criticize ourselves the most severely, then the magnifying glass and telescope can play the greatest role at the same time. \x0d\ Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others, which is the best interpretation of magnifying glasses and telescopes. \x0d\ Eighteen Training Stories \ x0d \1\ x0d \ Once a small country came to China to pay tribute to three identical gold men. The golden wall was brilliant and the emperor was very happy. However, this small country is not kind, and at the same time a question arises: who is the most valuable of these three gold people? \x0d\ The emperor thought of many ways and invited a jeweler to check, weigh and watch the workmanship, all of which were exactly the same. What shall we do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A vast country, you don't even understand this little thing? \x0d\ The last veteran who abdicated said he had an idea. \x0d\ The emperor invited the emissary to the main hall, and the old minister confidently took three straws, inserted them into the ear of the first gold man and came out of the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out directly from his mouth, and the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without any noise. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct. \x0d\ This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth, which was supposed to make us listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person. \ x0d \ 2 \ x0d \ Chen Atu is a farmer in Taiwan Province province, and has never been out of town. After saving money for half my life, I finally joined a tour group and went abroad. \x0d\ Everything abroad is very fresh. The key point is that Chen Atu joined a luxury group and lived alone in a standard room. This makes him novel. \x0d\ When the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast in the morning, he said loudly, "Good morning, SIR!" \x0d\ Chen Atu froze. What does this mean? In my hometown, strangers usually ask, "What's your name?" \x0d\ so Chen Atu shouted, "my name is Chen Atu! "\x0d\ So, for three days in a row, the waiter knocked at the door every day and said loudly," Good morning! Chen Atu also replied loudly: "My name is Chen Atu!" "\x0d\ but he was very angry. This waiter is so stupid that he asks his name every day and tells him that he can't remember. Very annoying. Finally, he couldn't help asking the tour guide, "Good morning! "What do you mean? The tour guide told him, oh, my God! ! That's a real pity. \x0d\ Chen Atu practiced "Good morning!" This allows you to deal with the waiter with dignity. \x0d\ Another morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted, "Good morning!" \x0d\ At the same time, the waiter shouted, "I'm Chen Atu! "\x0d\ This story tells us that interpersonal communication is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. If we want to succeed, we must cultivate our own influence. Only those with great influence can become the strongest. \ x0d \ 3 \ x0d \ Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gives each of them a request. \x0d\ Americans love to smoke cigars and asked for three boxes of cigars. \x0d\ The French are the most romantic and want to be accompanied by beautiful women. The Jew said that he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world. \x0d\ Three years later, the first person who rushed out was an American, with his nose full of cigars and shouting, "Give me a fire, give me a fire! "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire. \x0d\ and then French. I saw a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand and a third one in her belly. \x0d\ Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To show my gratitude, I want to send you a Lao gold coin! "\x0d\ This story tells us that what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create our own future better. \ x0d \ 4 \ x0d \ Anyone who has been to the temple knows that as soon as he enters the temple gate, Amitabha is the first person to greet guests with a smiling face, and to his north, it is Darkmouth's black-faced Wei Tuo. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples. \x0d\ Maitreya is enthusiastic and happy, and there are many people coming, but he doesn't care about anything and doesn't manage his accounts well, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died. \x0d\ Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya Buddha was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so incense flourished. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished. \x0d\ In fact, in the eyes of the master of choose and employ persons, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can pick flowers and fly leaves to hurt people without expensive swords. The key is how to use them. \ x0d \ 5 \ x0d \ A person went to buy a parrot and saw the front sign of a parrot: This parrot can speak two languages, and the price was 200 yuan. \x0d\ In front of another parrot, it was marked: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan. \x0d\ Which should I buy? Both are shiny, very flexible and lovely. The man turned and couldn't make up his mind. \x0d\ As a result, I suddenly found a parrot with old teeth and dark and messy fur, and the price was 800 yuan. \x0d\ The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages? \x0d\ The shopkeeper said: No \x0d\ This person is very strange: Then why is it so old, ugly and incompetent that it is worth it? \x0d\ The shopkeeper replied: Because the other two parrots called this parrot boss. \x0d\ This story tells us that the real * * * doesn't necessarily depend on your ability. As long as you know how to trust, authorize and cherish, you can unite forces stronger than yourself and enhance your value. \x0d\ On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one can match them. In the end, I can only be the best researcher and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent one.