Are you a positive person? Being positive is success in itself, and one more effort can turn defeat into victory. The following is a short story about encouraging a person to be positive, which I recommend to everyone. Welcome to read and study.
1 Once upon a time, two hungry people were blessed by an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish built a bonfire with dry wood and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish and didn't taste the meat of the fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish and soup. Soon, he starved to death by the empty fish basket. The other man continued to starve with a fishing rod, and walked hard to the seaside step by step, but when he saw the blue ocean not far away, his last strength was exhausted and he could only die with endless regrets.
Two hungry people also got a fishing rod and a basket of fish from their elders. It's just that they didn't part ways, but agreed to look for the sea together. They only cook one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, they began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built a house, had their own family, children and a fishing boat made by themselves, and lived a happy and healthy life.
On the way forward, no matter how difficult you encounter, you must persist in your efforts and never give up easily. Because every tomorrow is a new starting point and a new road.
I think: we are running from one starting line to another, and each starting line constitutes a beautiful life. Let's move towards a new starting point, struggle for a lifetime, and have no regrets.
A person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; One should aim high, but face the real life. Only by organically combining ideal with reality can we become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life enlightenment.
I have been a timid person since I was a child. I dare not speak in class. I feel uncomfortable talking to guests at home. My personality has changed a lot since my mother told me such a story. This is a short story. I will share it with you. I forgot the title, but I remember the details clearly. The content is as follows: A scholar who went to Beijing to take the exam had three dreams two days before the exam. The first dream is to grow cabbage on the wall by myself; The second dream is rainy day. He brought a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is to pass by my lover and miss it.
The scholar thought these three dreams were quite meaningful, so he found a fortune teller to interpret them. After listening to the fortune-teller, continuous shooting thigh said: You'd better go home early. Don't you think it's a waste of time to grow cabbage on the high wall? Isn't it unnecessary to bring a hat and an umbrella? Isn't it fate to miss your lover?
Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "You have an exam tomorrow. Why did you go back to your hometown after today? "
The scholar told the shopkeeper everything, and the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey! I can also interpret dreams. Do you think that planting cabbage on a high wall is not a high-level (high school)? Is it unsafe to bring a hat and an umbrella? When I passed my lover, I turned around and couldn't see her?
Hearing this, the scholar felt very reasonable, so he was refreshed, confident and in high spirits. He is full of ideas in the examination room, and finally he will be the first.
A positive attitude is a panacea for success and personal goals, so I shouted "A positive attitude is very important!" " "
On the long road of life, we all have different degrees and nature of suffering experience. In the growing season, the experience of suffering is the nutrient for growth.
I just read a report that a girl named 19, He Ling, had no confidence in the exam. Although her score exceeded the college admission line by 7 points, she committed suicide the day before the report card was issued. This may be a great psychological pressure! What a pity! Because an exam ruined her life. Maybe she's not mature enough. She doesn't know the consequences of doing so, the love her parents have for her, and the impact her parents will have if they lose her.
Suffering can make people collapse. If you can bear hardships, you can exercise people. Hunger makes people know the value of a mouthful of water and a bowl of rice; Poverty and hardship, cold words and all kinds of hardships and setbacks can shape your character. I feel the same way on the way to study. When you feel that you are not as good at learning as others, you will lose self-confidence and even give the opportunity to others. At this time, you should know that the opportunity is not given casually, but won by yourself. The hardships of life and study torment people in this way, and the "earth" often jokes. Let's record the bitter experience and the growing season! At the same time, find out the cause of pain, perhaps because people who have no self-confidence will lose self-confidence. Can they come again? Yes, I can, just like that girl 19 years old. She could have finished her studies, but she lost confidence.
Let's remember this painful lesson! At the same time, I hope everyone has confidence. Only by believing in yourself can you succeed.
An American social psychologist named Festinger once put forward a very famous rule, which is called Festinger's rule: 65,438+00% of life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by your reaction to what happens.
In other words, 10% of things in life are beyond our control, while the other 90% are beyond our control.
Festinger gave an example in the book:
When Cusdin got up in the morning to wash, she put her high-end watch next to the washstand. His wife was afraid of getting wet, so she took it and put it on the dining table.
When my son got up and went to the table to get bread, he accidentally bumped into the ground and broke his watch. Custine likes watches, so he gave his son a beating. Then he scolded his wife with a black face. The wife was not convinced and said that she was afraid that the water would wet her watch. Custine said his watch was waterproof.
So the two men bickered fiercely. In a rage, Custine didn't eat breakfast and drove directly to the company. When he arrived at the company, he suddenly remembered that he had forgotten his briefcase, so he immediately turned around and went home. But there is no one at home. His wife goes to work and his son goes to school. Custine's key was left in his briefcase. He couldn't get in, so he had to call his wife for the key.
When his wife hurried home in a hurry, she knocked over the fruit stand on the roadside. The stall owner grabbed her and asked her for compensation. She had to pay a sum of money to get rid of it. After opening the door to get the briefcase, Custine was late 15 minutes and was severely criticized by the boss. Custine was in a terrible mood. Before leaving work, I quarreled with my colleagues because of a trivial matter. The wife was also deducted the monthly attendance award for leaving early, and the son participated in the baseball game that day. Originally, he was expected to win the championship, but because he was in a bad mood, he was eliminated in the first game.
In this case, the bad table is 10%. The latter series of things is the other 90%. It's all because the parties didn't manage the 90% well that this day became a "worrying day".
Imagine if Cusdin reacts differently after 10% is produced. For example, he comforted his son: "Never mind, son, it doesn't matter if the watch is broken. I'm going to have it repaired. " In this way, if the son is happy, the wife is happy and he is in a good mood, then nothing will happen next. It can be seen that you can't control the previous 10%, but you can completely determine the remaining 90% through your mentality and behavior.
In real life, I often hear people complain: Why am I so unlucky? There are always some unlucky things around me every day. Why not let me stop and have a good mood? Who can help me?
This is all a matter of mentality. In fact, it is not others who can help themselves, but themselves. If we understand and skillfully apply Festinger's law, many problems will be solved.
Su Xun was a famous writer in Song Dynasty, and one of the eight masters in Tang and Song Dynasties. He was very playful when he was a child, and he didn't realize the importance of reading until he was 27. From then on, he began to study angrily and seized all the time to study. One year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Su Xun got up in the morning and plunged into his study. His wife brought a plate of zongzi and a plate of sugar to the study. Near noon, when the lady tidied up the dishes and chopsticks, she found that the zongzi had been finished, but the sugar in the dish was intact, and there were many glutinous rice grains on the inkstone next to it. It turned out that Su Xun was absorbed in reading and mistook the inkstone for a sugar dish. It is with this spirit of earnest efforts that Su Xun became a master of literature.
Throughout the ages, there are many examples of old people studying hard. Can't a teenager study when he is old? In today's era of knowledge explosion and rapid development of modern science and culture, the renewal cycle of knowledge is greatly shortened. It is the requirement of the times to live and learn. It requires people to learn from childhood to dusk. Needless to say, people still need to keep learning in middle age, otherwise they can't keep up with the times.
Kuang Heng was a famous Confucian scholar in the Western Han Dynasty. He likes studying since he was a child and is very diligent, but he can't afford lamp oil at home and can't study at night. One night, when he was lying in bed reciting the Book of Songs he had read during the day, he found his neighbor's house brightly lit. Kuang Heng envies people who study in the sun. He had a brainwave and borrowed a neighbor's lamp to study.
Kuang Heng is thinking about how to read by light. The light projected a huge figure on the wall, like a monster, dangling on the wall in a strange way. Kuang Heng Jr. had a brainwave: If I secretly cut a hole here, the light next door can shine through the wall in my small room, so I can study with this light.
He jumped out of bed happily, found a chisel and made a small hole in a remote place under the wall. In an instant, the light lit up a small area. Kuang Heng quickly dug out the Book of Songs from the bedside, gathered in the precious light, and studied it carefully. Kuang Heng's parents were very happy to see Kuang Heng working so hard, but at the same time they felt very sad.
From then on, Kuang Heng helped adults do farm work in the fields during the day, and at night, he studied tirelessly with the help of the little lamp borrowed from the next door. After unremitting efforts, he finally became a generation of scholars.
This story tells us that external conditions are not the decisive factor that restricts our success, but our own efforts are the key to success. It is common to encounter difficulties in study. However, we should strive to overcome these difficulties, have the spirit of hardship, and cultivate our own learning perseverance.
Positive inspirational story 7 Lu Xun was naughty when he was a child. One day, the stage in the town was rehearsing. Lu Xun couldn't sit still at home when he heard the sound of gongs and drums outside. While his father was not looking, he ran to the stage to watch the excitement. At this time, the stage was already crowded with people. Suddenly, the noisy gongs and drums stopped, and a man came out of the background and said to the Taiwan Province people next to him, "Which little brother would like to go on stage?" We asked him to make a guest appearance at the Temple of Hell and play a child. "Those naughty children at ordinary times, now I push me, I push you.
"I will do it!" Little Lu Xun stepped onto the stage, let the troupe draw a painted face, then picked up the steel fork and danced, and the audience immediately cheered. He was very proud, so he danced harder, and all his friends admired his courage.
/kloc-at the age of 0/2, Lu Xun was sent by his father to a private school called San Tan Yin Yue. When Lu Xun first entered school, he was very interested in the elves in the Herbal Garden. In the garden, he remembered that ancient Dong Fangshuo said that there was a kind of insect called "strange", which would disappear after drinking. Lu Xun wanted to know what was going on, so he quietly asked the teacher in the private school, "Sir, what is this' strange' bug?"
With a straight face, Mr. Wang replied unhappily, "I don't know!" " "
Later, Lu Xun gradually realized that students should study, and Mr. Wang didn't like students asking all kinds of strange questions. So Lu Xun began to study hard. At first, Mr. Wang, who was very strict, began to like Lu Xun's cleverness and hard work, and his attitude gradually became kind. In order to encourage himself to study, Lu Xun made a small bookmark with the small character 10: "Reading 3: heart, eyes and mouth." When reading, he put the bookmark in the book, and every time he read it, he stamped a word from top to bottom. After reading it several times, he used silent reading to deepen his understanding of the text. Before long, he can recite the text skillfully. Later, students also learned from Lu Xun and made bookmarks of "reading three and reading three" one after another.
Learning should pay attention to methods, step by step, and accumulate over time. People who can really learn should be good at making choices, choosing the right ones, being proficient in majors, being familiar with the relevant ones and understanding the necessary ones. At the same time, learning needs thinking. Although some people are diligent in their studies, they just read in general, and any theoretical point of view just flashes in their minds. As the saying goes, "learning without thinking is useless." Reading Three Times is a summary of Lu Xun's experience in the learning process. Like him, we should constantly sum up learning methods and concentrate our time and energy on learning. This will get twice the result with half the effort.
Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don't want to argue, so you choose silence. Not everyone needs to know you, so you don't feel the need to speak to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, so sad that you don't want to argue, so you have to choose silence. The whole world can't understand you, but he should. What can he say if he can't understand? There are times in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be listed clearly, and there may even be no real right and wrong at all. Then, if you don't want to talk, don't talk. When it is useless to say more, perhaps silence is the best explanation.
Su Xun was a famous writer in Song Dynasty, and one of the eight masters in Tang and Song Dynasties. Su Xun was very playful when he was a child. It was not until he was 27 that he realized the importance of reading. From then on, he began to study crazily and seized all the time to study. One year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Su Xun got up in the morning and plunged into his study. Su Xun's wife brought a plate of zongzi and a plate of sugar to the study. Near noon, when the lady tidied up the dishes and chopsticks, she found that the zongzi had been finished, but the sugar in the dish was intact, and there were many glutinous rice grains on the inkstone next to it. It turned out that Su Xun was absorbed in reading and mistook the inkstone for a sugar dish. It is with this spirit of earnest efforts that Su Xun became a master of literature.
I feel that since ancient times, there are many examples of old people studying hard. Can't a teenager study when he is old? In today's era of knowledge explosion and rapid development of modern science and culture, the renewal cycle of knowledge is greatly shortened. It is the requirement of the times to live and learn. It requires people to learn from childhood to dusk. Needless to say, people still need to keep learning in middle age, otherwise they can't keep up with the times.
A king heard that a painter was good at watercolor painting, and one day he made a special trip to visit the painter.
"Please draw me a peacock." The king demanded.
A year later, he visited the painter again.
"Where is the watercolor painting I ordered? I once asked you to draw me a peacock. "
"Your peacock is almost finished." The painter said.
He took out the drawing paper and soon drew a very beautiful and bright peacock. The king felt very satisfied, but the price surprised him: "It seems that it was drawn effortlessly in such a short time, and it is so expensive?" Asked the king.
So the painter led the king around his house, and there was a pile of drawing paper with peacocks in each room. The painter said, "The price is very reasonable. You seem effortless and simple, but it took me a lot of time and energy. I spent a whole year preparing to draw this peacock for you in this short time! "
Positive inspirational story 1 1 After graduating from high school, I started as a carpenter with my father. Because I didn't go to college, I was very depressed and felt that my future was bleak.
One day, I learned to plane boards. The plane got stuck in a knot and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't move it. "Why is this knot so hard?" I can't help thinking.
"Because it's hurt." On one side of the father interjected.
"Are you hurt?" I don't understand what my father said.
"These knots used to be the injured part of the tree. After scarring, it often becomes the hardest. " Father said: "People are the same, and they will become hard after being injured."
My father's words lit up my heart. Yes, it is because of pain that life will wake up under the stimulation of pain; It is precisely because of suffering that life will become strong under the tempering of suffering.
The next day, I got off the plane and went back to school to attend cram school to meet another challenge in my life. Because I have begun to understand that setbacks have trained a pair of strong wings in life.
Suffering is not a bad thing, and people who have not experienced suffering lack strong qualities. The reason why I am strong and optimistic today is also because of the suffering of these years. Therefore, you should not be afraid of suffering. On the contrary, you should consciously suffer, so that you will become stronger and stronger.
Positive inspirational story 12 Someone once did an experiment. A fiercest shark and a group of tropical fish are put in the same pool, and then separated by tempered glass. At first, sharks kept hitting the invisible glass every day, but in vain. It can never cross the other side. The experimenter puts some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark has no shortage of prey, but it still wants to go to the other side. I want to try a good taste, but I keep bumping into the glass every day. I tried every corner and tried my best every time, but every time I was scarred and broke several times, and my whole body was covered with blood for several days. Whenever the glass breaks, the experimenter immediately adds thicker glass.
Later, sharks stopped hitting the glass and paying attention to colorful tropical fish, as if they were just moving the murals on the wall. It began to wait for the crucian carp that appeared every day, and then hunted with its agile instinct, as if it were back in the sea, proud and fierce, but all this was just an illusion. At the last stage of the experiment, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark didn't respond. It still swims in a fixed area every day. Not only did it turn a blind eye to tropical fish, but even when crucian carp fled there, it immediately gave up chasing and said nothing.
Don't give up hope at any time and try easily, especially after layers of efforts. The success may lie in the 10 1 th attempt.
Positive inspirational story 13 Professor Mayo accepted the invitation of American Western Electric Company to help a factory under the company improve the production efficiency of female workers. According to the monotonous work of these women workers around the electromagnet, Mayo suggested that women workers have a coffee break of 10 minutes in the afternoon, and the output increased immediately. At this time, Mayo further suggested that women workers be given a coffee break of 65,438+00 minutes in the morning, and the output would increase again.
However, Mayo did not stop there. He announced to the women workers that in order to carry out an experiment, the afternoon rest was cancelled, and as a result, the output not only did not decrease, but also increased. Then, he announced that the morning break had to be cancelled for the experiment, but the output continued to increase and the women workers did not complain or go slow.
Some people have uncovered the mystery through research. The work of winding electromagnets is really boring. After the break, women workers can relax for a while and talk about topics of interest to them. This relaxed and happy time inspired their enthusiasm for work. When Mayo announced that they would participate in an experiment, they felt that they were doing something meaningful, and they had a sense of honor and pride in the process of participating. In this way, these women workers unconsciously fell in love with their jobs and the collective.
Dialectical materialism holds that matter determines consciousness, and consciousness has a reaction to matter, which also includes the regulating effect of consciousness on people themselves. A healthy psychological mood and a full spiritual life can make people forge ahead and make people constantly improve and develop. Therefore, we must attach importance to the strength of spirit and establish a positive concept. The female workers in the story work under the encouragement of a happy and positive thought, so that the output of the factory keeps increasing, which is the full embodiment of the conscious reaction.
Once upon a time, a group of frogs organized a climbing competition, and the result of the competition was: the top of a very high iron tower.
A large group of frogs gathered around the tower to watch the game and cheer for them.
The game has already started. To tell the truth, no one among the frogs believes that these little frogs will reach the top of the tower. Everyone is saying: it's too difficult! ! They can't get to the top of the tower! ""they will never succeed, this tower is too high! Hearing this, one frog after another began to lose confidence, except those who were still crawling in high spirits. The frogs continued to shout, "This is too difficult! ! Nobody can climb to the top! "
More and more frogs are tired and quit the competition. However, one is still climbing higher and higher, and has no intention of giving up. Finally, all but one frog dropped out of the competition. It worked hard and finally became the only winner who reached the top of the tower.
Naturally, all the other frogs want to know how it succeeded. A frog ran to the winner and asked him where he got the strength to finish the race.
It found that the frog was deaf!
This story tells us: always remember the powerful words you hear, because all the words you hear or read will affect your behavior. Therefore, we must be positive and optimistic! Moreover, the most important thing is: when others tell you that your dream can't come true, you should play dumb and turn a deaf ear! Always thinking: I can do it! Never listen to those who are used to negative and pessimistic views, because they will only crush your best dreams and hopes!
Positive and optimistic people will always succeed, and negative and pessimistic people will always fail!
15, a positive inspirational story, has always been a strange phenomenon in the class: the first girl who comes to the classroom every morning is always a little girl named Nana.
Finally, one day, Teacher Lin couldn't help asking Nana curiously, "Why do you come to school so early every day?"
Nana pouted and smiled shyly: "Because I hope to be the first forever."
"Why do you have to be the first?" Teacher Lin is a little confused.
"Well," Nana explained, "I'm average in appearance, average in academic performance, not much better in sports, and still average at home. I never know what the first one feels like. Suddenly one day, I was the first person to come to the classroom unexpectedly, and I found that I actually tasted the feeling of being the first. I am very happy, so from then on, I am the first person to arrive every day. Every day, this idea will make me full of excitement and expectation, and it will bring me a lot of happiness. "
After listening to little Nana's naive language, Teacher Lin smiled happily.
But one morning, Teacher Lin found Nana looking miserable. "What's the matter, Nana?" Teacher Lin asked her.
"Wang Gang robbed me of the first place. We came together, and finally he ran into the classroom and overtook me. " Nana muttered.
"It's okay, dear child. You see, whether horizontally or vertically, aren't you still the first? " Teacher Lin motioned with Nana as the center.
"Oh, yes." Nana's face was full of smiles again.
Gradually, teacher Lin felt that Nana seemed to be a different person. She is more confident and happy than before. Perhaps, the truth of "finding another way" made her understand many other "firsts".
Everyone dreams of being the first, but the first can only belong to one person. Instead of getting lost, it is better to "find another way" and seek your own unique "first", which is not only a kind of wisdom, but also another colorful life.
Anyone who has been to the temple knows that Amitabha was the first to greet guests with a smiling face as soon as he entered the temple gate, but to his north, Wei Tuo was the black face of Darkmouth. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.
Buddha Miller is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.
Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so the incense was flourishing. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.
In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.
Positive inspirational story article 17 There was a Lu native who was good at weaving straw sandals and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wants to move to Vietnam. His friend said to him, "If you go to Vietnam, you will be poor." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used to walk, but Vietnamese people are used to walking barefoot; White silk is used to make hats, but Vietnamese people are used to long hair. With your strengths, go to places that are not needed, so is it possible to keep yourself from being poor? "
If a person wants to develop his own specialty, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment. If it is divorced from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value. Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of society and give full play to our own specialties.
One day, the city zoo found that kangaroos ran out of their cages, so they held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cages was too low. So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 10 meter to 20 meters. As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos were still running outside, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.
I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters.
One day, giraffes and some kangaroos were chatting. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" ? Asked the giraffe. "It's hard to say. Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!
There are "beginning and end", "weight" and "weight". Closing the door is the end point, heightening the cage is the end point, and abandoning the end point is of course irrelevant.
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