-Interpretation of dreams: What does it mean to dream of being late or missing the bus?

"Missed the bus" means: missed the opportunity most of the time. Since 1978, the reform and opening up has provided many opportunities for each of us, but only a few people have seized the opportunity. People who see others seize the opportunity but fail to seize it must always worry about whether they will miss another opportunity, so they dream that they missed the bus. Sometimes there are variations on this theme, such as dreaming that you finally caught the bus, or dreaming that you arrived at the station but didn't see if the bus had left, and the dream was over. Wake you up and worry about whether you can catch the bus. This naturally means that you can catch up with the opportunity, or you don't know if you can catch up with the opportunity. A female student said, "I used to dream that I couldn't catch the train, and I was still depressed after waking up." I asked her, "Were you faced with an opportunity? Were you worried that you would miss it-or did you find yourself missing it?" "Yes, I wanted to go to Shenzhen for development at that time, but I was always worried about missing the best opportunity. Now I know what dreams mean. You know, I'm always bored when I finish this dream. I don't even like the dress I wore in my dream. " "Wait a minute." I asked her, "What is that dress in your dream? You know, dreams don't talk nonsense. If you can notice what clothes you are wearing in your dream, then this dress must be meaningful. " That's right. "She suddenly realized," this dress was given to me by a friend. It was this friend who went to Shenzhen for the first time and talked to me about Shenzhen. I also want to go to Shenzhen because of her. " "So in your dream, you used the clothes she gave you to point out the direction of the train-Shenzhen. "When you catch a train in your dream, you may encounter many obstacles, or you may be involved in many irrelevant things inexplicably, thus delaying the time. This sometimes reflects your understanding of the real situation, that is, you will be hindered, making it difficult for you to seize the opportunity. Sometimes it reflects your understanding of yourself, that is, many things you are doing are not important, but they delay your opportunity to do important things, so that you may miss important opportunities in life. Sometimes, this obstacle reflects your inner opposition, which means that there is another voice in your heart telling you not to catch this train. There seems to be another person you don't want you to seize this opportunity. He is passively resisting and deliberately delaying, so that you can't catch the train. And this may be a bad thing for you, but it may be a good thing-if the car will overturn. Psychologist jung told a dream related to catching a train, which was just used to illustrate this point. This is the second dream that Jung explained to the headmaster at the beginning of this book. Let me repeat this dream in detail: "He knew he was going to attend an important meeting, and he was holding a briefcase. However, he noticed that time was running out and the train was about to leave. So he was worried that he would be late. He packed his clothes and things as soon as possible, but he didn't know where his hat was and where his clothes were. He ran around, looked around, and shouted in the room, "Where are my things?" Finally, he packed all his things and just rushed out of the house, he found that he had forgotten his briefcase. He ran back to the house to get his briefcase. When he saw his watch, he found it was really late, so he ran to the station. He felt that his walk was soft, as if he were walking on a swamp and couldn't lift his feet. Finally, I arrived at the station panting and saw that the train had started slowly ... Jung pointed out: this dream of being blocked by every means and ending late is very similar to the situation in which people are anxious about something in reality. Why do people feel anxious? Because there seems to be an invisible devil making trouble behind his back and not letting him catch the bus. This "devil" is in his heart. It is another part of his heart that opposes his will to "catch the train" and tries every means to obstruct him. And this kind of obstruction is beneficial to the headmaster, because if he is made to work as hard as catching a train, his body and spirit will collapse one day. Another variation of this theme is: I caught the train, but after the train left, I found that I was sitting in the wrong direction. This often reflects similar situations in life: maybe you chose the wrong major, maybe you found that the job you chose is not suitable for you, and so on. Of course, the dream of being late or missing the bus may just be worrying about being late or missing the bus in life. For example, people who want to take the first bus early the next morning often dream that they have caught the bus. This is just an expression of fear of missing the train. Similarly, being late may just mean being late. A good friend of mine once dreamed that her boyfriend was late for an interview, and then she told me with great concern. I thought it might be a superficial phenomenon, so I asked her if their boyfriends were often late. She said yes, and wondered how I knew. In this dream, the dreamer compares herself to the examiner of recruitment and her boyfriend to the applicant. This candidate will be late, and he is in danger of not being hired. The dream of the examiner is to consider whether to hire him again.