Your dream is really sad, because I know what you are thinking, because these two dreams should appear in one night, because they both have the same meaning.
Dream 1: The white flower on the other side is also called Man Dalavat, and the red flower on the other side is also called Manjusakan, which is one of the four flowers in Beijing. Known as "Wulitou Grass" and "Dragon Claw Flower". There are many folklore about "flowers on the other side".
I believe you have read its introduction, so you set your dream in this flower. The butterfly represents one of your relatives. It is leaving you, but you can't control it. But you still want to work hard, chase and chase and spend more money to change you. You want to give yourself a chance to stay, but there is no way. You fell, you failed, you missed, it left you.
Dream 2: Dream 2 is more straightforward, because the person who kissed you is gone, and you are lonely and guilty. You said you were sorry, and you shed tears. What can you do? Because it's gone.
The departure of an important person makes you very painful and mentally stressed. If you want to have a good dream, then stand up, face the upcoming life problems bravely, change yourself happily, cherish the people around you more, and let you remember your contribution, so that you won't regret and cry again. A good life and a good dream will naturally accompany you.