How should an introvert have a girlfriend?
Saw this topic. My heart can't help pulling. No wonder many introverted boys around me look excellent in all aspects. But there is always a lack of girls' company. What happened? What happened? What the hell is going on?
Let's first look at some characteristics of introverts.
Introverts are generally quiet, shy, shy and shy. Even a little lofty, some things never take the initiative. I have Qian Qian's ten thousand ideas in my heart, and seldom take the initiative to communicate with others. Some people say that most timid people are introverted. Many introverted boys have always hoped to please girls. I just suffer from being unable to express, unwilling to express, and unwilling to express myself. Most introverts are thin-skinned, and even blush when they meet girls. They are embarrassed and restrained.
Some people say that people who often achieve great things are mostly timid and introverted. Because. Introverts generally don't like to laugh, but love to laugh. They usually like to concentrate on one thing. For love, for chasing girls, it is often the weakness of introverts, even amateurs. Even with girls, I don't know what to do, and I can't even find a topic at all. I don't know how to express myself, express myself.
Often many introverts like to be alone. They don't mean that they don't care about things around them, but they generally lack expression. Some introversion is caused by family. Adults tell children not to associate with strangers when they are young, which makes it difficult for children to take the step of contact with the outside world from an early age. Over time, they also lack confidence in interpersonal communication. Generally, introverts are stubborn. Generally speaking, he doesn't like to show off, but more often he is just a bystander, and it is not easy to blend into the crowd scene. Some people say that introverts are timid, even a little Mu Na, and always look silly and dull.
But an introverted person is bright and insightful at heart. They tend to consider one thing too comprehensively and often complicate simple things. There is always a feeling of exhaustion. Some people say that introverts can often achieve great things. But personally, it is not satisfactory, and it is often a little retarded.
What is the cause of all this? First of all, introverts often have some expertise, or, ah, some aspects are better. His requirements are very general and high, as well as for the opposite sex. In this way, you will often build a wall for yourself, and you will always ponder one thing. It often brings some very good opportunities, or opportunities.
Let's look at some characteristics of girls. No matter how enthusiastic a girl is, no matter how much she likes the boy in her mind. Girls always hope that boys can take the initiative to confess to girls and women. Girls will also be more willing to accept this feeling. Because most girls are emotional, they often observe the boys around them by feeling, or the third eye. Even if the boy you like is an excellent boy, if you don't actively pursue this girl, even if both sides are eager to see her, often good things will not happen. Because girls are flowers, flowers always want bees and butterflies to revolve around themselves, and flowers also please themselves.
Often introverted, boys, inner thoughts and feelings are often romantic, always hoping that good things will happen to themselves. Introverted boys always hope that even girls they like can throw themselves at themselves. Sometimes in the face of the beloved girl, I will think a lot of thoughtful expressions. When I arrive at the scene, I will panic and often return in vain. It has caused many misunderstandings among girls. Men who are wronged and hesitant will also make girls lose patience.
In today's competitive rhythm atmosphere, girls are very popular. Faced with the clumsy performance of these introverted boys, it is really a sad self-esteem of girls. Some people say that love is a kind of performance, and love is an art, but introverted boys are often too real, and often don't want to spend a lot of thoughts, unlike girls to express their love. After all, there are too many girls being chased by her opposite sex now. Who often starts in love first? Whoever is the most shameless first will often take the lead. . Ah, those introverted boys often stand still and miss the love in their hearts.
Most introverts are slow to heat. Girls are often very enthusiastic about their feelings, and are often more willing to accept active and enthusiastic boys. Your child is also a special kind of animal. You know Xincheng likes him who is introverted, and he likes himself. Because of this, he didn't care too much, which made girls disheartened again and again. Ah, it's not necessarily that girl really likes or really loves this boy.
The achilles heel of introverted boys is their love of dreaming, and they always hope that good things will take the initiative to find themselves. Especially for feelings, it is natural to be late.
How to make up for your own shortcomings? Introverted boys, introverted boys, must really show their strength in front of the opposite sex. Let your Excellence add points for yourself, so as to win the hearts of girls.
Introverted boys should express themselves boldly. Give your tenderness to girls. Introverted boys must boldly go out. Throwing caution to the wind in pursuit of love.
Introverted boys should fully show their strength, want to love you, or the girls you love, so that girls can look at you with new eyes and have a special liking. From me, I will win the girls' good opinion of myself.
In fact, introversion is never a reason. There is no direct causal relationship between emotional problems and personality, introversion and extroversion.
Love is the passion spark that ignites love when two hearts collide this year. When two hearts are close to each other and attract each other, love comes naturally.
Tell yourself boldly that introverts need love more. More need to pursue love. Boldly throw your own beautiful olive branch for the girl you like.
Introverted, calmer and more emboldened to show our most unique and shining side to girls. For the love in your heart, bravely show yourself once. For love, what cowardice and shame? What can't be put down? For love, express yourself boldly and bravely, and everything makes way for love. Until you win the beauty. . .
Introverted, I will eat you, my favorite girl, my love! ! !
I can tell you responsibly that if you are always introverted and don't change, it is impossible to make a girlfriend! Of course you are rich and handsome. Forget it!
Judging from the pictures you sent, you belong to the man show type! The man show has no future! If you want to have a girlfriend, you still have to put down the shackles of your heart and wave and flirt by yourself. As far as I know, all the friends around you are silent, and Man Xiu is still single after several years!
And it's really slutty, hi everywhere, girlfriends have changed several times, and some are married! Today's women all eat this set: oral flowers, generous money (in fact, you have no money), humor, wit, equality (don't treat her like a goddess) and so on.
These are skills, and the standard is Gao Fushuai! No handsome, no money, can only rely on humor, which is commonly known as oral flower. ...
As a senior love rat, I will tell you some characteristics of women who are easy to be caught by novices.
Find a round face or a square face. Although the face does not conform to the oriental aesthetic, it is definitely coquettish. Captain Surprise is such a slut.
Girls with short hair are easier to tease than girls with long hair, and simple hairstyles are easier to tease than exquisite hairstyles. It's definitely not showy. Easier to flirt than laymen.
The chest is below the A cup and above the E cup. One is demanding sex, unconstrained style, and the other is mindless fantasy of fairy tales.
Under the height 168, there is no shortage of men to take care of the above, and novices have no chance to compete. Don't try to change your heart for your own sake. A senior woman hopes to exchange her short youth for a high-end meal ticket in her next life. No one will mess around, especially a scheming bitch, unless you are not afraid of her reputation being damaged.
The thigh root is thick and the ass is big. This kind of body odor is heavy, easy to develop, easy to tease, and in great demand. Unless you are too ugly, you rarely refuse to tease.
Note that a lot of coquetry is not necessarily sexy. If you have it around, try telling some dirty jokes while drinking and see her reaction. We must distinguish between prudes and real classics. This involves micro-expression and behavioral psychology, so I won't say much. I can study it myself.
The two most important ones are put at the end.
Rule number one
Beginners should first find a single and experienced woman who is four to six years older than you. Remember that they must be 4 to 6 years old, 4 to 6 years old, 4 to 6 years old. Say the important things three times.
If the other party doesn't accept it, it can be interpreted as a joke.
If you accept it, she will take you away in the future. They like brothers and sisters.
Experienced older women, although some people strongly refuse, but two people try once, there will be a second time, and they will enjoy it in the future.
Older women with less experience will refuse more strongly. Once she tries it once, she will be infatuated with your ambiguity and passion together. After a few times, she will be yours, but be careful not to stick your hands.
Coping with weak refusal, coaxing and cheating.
There are two things to deal with strong rejection.
The simple way is to be tough, remember that it is not rape, but mental depression, which makes her feel that she can't leave without doing it with you. Remember to reserve enough experience. When dealing with older women, strength is the key, not skill. Young women are skills > strength.
The complicated way is to create a scene where two people are alone in a closed space, such as ktv, private bathroom, the back row of the cinema or directly you and her home. You must play very high before entering the arena. Don't be afraid to spend money. Everyone was very open-minded before they had a chance to touch her body in the scene, such as massage, wiping face, doing hair, playing games, pretending to be joking, blowing air into her ears and so on. In my experience, back massage is the most useful, because there is a reason to let her undress one by one, and then it will come naturally.
Article 2.
In front of old women, you must pretend. The kind that is harmless to people and animals. If she thinks your purpose is not pure from the beginning, then you will spend a lot of thought and money in the future. Let her feel that your interest in her is bit by bit, not love at first sight. Older women who are not confident about their face value are all pretending to be too honest and selling all kinds of cuteness. If you have a confident older woman, make up for it in temperament and behavior. Make her think you're special, but don't be grandstanding. As long as she pays attention to you, you can imply that she is interested in her through behavior, refer to the first one.
Can you give me a compliment after typing so many words by hand?
First of all, not obscene. Even ugly can't be obscene.
Maybe some people don't know what lewdness is, so I'll talk about lewdness, but I dare not do it if I want to, and I can only fantasize if I want to.
Do you think love rat and girls will hesitate to go straight to bed? Handsome is second, but mainly because it is not obscene. People have lost their obscene temperament and are not good-looking. They are as disgusting as they want.
A person's temperament can be seen from his appearance. We can all see that people who have been soldiers have a temperament. I can't see it, but I can feel it.
Extubation can also be obscene, because you want a woman but dare not go to sleep, so you can only fantasize, leading to a decline in temperament, so you are obscene.
The first choice for women to look at men is temperament. Why do you say that clothes must be matched? Because good collocation can improve a person's temperament.
As a boy, how to improve his temperament, first choose exercise, which can make him more manly. Second, go to bed early and get up early. Don't be listless all day. A listless person is really temperamental. Third, go after a woman you like even if she refuses, because when you are chasing a woman, you won't say anything in your heart.
You know, casting a net on a large scale can always catch women. Don't try to chase her, just don't dare and feel inferior. You are wretched because of inferiority, and you are single because of meanness.
Even if you are a gangster, at least you won't be single. You see, school thugs are not good-looking, but many women like them because they have a fearless temperament and attract each other.
Men always feel the same way about each other when they look at men, but women look at men differently.
So if you want a girlfriend, you should start with temperament, run, keep fit, go to bed early and get up early, and clean up every day. You are close to the bill.
And what they call routines are really old-fashioned. Don't treat girls like fools, or you will be a fool. Now the routines are all broken. I used to go clubbing all day, and all the women I liked asked for WeChat directly, but I just refused to change it.
As a result, I met a woman who liked her on the road and asked for WeChat directly, but I just wanted to stay there. ...
Because it was hormones that prompted me to do this, I knew that if I didn't want WeChat, I might never see it again, so I wanted it.
You can look at other people's temperament, or you can look at your own temperament. You can see the people's Sammo Hung. Who dares to say that people have no temperament?
Also, if you are single because you can't chat, and if you have read 10W, I will update an article on how to speak. Now give you a summary. If you can talk, you must learn to pull each other into the water. Don't look up at your goddess underwater.
When was the label of introversion put on? Is it yourself or others? If you can't get a girlfriend for many years, it has little to do with extroversion or not. Can only say that you lack a sincerity that the other party can feel. You label yourself introverted, so you can rationalize your various behaviors unscrupulously: for example, when we eat together, we are always embarrassed and don't know what to talk about; I am an introverted person, and I dare not express many words; I can see from her eyes that she actually thinks I'm a little slow ... all kinds of inner scenes, hidden in my mind, shaping my introverted self. As a result, they are unwilling to try to break the embarrassment, unwilling to express themselves, accustomed to hesitation and speculation, and have no energy to see the truth. The so-called introversion is not to rationalize one's emotional inaction to a certain extent. Isn't the so-called introversion just standing still and seeking a kind of stability that doesn't go out of the comfort zone? What I want to say is that you created all this with your own brain! Perhaps in the previous heterosexual communication, because you first got to know each other with your inner label, in this process, you are actually sensitively capturing each other's reactions and expressions every minute, which proves that girls don't like people like me. They use unreal thinking to derive more unreality, which makes them unable to extricate themselves and affects every communication with the opposite sex. The point is, it's not that the other person rejects you, but that you have been rejecting yourself.
Whether it is a woman or a man, sincerity is the most desirable in a relationship. Labels are sometimes like masks, because if you stay away from the truth, you can't be sincere. Give up the label of introversion in my mind and tell myself that the process of getting rid of me is also the process of finding my true self under the control of my imagined image. Humor, tolerance, responsibility, fun, will not refuse introversion, but will only be incompatible with hypocrisy. The true self is extremely lethal and attractive, and can attract people who really like you.
Say a few more words, love is a process of promoting your mental maturity and constantly expanding your boundaries. If you still can't tear off the label of introversion for yourself in a short time, then try to devote yourself to true love and you will see a different self. Love can tear off the label for you. This process may be painful, but you can finally meet a better self.
The truest self can only be found by yourself! Find him!
Thank you!
Love is a process of promoting your mental maturity and constantly expanding your boundaries. If you can't tear off the label of introversion for yourself in a short time, you must try your best to devote yourself to true love once, and you will see a different self. Love can tear off the label for you. This process may be painful, but you can finally meet a better self. Whether you can find a girlfriend is not necessarily related to whether you are introverted or extroverted. Some girls like lively boys, while others like quiet and withdrawn boys.
Just like the entertainment circle, some people keep doing all kinds of publicity, take the initiative to approach the media, and perform all kinds of talents at concerts. Concerts like Faye Wong are also few words. Never dance.
But Faye Wong has never lacked fans.
Therefore, personality is not decisive.
What matters is whether you can attract a girl with your talent, interest and concern after you get in touch with her.
In emotional matters, like many other things, coincidence is really important.
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Of course, we must first overcome our inner fears, because introverts are afraid of dealing with people.
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Secondly, we can learn some methods or ways together, which is very beneficial to our relationship with our girlfriends.
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If you are shy when you meet, we can communicate by phone or video.
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Another point is to learn to be cheeky, and never be shy and cheeky and old-fashioned.
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We can also find some other partners to accompany you and give you courage so that you won't feel embarrassed and shy.
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If you improve your ability, girls will take the initiative to like you, so it doesn't matter whether you are introverted or not.
Whether you can find a girlfriend is not necessarily related to whether you are introverted or extroverted. Some girls like lively boys, while others like quiet and withdrawn boys.
Just like the entertainment circle, some people keep doing all kinds of publicity, take the initiative to approach the media, and perform all kinds of talents at concerts. Concerts like Faye Wong are also few words. Never dance.
But Faye Wong has never lacked fans.
Therefore, personality is not decisive.
What matters is whether you can attract a girl with your talent, interest and concern after you get in touch with her.
In emotional matters, like many other things, coincidence is really important.
In modern society, both introverts and extroverts have a lot of girlfriends as long as they have cars, houses and savings. However, how do introverts make girlfriends? When a boy meets a girl, he always blushes and his heart beats, and he is too shy to know what to say. If a boy is tall, handsome, gentle and simple. Once born, twice familiar, more contact, more talk, less shy. As long as the woman likes the man and the man likes the woman, you can date and drag your fingers. When the time is ripe, upgrade to love, love, love, from the heart, sincere, sincere, not hypocritical. Then love, true love, sentient beings and righteousness, like Sanqiu, never see each other for a day.
Love deeply, look into your eyes. God cherishes destiny takes a hand's people. People have feelings. As long as introverts are emotional, humorous, diligent, kind, studious and enterprising, and take part in social activities, the girls in their dreams will appear.
Fate, people are talking about fate, and they are destined to meet thousands of miles away, but they don't meet. Boys bloom early, and it is easy to make girlfriends, while boys bloom late and make girlfriends later. Fate is predestined, we can't force it, we can't ask for it, we are emotional and sincere, and I hope all boys and girls in the world have good friends.