1. Thick-skinned: This is very important. Jordan chan said in the movie "Young and Dangerous": If a man is thick-skinned, he has successfully chased half the girls. Hey hey! ! Later, I tried to bail.
2. Infatuation: No matter how wronged you are, you should show indifference, and find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from loving you, I will. I beg you not to take me as your burden. You can try to live your own life. I just hope ... just a little hope (eyes must be wet) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... although ... even if (tears are needed at this time, it's hard to say) treat me as a brother, as a younger brother, others can't help it, as long as. It's enough to be as sad as possible. That's enough. .......... (muttering to herself) At this moment, remember never to tell a girl that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate it when a boy dies in front of her.
3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: I can't teach you this, I can only rely on you. At this point, I want to remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking" and make it up. Girls naturally like to be flattered.
4. Stability: This is all compatible with the third point. If you are not steady, girls will say that you are a playboy, and if you are not smooth-tongued, girls will say that you don't understand interest. Ha ha!
5. Romance: It's up to you. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. This trick will greatly expose the rich, so don't be afraid to spend money.
6. Be careful: no matter what you do, you should think of her first, (don't think you will suffer ... and so on) take care of her in every possible way, and you must make her feel that she can't live without you.
7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points, I feel that there is no girl you can't catch up with (this sentence does not include those who have too big a difference in appearance, such as men who look like turtles and women who look like angels). In short, use the word "heart" to understand what she thinks, what she thinks. Finally, may all lovers get married.
Warning: Don't cheat girls with the above points. If found, I will inform my spoony brothers to get up and beat up the bad guys.
[repost] chasing girls must read: tips! ! ! ! ! ! !
Right or wrong on the first date
1) Pay attention to her so that she can pay attention to you-
I hope she pays attention to you, in fact, it is best to start from herself, including paying attention to her daily dress, paying attention to some details in her life, what she likes to eat, what hobbies and interests she has, and so on. Once you have a chance to talk to her, you can naturally open the topic and discuss it. When she knows that you are paying close attention to her, she will unexpectedly draw her attention to you and may leave a deep impression.
2) Avoid an unstable first date.
After all, the first date is very important. Most girls prefer frank words to evasive ones. Therefore, instead of simply asking her when she will be free and other vague questions, it is better to boldly assume a date to show your sincerity. Otherwise, girls will be confused and don't know if your date is true or not. An erratic date is not sincere enough, so it is more than a failure.
3) Careful, caring and sincere-
She agreed to your date, which initially proved that she did not resist you, and even had a good impression and had the opportunity to develop into friends. At this time, you might as well pay attention to her dress that day and give her a gentle compliment, which is enough to make her happy.
In addition, you should make preparations before the date, such as finding out what dishes she likes to eat in advance, or booking three restaurants with different mood and food (of course, it is best to concentrate in the same area), so that she can choose at that time, which will naturally make her feel that you are so cautious, and the most important thing is that you are sincere. You can't ignore the opportunity to show your grace, such as driving the door, pulling the seat and sending her home. Remember, she will be special.
4) Avoid talking about past relationships-
You like a girl and have a lot to say to her, which is understandable, including your past and present. But many men make a mistake, that is, they put their past love history into their mouths on the first date, hoping that the other person can understand their past, but this often ignores the feelings of girls. Did you hear about your ex-girlfriend because she was dating you? Besides, most girls like to be unique in their boyfriends' hearts, and they will never let their boyfriends have another person in their hearts. Jealousy has long been closely linked with love, and it is not controlled by reason. Therefore, once old feelings are involved, it is better to be careful and considerate of each other's feelings.
5) Give her a small gift to make her happy-
Consider it a small gift. Choose a delicate gift for her in advance, such as a fresh and gorgeous tulip, a box of beautifully packaged chocolates, a necklace with simple design and an interesting little book. Gifts are more important than money, and it is best to be small. You shouldn't act in a hurry. Buying her gold ornaments or expensive leather bags on the first date will only scare her, and then she will give you a push.
6) Avoid boring topics and boring conversations-
If we can seize the opportunity to have a chat with her, we should communicate well. You can pay more attention to her recent situation, hobbies or views on things, ask questions to deepen your understanding and understanding of her, and let the topic continue naturally, instead of having a yes or no, which will be boring.
Similarly, you should talk about what you think the other person is interested in, not just your expertise or ambition. Don't bore her on the first date, then there may be no next date.
7) It is recommended that the whole appointment be successfully completed-
After dinner, ask her about eating. Ask her if she is interested in going to another store or staying for dessert. It will make her feel considerate. Dessert after dinner is a good suggestion. You can use this time to talk and laugh. After dinner, you should send her home. Before you leave, simply say to her: [It's good to be with you tonight]. That will make her happy. At this time, と
I believe she has no room to refuse you.
How to chase girls
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The following information comes from the game Beauty Terminator. Enjoy it!
The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you.
After touching a woman, you can enhance each other's intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but how to touch a woman without trace requires excellent skills). It would be perfect if I had a chance to touch her knees or hands. But if you meet on the first date, don't do this. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposed positions (that's how opportunities are made).
In terms of women's body, the left side (roughly the left side, yes, but for left-handed women, it is the right side) is a non-daily area, which is easy to feel itchy, while the left side of the breast is a sensitive area for women. So, it's best to have a woman on your left. If you hold her from the left rear with your left hand, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.
& lt the difference between a popular man and an unpopular man >
Popular men always stay away from unsatisfactory women, but for desirable women, there are ways to put her around.
Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is a fatal wound for women). This curiosity can be used for interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information.
If you are unpopular, even if the other person is curious, you can only try your best to avoid seeing you. Unpopular men are always lonely around you. Whenever you want to be in a lively atmosphere, you must be confident (self-confidence without arrogance is the only way to chase your girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, a good girl will belong to you.
& lt from friends to lovers >
I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I didn't know what gift to bring. On this occasion, it is best to bring a flower, so that you may pin it on her chest (giving gifts is knowledge, but it is unwise to put flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or give it, which naturally forms an opportunity to kiss each other.
As for dining, you may be cautious for the first time, but after the second time, you can choose food for two people to enhance mutual intimacy.
If you can have a big bite with her, then your relationship is not just a friend, but a lover.
& lt Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world >
After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people worry that their relationship will not go on. In fact, if these people don't care too much, they will often let the opportunity to improve their mood slip away quietly. In the female ethnic group, they attach great importance to the boys who want to help women with their coats, because at the moment of taking off their coats, if there are men present, it is easy for women to have the illusion of lovers. When riding in the car, if you can say: put the forgotten things on my side, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating.
& lt create an accident >
Mystery is very important to women. Men who meet by chance are more attractive to women than men introduced by others or known in the workplace. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will be convinced of the existence of fate.
But can you create a second chance? In fact, everyone can do this. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commuting route and other related matters in detail, so it will be much easier to create a second chance.
Only by accepting a woman's sight can you become a successful man. Women always pay attention to the nature of men's true colors, so when they know that men's true colors are not their favorite type, they are likely to take the opportunity to run away.
It's better to make some changes if it can meet her preferences. In addition, excellent memory is a characteristic of women. Some men forget a sentence, but women remember it clearly, so you must remember everything you said to her.
& lt What kind of gift does she want? & gt
As for giving gifts, if your girlfriend likes small things, you can send rings, watches or flowers. If she likes big things, you can send big dolls or large and numerous bouquets, which will win her heart.
Generally speaking, people who like small things are mostly mature people, because these things can be placed within their control, so most of them will not follow their inclinations. Women who like big dolls are a little childish, so she may haunt her boyfriend when she is happy. However, it is also possible that after hugging the doll, she doesn't want to hug you anymore.
In this respect, although women who like small things will make you pay more, it seems easier to cultivate long-term love.
& lt Shortcut for Kissing >
There is a principle when kissing a woman, that is, to press her against the wall. Women can find the steps against the wall because I can't hide (-yes! ! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step, even if it is similar to "strong kiss", it is very easy to succeed! What you can't escape and avoid is a very important factor psychologically. Before you want to become an expert in erotic hunting, you must be familiar with all kinds of skills that can understand women's psychology in order to win the final victory.
Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, you'd better choose one with steps, because it will give you more excuses to get close to her. If you can hold her hand, it will make her peel off a layer of defense, and the only thing left is to kiss her.
& lt If you give in to a woman's words or attitude too much, you are sure to fail >
Women are cute and scary animals. The main difference between men and women is that they both have two personalities. They look quite gentle on the surface, but they can be said to be sluts at heart. Men who are not good at pursuing women easily succumb to this horror.
Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles and become opinionated.
& lt How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl? & gt
Generally speaking, there are two kinds of women, one is infatuation with men who can hold themselves high, and the other is infatuation with men who always belittle themselves.
Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so they can't give objective opinions.
On the contrary, if a man is good at communicating with women, even if he says something unpleasant, he can stop blushing and panting, and there are often some good opportunities around him.
& lt Sometimes you might as well spoil her >
Of course, it is best for men and women to have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "made for each other". These people have a lot in common except before they met. When they live together, they also have many similarities.
In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a good combination. Women who are bosses often show their strong side to others in order to prove their income. If your female companion is in this category, you might as well find an opportunity to act coquettish in turn. A woman with high self-esteem is more likely to catch her heart.
This kind of girl, what she says is basically the same as what she does. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so sometimes you might as well play the slave of love. When you get along with these women, as long as you remember the principle of never opposing her, it will be unexpectedly easy to pursue them and will be an ideal object.
& lt show your gentleness and thoughtfulness >
You shouldn't do such gentle behavior too deliberately. You should seize the opportunity and do it calmly.
It is very important if you can smile kindly at dogs and kittens, or show compassion for flowers and grass. At this time, she will feel that you have such feelings for these little things, and your feelings for women are beyond doubt. At the same time, she will also make sure that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you have already succeeded halfway.
& lt The sea and sunset are the best combination to seduce women >
Women have longed for water since ancient times (yes, the best place for dating is the sunset by the sea! ! )。
In most romantic songs, it seems that the sun is not set at noon, and there is no one who is not immersed in sadness because he sees the sunset at the seaside. A relationship must be immersed in sadness first, and only when you feel a person's loneliness can you appreciate the taste of feelings. If a woman agrees with this scene, she will agree with this emotion.
& lt Give her dreams in communication >
Some people think that girls are easy to be cheated, but is this really the case? In fact, when girls face their ideal prince charming, even if they are cheated, they will have willing ideas. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls are likely to gamble their luck according to their own wishes.
So, the most important thing is that you should give each other some dreams. At first, you can't change your attitude or commitment to approach her. To be clear, you should give her dreams. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.
If your girlfriend yawns lightly on a date, it's not that she's tired, but that you say she's tired of you (be careful and to the point, it's important to know whether a woman is impatient with you), or that she signals you to pay attention to the time on your watch, which shows that she already wants to go home.
If her thoughts are strong, she may act without looking at you, and then you may not exist in her heart.
If a woman is with the man she loves, she often doesn't care about her surroundings. If these women are self-centered, it's not too much, but if women look at something else, you should be prepared to end this relationship at any time.
If women say "men are really annoying", many women like to add the word "annoying" after a sentence. However, in this usage, there are two different meanings worthy of attention. When "hate" is generally used to express it, it often appears in men and women who are close to each other. If they are not very close, the other person may give you a contemptuous look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, it is relatively comparative.
In order to increase the intimacy between you, you have to show her your masculinity as soon as possible, but if men make women feel unclean, they are likely to discourage them.
& lt Observe women by talking & gt；;
What kind of person is she? If she can talk continuously, it's easy to doubt what's going on in her mind.
Humans always want others to take a look at themselves, so both men and women always arrange their appearance properly, but their appearance is not complete enough, so they can also let others know more about themselves through conversation.
Women whose voices change quickly will express their inner excitement with their voices, and soft tone is also a type that can make people enjoy themselves.
However, you should pay special attention to women who talk like neighbors. She may be very jealous, and a woman with a low voice quality may be more masculine.
& lt Women who often listen to walkman are more self-centered & gt；;
Recently, you can often see some women wearing walkman on the bus. In fact, some of these women who use headphones to suppress their hearing are actually trying to escape loneliness and immerse themselves in the music world. However, some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this requires considerable vigilance, because this is one of the types of self-centered people.
& lt Women are usually attracted by [first impressions].
It has been reported that women should be careful about their first impression of (-), and many people died at this point! ! )
Men with beards have a higher opinion than men without beards. Appearance, posture and clothes are all important factors that determine the first impression, so it is not good if these first impressions are not brought into play. Usually, the first impression given by appearance is deeply embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to his dress attitude, he will win in love.
Lesson 1 Absolute confidence
Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must stick to the belief that you must succeed and never be lonely again. Instead, we should adopt the method of "self-reliance", pursue girls by our own strength and avoid relying on friends and family. Friends and family can't just help themselves. Too many people know that your other half is more likely to backfire. Girls don't like people who rely on friends to chase girls. However, to fulfill your wishes, the first thing is self-confidence. Even if you are not "Prince Charming", you can dress yourself up as a prince. The important thing is that the confident temperament and demeanor make the other party irresistible. In short, it is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.
Lesson 2 A man who confuses women
Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, their most popular man has the following characteristics: good popularity, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others, no opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and a little romantic.
In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more the above points, the more favorable you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller it is, the harder it is to break out of the tight encirclement. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because you can't have some shortcomings that the other party can't accept or tolerate at the same time, such as bad men. Generally speaking, it takes eyes, voice and body language to attract women. When we meet for the first time, we can naturally look at her ears. When two people meet, and then turn their eyes to their ears, she will naturally be deeply moved by you. When you have a chance to speak, your voice will be slightly higher than hers. Cheerful and loud will attract her to continue talking to you. When listening to her, your eyes will shift to her lips, which will make her feel that you are listening to her attentively. As for the hand on the table, the four fingers are side by side, which makes people feel neat and beautiful and naturally has a good impression on you.
Lesson 3 Encounters
You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church. Therefore, when you meet the woman you have been waiting for for a long time and hit it off at any place and any occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, etc. Don't hesitate, the opportunity may never come back. Grasping the current opportunity and grasping the current person, your only way is naturally to go forward and talk, so that she can know you, have an impression, have a good impression, have love, have ideas and so on. You have to start the first step anyway. But there is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can keep your stomach in the future. Therefore, in daily life, we must always study and be able to cope when it is useful.
Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:
1. Look at her with attracted or uncontrollable eyes and look back from time to time. (This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will think that his charm is difficult to display, complacent, can not help but look back at you. )
2. A smile. They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may smile back. )
Ask her the time in the most natural way, but there must be no watch, but you can slow down or speed up first. She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )
4. "hello! "Smile. If you do it properly, your natural and unrestrained attitude will certainly attract her, but most importantly, she will be sure that you have been attracted to her. The purpose of the above is to reduce the vigilance of strange girls. Because we don't know each other at all, if we are too glib in our speech and attitude, it may make the other person disgusted and thus self-defeating. In fact, any woman believes and obeys fate, and they will believe that every man who appears in front of her eyes may be her future husband. So, as long as you use the right method, she is always ready to accept you with open arms. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even only she can attract you. Then, she will gradually release her psychological alert and smile at you. However, if the other person is introduced by a friend, or you know that you are related to the other person (such as school and work), then things will be much easier.
5. "He [someone] said that you are a beautiful woman in XX College, so you must be busy pursuing different boys every day. "Even if she is not a real beauty queen, after you say it, she must feel that her beauty has charmed many people, but most importantly, she must deny and explain. )
6. "Your work looks interesting. What are your daily duties? 」。
At this moment, she is absolutely embarrassed to refuse to answer, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and frank eyes and answer with your heart. )
7. "You must have spent a lot of time and thought on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child? This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both flattering and irrelevant. )
8. "Go to the street and meet your true self! 」
I have a friend named Wang, who is ugly, but he has a high quality of picking up girls in recent years. Let's share his successful experience with you:
1, learn to laugh at yourself
If you are ugly, well, it doesn't matter. Since it can't be changed, let's face it frankly. Don't decorate yourself too much. If you make women feel inferior because you are ugly, then you have already started the first step of failure. In the process of getting along with women, we should learn to laugh at ourselves humorously. You can exaggerate your physical defects at will. If you put your shortcomings in front of a joke, they can become advantages. Even if you can't, it will at least add some fun to your conversation. This way of speaking can easily give you confidence. Almost all women like confident and funny men. Of course, not all defects can be used as jokes, such as being blind or lame.
2. Love never cheats.
If you don't love a woman but want her body, then you have to deceive yourself and say that you are in love with her. A woman is an animal with a keen sense of smell. She can tell whether she loves or not at a glance, so you must learn to cheat yourself before you cheat a woman. If you fall in love with a woman, don't show it, always remind yourself not to really fall in love, whether it is useful or not, once you fall into the whirlpool of feelings, it is difficult for you to win.
Love is a war. Before going to bed, men and women are always selfish enemies. Men shoot love bullets to conquer women's sexual posture, while women want love to defend their bodies. They are disloyal and not discouraged, and no one will compromise until one day they lie on the same negotiating bed. So, say goodbye to the climax, some people shed tears and some people smile.
3. Emotional cost
Unlike soliciting prostitutes, no matter how heartless you are, you always have to pay more or less affection to pick up girls. If possible, try to get a woman to invite you to dinner in advance, even if it's just a bowl of noodles or a few kebabs. It's not much money, but it's of great significance, which involves a person's emotional contribution, which is crucial, especially for the first time. If after eating like this, you feel that you are not interested in this woman, and you don't want to have anything to do with her or owe her anything in the future, then you'd better take the initiative to pay the bill and remain a gentleman. On the contrary, if you love this woman, don't be too generous. You don't have to pretend to be a gentleman. You must be a bad person. Women like bad men. When they get home, they will wonder why they invited such a garbage man to dinner. They will wonder if they are in love with this man. They will fall into a wave of self-criticism. Finally, they will reluctantly find themselves a very out-of-tune reason and go to sleep sadly. At this time, women's efforts will begin. Don't eat those meaningless meals with women. If you can't do it after two meals, if there is no love, change people quickly.
Different from going to work, no matter how convenient your transportation is, never take the initiative to take a bus or go to a woman by car. You should let women take the initiative to come to you, no matter how far, one kilometer, one hundred kilometers, or even one thousand kilometers. The distance is not far away, but it is of great significance, which also involves a person's emotional contribution.
To sum up these two points, if a woman comes all the way to invite you to dinner and then climbs the last bus, it is hard for her to love you or not on the way home with alcohol. So many times, many women will stay with you for the night after dinner, because she has given her feelings, and she is eager to get something from you, even if it is only physical, which is also a kind of return.
If a man does this, it won't do. If you take the trouble to run over and invite her to dinner, she will politely send you to the station. You'll get nothing. She will not be moved by your efforts and generosity, because this is not love. With you, her vanity is satisfied, her charm is reflected, and her self-esteem still exists, so she doesn't love you.
Step 4 win sympathy
If you think a woman doesn't love you, but you love her. You are humorous, lovely, frank, sincere, profligate and brilliant, but she doesn't appreciate all these advantages. Another trick is to pretend to be pathetic and squeeze out a drop or two of fake tears when necessary. You can make up stories for her You told her about your childhood misfortune, that you were an orphan, that you were abandoned by women, that you were disappointed in life, that your family had a shadow, that you attempted suicide, and that you were beaten and hospitalized. ...
Women are born to be men's mothers, and they have a maternal heart. You should regard yourself as their son to tell your fictional misfortune. If you can't be a love director, you must learn to be a good actor and devote yourself to sad stories. This is nothing to be ashamed of, because love itself is a play.
It is true that sympathy is not love, but according to Marxist philosophical theory, the two sides of contradiction can be transformed into each other, and sympathy can be transformed into love in an instant. There are many such examples, so I won't list them one by one.