Human consciousness is like an iceberg in the sea. Half surfaced and the other half was hidden under the water. What is visible to the naked eye is called consciousness, and what is hidden under the water is called subconscious.
Although the subconscious can't see it at ordinary times, no one can ignore its existence. Many times it is the subconscious that determines a person's fate.
This is like Bai once answered the words of college students in third-tier cities in a speech. College students ask: Miss Bai, I am a college student in a third-tier city. How to compare with college students in first-tier and second-tier cities after graduation?
Bai Xian said: In my opinion, all provincial capitals belong to second-tier cities. Then she corrected her expression and said, "There is something wrong with this question. The first thing you should think of is that you are a college graduate like them. " .
I give this example to say that people should be confident and not be influenced by their bad subconscious. Psychological suggestion can greatly change a person's life trajectory.
Dreaming that you have cancer may lead to physical fatigue recently, or stress in your heart because of something. This is not a sign and you need to relax.
In fact, many things in life are inextricably linked. When a person dreams of things that make him nervous, it is easy to fall into a vicious circle if he does not adjust his mood.
Find out the reason for this bad psychological suggestion. As the saying goes, "Shoot the horse first, catch the thief first." To solve the problem, we must first find the root of the problem, and the root of the matter often comes from the heart of the parties.
This is a process similar to psychological counseling. What the psychological counselor needs to do is to help the counselor sort out what is hidden in his heart, and use professional communication to urge the other party to express things completely, and then sort it out according to his own wishes and find a solution.
After all, thoughts are your own, and no one can make decisions for another person's life. Only the parties can make up their minds or change direction.