Explain that there are many things you need to sort out yourself in your progress at present. Among these things, some things belong to the fly in the ointment, some are good and some are bad, and you are reluctant to give up yourself, which belongs to the troubles you encountered in your progress.
Since you want to give up on yourself, it may be a good idea to give time to solve it. Over time, some will fade away, and some will be solved easily.
Because it was my troubles that accompanied my progress, I went forward again, and the troubles and problems belonging to bees were gone.