People say that they think during the day and dream at night, and they have a very logical dream, which shows that this is related to your behavior or thoughts during the day.
You must have some emotional confusion in real life. It's hard to say and can't vent. Instead, you had such a dream.
Dreaming that you will refuse a boy's pursuit is a subtle hope that the boy will pursue it, and the pursuer will stick a needle in his throat, which is just a manifestation of his spiritual fear.
I hope it helps!