After reading a work, I believe everyone must understand a lot. It's time to take time out to write your thoughts. How to write a review and avoid writing a "running account"? The following are 800 words (9 general words) I collected for you, and I hope it will help you. 、
Inferiority and transcendence: 800 words 1 I wanted to read this book a long time ago, but it was too professional to turn it over. However, during the National Day holiday, the day school opened a stress reading class for this book, which is really difficult for people like me who can't finish reading tasks on weekends and holidays. Lao Mao said, try it? After some ideological struggle, I paid the 30 yuan deposit and started a new round of reading trip.
Inferiority and Transcendence is a masterpiece of individual psychology. Altay, the author, together with Freud and Jung, became the three giants of psychology. I took the course of Freud's dream interpretation in college, thinking that it would give people the feeling of dream interpretation after learning it. But at that time, I heard a lot of fog, and I couldn't understand what I was saying. I only remember that the teacher suffered from leg disease and sat in a wheelchair to teach this course.
Later, I gradually learned about several schools of psychological credits, thinking that I had a chance to know more about them. So I heard Inferiority and Transcendence when I was listening to books, and I hoarded this book when I was engaged in activities.
In recent years, there are always some opinions that blame the improper behavior of adults on a certain problem in childhood, which makes people feel that these problems are irreversible. Altay also agrees with some viewpoints, but he agrees that we can achieve self-transcendence by analyzing the causes of inferiority and training.
In the first chapter, it tells us that the true meaning of life lies in dedication and cooperation. Only by living with an open mind can we cooperate with others to the greatest extent and realize our self-worth. The second chapter tells us that in order to help and educate people, we must interpret his environment and his thoughts and practice of choosing life in this environment. Although this book was written about 100 years ago, the idea of win-win cooperation and serving the society is still useful today.
I am very happy to read this book at this time. At the beginning of school, the child's class teacher gave the parents a book list, which contained "Inferiority and Transcendence". The two chapters I read today made me feel the importance of family relationship, parent-child relationship and family education in early life.
It happened to be this year, because one thing reminded me of my boyhood, he began to consider two seemingly opposite concepts: superiority and inferiority. There are many manifestations of inferiority, and people with inferiority will also show it in various forms, including fear, nervousness, and a little arrogance and indifference. Only those who realize the deep reasons of their inferiority can face up to their inferiority and a series of problems caused by it.
And the early memories will accompany us all our lives. From all kinds of cases in the book, remind me what kind of attitude and mood I should use as a mother to treat all kinds of problems in the process of children's growth and all kinds of emotional reactions they show. As the closest person, my methods may affect their lives. Educate yourself and grow together!
I have always felt that I am an inferior person. Although I will be generous in front of others, it is actually to cover up my inferiority.
I used to think that excellent people would not feel inferior, but then I gradually found some people around me who I thought were much better than me. They all feel inferior at times. After all, there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people. Maybe only a frog in the well won't feel inferior.
Adler also said in Inferiority and Transcendence that each of us has a sense of inferiority to varying degrees, because we all want to make ourselves better and live a better life.
So inferiority complex is useless, on the contrary, it can promote our progress.
But not the more the better. If you feel too inferior, you will lose confidence in life and dare not do anything. In this case, it is difficult to make progress. But it may also lead to inferiority complex, thus gaining a sense of superiority in the wrong way.
What is inferiority complex?
Adler said: "If a person feels powerless when facing a difficult problem, the resulting emotion is called inferiority complex."
I once had a colleague who always liked to brag about what he had in front of us, such as where he traveled, what good things he bought, which high-end restaurant he went to eat, and so on. We didn't really envy her after listening, but felt that she was very sad. We gained a sense of superiority and existence by showing off. This is because this sense of superiority is empty and cannot reduce her inferiority complex.
Adler said: "Because inferiority makes a person feel anxious, he will seek superiority to compensate his emotions, but the purpose of doing so is not to solve the problem, but to hide the real problem." Therefore, his activities are limited, and he will focus on how to avoid failure instead of trying to solve the problem. Difficulties brought him only hesitation, hesitation and retreat. "
Therefore, it is still necessary to have a clear understanding of yourself and know what shortcomings you have, but don't feel inferior because of this, but try to improve. For example, the recently popular video number has gathered a group of outstanding people from all over the world and all walks of life. It really feels like they've been crushed. They are really excellent and share a lot of things that I haven't even heard before. The gap is too big. However, if you stop because of this, then this life is doomed to be mediocre. So I adjust my mentality and strive to improve in my own field, not blindly comparing with others, but comparing with myself yesterday, as long as I keep improving.
Finally, I quote from Mr. Jiang Yang: "No matter what life path you take, there are always people looking up to you and others looking down on you. You look up and feel inferior, and you bow your head and be complacent. Only by looking directly can you see your true self. "
Inferiority and transcendence come from reading 800 words and 3 books. It is mentioned that most girls feel inferior to their female identity in adolescence, and they show their sincere admiration for men because of their sincere dissatisfaction with their identity.
They will express their admiration for men in many ways: sometimes they will show their disgust and escape from men; Sometimes, although I like men, I am very shy in front of men and even speechless. They can't face the party with men, and it will be embarrassing to encounter this situation. When I am old, I will verbally express my intention to get married, but I have not put it into action. They don't touch the opposite sex, and they don't make friends with the opposite sex.
Seeing this passage gave me great feelings, because these characteristics were reflected in all stages of my youth, but I never thought about whether I hated my female identity.
I think I am an independent woman in a new era, and I have an independent sense of gender equality since I was a child. But when I really began to reflect on this issue, I found that I showed "disgust with my female identity" on many issues.
For example, when I was young, I felt that girls must get good grades, otherwise it would be a very shameful thing; For example, I used to think that boys must take the initiative when getting along with the opposite sex. Although this idea has long been abandoned by me, when I really get along with the opposite sex, I still hope that they will move forward positively. Emotionally, I still hope that they are enthusiastic and active, and I hope that he likes me first and then likes him. It's still hard for me to admit that I like boys on my own initiative.
But at the same time, I thought it was not good, but I couldn't do it at the same time, so I fell into a very distorted mode. I never explored the real reason behind this idea.
When did my dislike of my female identity begin? Is it true that in family relationships, mothers always rely on their fathers to start? Or did it start with the inability to accept the strength of your father? Or from a TV series? Or did the news say that women were treated unfairly?
I don't know. I never doubted it. I just feel very entangled and have been in this embarrassing situation.
So when I meet the opposite sex, get along with the opposite sex and want to enter a relationship, I will also start to struggle. I hope the other person is enthusiastic but can't express my true thoughts. I dare not like the other person, and I can't even believe that I have been liked.
Such an idea may be more in line with the inferiority of gender identity. Now that we have found this, it is easier to know how to face the original entanglement and later troubles with a better attitude, regain confidence in gender and ourselves, and solve similar situations in a better way. Good, one to explore his own direction.
Inferiority and beyond the feeling of reading 800 words 4 well, I have already felt inferior, and I will always feel inferior, as if it were a habit. I don't know where to go without him.
I knew that I felt inferior for a long time, but I really began to understand my situation by reading Alfred's Inferiority and Transcendence. How can I put it? Many psychology students don't want to find out what the whole human psychological state is, and they don't want to get entangled in the experimental contents of sensory perception and memory, but want to solve their own problems.
According to this book, one factor of people's inferiority is their physical defects. I think I know. When I was a child, I was competitive and thought I should have what others had, but everyone else was tall and I didn't. The problem of height has bothered me for a long time, so that I think it is particularly funny in college that the whole simulation team is 1.92 meters tall and shares a dormitory with me. You don't understand this psychological process. I run just to run as fast as they do in class. The reason is that inferiority comes from comparison. There is no harm without comparison, and the standard of comparison comes from the consensus of society. Therefore, there is inferiority in society. Although the article is about individual psychology, how can we escape social pollution?
Society, the evil demon king, produces too much bad water. For example, in poverty, one year during the Spring Festival, the family could not afford to buy coal for heating. At that time, I was helpless to the extreme, and I felt inferior to my bones. I worked hard just to change. Therefore, inferiority is also the source of motivation for people to surpass. Some people will say that your efforts because of inferiority are to catch up, not to surpass. What I want to say is that what we want to surpass is our once unbearable self. Everyone's development needs primitive accumulation. Some people have money, some people have knowledge, and some people have some unexpected resources. For children without umbrellas, they can only run like hell.
Yes, if you don't run forward, there is no retreat. Sometimes, the easiest way not to feel inferior is not to compare. Some people choose to avoid everyone, turn a deaf ear to study, close their social circle and seek temporary peace. But it's like a drug addiction, eating you up again and again. Some people solve it from the fundamental psychology of people, and they are beyond nature. What others call birth! I sometimes choose Ah Q's spiritual victory method to coax my heart and calm him down, and sometimes I will face the reality-I am short and have a heavy burden. What is honed is a state of mind. The most terrible thing at this time is not how deep it is, but whether it has bottomed out. Everyone knows if it's great. Fortunately, in this state of mind, I saw the root of my inner inferiority, and I began to learn to solve it.
There are thousands of things in the world, and we will experience many things, and these things are more important to us. So what significance do they bring to our lives?
I have just finished reading the related contents in Inferiority and Transcendence: the meaning given to us by life. The author of this book is alfred adler. In his article, he pointed out that if a person wants to live in a simple environment without meaning, then he must be very unfortunate: he will lose the basis of communication with people around him, and his behavior will have no influence on himself or others, so there will be no meaning. We always feel the reality with the meaning we give it. What we feel is not the reality itself, but the meaning it gives us, or our feelings are our own interpretation of reality.
It is also pointed out that generally speaking, human beings interpret the meaning of life through their own behaviors, and almost everyone only shows this question and its answer through their own behaviors. If we observe a person's behavior, regardless of his words, we will find that his posture, attitude, movements, expressions, manners, aspirations, habits, characteristics and so on all reflect his personal understanding of the "meaning of life". The meaning of life varies from person to person, which is why life has countless meanings. All the meanings of life change between these two extremes. Different people give different meanings to life, but to different degrees: some are wonderful, some are terrible, some are more wrong, and some are less wrong. A better meaning of life has some common characteristics of life. The poor meaning of life lacks these characteristics.
We must bear in mind that "truth" refers to the truth of people, the truth of people's goals and plans. In addition, there is no other so-called "truth". If there are other "truths", it has nothing to do with us. We can't know this "truth", so this "truth" is meaningless.
The life of each of us, from birth, is meaningless in itself. And if we want to make our life meaningful, then this kind of "meaning" needs each of us to give it to ourselves the day after tomorrow. Some people like ordinary life, but live a contented life. This kind of stability is what they give themselves. Some people like colorful life and adventure. This expectation and uncertainty about life is the meaning they give to life. In the journey of life, everyone's choice of life path is different, but as long as you think clearly about what kind of life you want to live and what kind of lifestyle you like, then life is complete.
Inferiority and Transcendence: A Yu; Adler, the founder of individual psychology school, I heard his name from his population more than once, so I read this work on the recommendation of my friend. I can't read this book. I always feel illogical, as if the author speaks wherever he thinks.
Most importantly, the article is irrelevant. I did see Adler's various interpretations of the reasons for inferiority in the book, but I didn't go beyond it. Perhaps my understanding is not strong, I can only say that this book is far from my expectation.
Throughout the book, Adler has been emphasizing the importance of cooperation and dedication to others. It seems that only by doing these two things can we solve the problems caused by inferiority complex. But I don't think he knows much about inferiority.
Because of his poor health, he felt inferior in childhood. Later, through my own efforts, I succeeded in overcoming it and made many achievements in my own field. Of course, people who satirize him are his motivation.
In this regard, I can only say that he has never experienced inferiority. People who really feel inferior will not work hard because of other people's excessive words and deeds. On the contrary, they will agree with this view. Even if these views are not in line with the actual situation, people with inferiority will accept them completely and take them seriously without a bottom line.
Can't people with inferiority cooperate with others? Are you unwilling to give it to others? That's not true. The more people feel inferior, the more they try to integrate into society and their own groups. They are eager to be one of them, but the results are often unsatisfactory.
Why? Because people around you don't have so much patience and tolerance. Many times, people who feel inferior are not lacking in ability. For example, if an inferior person's ability in a certain aspect is 10, because he often only shows 2 in inferiority, this is the embodiment of incompetence in the eyes of others and can not be recognized and trusted. In addition, he will not hesitate to believe the objective evaluation of others, and this cycle will eventually become an infinite cycle.
It is undeniable that anyone related to neurosis is related to unpleasant childhood experiences. Since the development of psychology, most of them still stay in the analysis of the causes of the results, and few people will do preventive work. For those who are eager to get rid of the pain of the past, what they are eager for is not why I am sick, but how I should treat myself. After all, neurosis is very different from physical diseases, and various medical means can only be used as an aid. The real joint lies in the patient's own awakening.
If you want to solve the problem of inferiority complex, I suggest not reading this book for the time being. You can read seligman's book on positive psychology, at least you can see hope.
After reading 800 words, I feel inferior and surpass 7. I have read many people's comments on the Internet and found that the evaluation is not high, which is seriously inconsistent with my own evaluation of this book. I thought about the reason. Life is at different stages, and the knowledge you can learn from reading this book may be completely different.
The present society is too impetuous. Adler mentioned at the beginning that the goal of life is to make the world a better place through his own efforts. Dedication and cooperation are the true meaning of life, which may be one of the reasons why many people find it disgusting. I personally like the book Inferiority and Transcendence. First of all, from the beginning, he made clear the correct goal and the true meaning of life, which some people may think is a cliche.
But in my opinion, Adler is different from others in two aspects: first, the goal is clear from the beginning, don't forget your initiative, so as to achieve your ultimate goal; Next, Adler used many psychoanalytic cases to demonstrate this topic: the correct goal in life is to make the world better through his own efforts; Cooperation and dedication are the basic elements to achieve this goal.
Next, Adler began to tell us how important family and school play in a person's development. What cooperation opportunities should parents give their children? What impresses me is that Adler's idea of the role of mother in the book does not quite conform to the concept of women's liberation in modern society, but I think there is nothing wrong with it. Family is the basic unit of society, and a mother's housework does not mean that she is humble and should be treated with the same respect. Many housewives are not good at managing their families because they have not received proper training. They don't know what they will face when they become full-time mothers. No one provides knowledge popularization, let alone scientific training.
For the school, Adler started with the purpose of running a school and quickly unveiled all kinds of chaos in running a school. Then Adler described his ideal goal of running a school: to make everyone a partner in the common interests of human development. Under the guidance of this goal, Adler began to sort out the role of teachers, the handling of teacher-student relationship, and how to cultivate children's spirit of cooperation and dedication. Every child has unlimited potential. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and tapping their potential will make teachers gain great pleasure from teaching.
Improper evaluation and negative labels may limit children's development. Then Adler analyzed that adolescence, an important period in life, should not be a period when parents gradually quit. Personality defects left by improper early upbringing need to be gradually discovered and repaired in adolescence.
Adler also gave advice on choosing a job, socializing and starting a family. Adler's understanding of religion is also very enlightening. So I think Inferiority and Transcendence is a must-read book for parents.
Adler, the author of eight books with 800 words, explores the meaning of life and inspires us to understand the true meaning of life. Everyone has inferiority complex to some extent, and inferiority complex is the driving force of human progress.
Three restrictive factors of life:
1, we live on the earth with limited resources, and we have to work in order to survive.
2, we are a member of human society, we must cooperate with others, everyone is just a part of the whole. We can't live alone without others.
There are men and women in the society, and it is necessary to establish close relationship to reproduce.
Three major problems arising from three major constraints: work, society and marriage.
The best way to know a person is to look at his cooperation ability. Whether it is work, social interaction or marriage, it is essentially a cooperative relationship with people. Inferiority and transcendence point out an important direction for our life. No matter what we do, we must feel our connection with society. By solving problems for the society, cooperating with others and caring for others, I have realized the growth of my own value, and I can feel my connection with society in my heart, linking my self-value with social value, thus increasing my sense of happiness and value.
Exploring the meaning of life, the meaning and value of our life lies in whether we can make our own contribution to human society. Whether you can serve others, whether you are needed by others. What I gained the most from this book is what the author put forward: marriage is a job that requires two people to work together, and marriage is a cooperative relationship. Therefore, the quality of marriage management lies in whether two people cooperate closely.
This theory is more thorough than the discussion of marriage in Intimacy. Putting yourself in a macro world is easier to liberate people than putting yourself in a micro world. In the macro world, marriage is a cooperation between husband and wife in order to raise the common offspring of mankind. In the book Selfish Genes, we learned that both human reproduction and animal or plant reproduction are actually the function of genes, and we are all machines for gene survival.
But on the bright side, in the evolution of mankind, we have gone from barbarism to civilization. It is the spirit of cooperation between people that urges us to enter the era of civilization. Without cooperation, we are still just animals.
We are more likely to cooperate with others in our work and interpersonal relationships, because we have the same purpose in our work and interpersonal relationships. However, in marriage, we often forget what we are getting married for.
It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. The problem in marriage relationship is the most difficult problem to deal with, because two people have different understanding of marriage.
If we can manage the true meaning of life, then we can easily handle the relationship between work, social life and marriage.
Self-abasement and Transcendence after reading 800 words. The first time I saw the title, it was the motivation and reason that attracted me to open this book. On the contrary, the title of progress makes me very interested in reading and learning how to overcome inferiority, so as to achieve self-transcendence and self-growth.
There is no doubt that this book mainly expounds two parts through chapters: understanding inferiority and transcending inferiority to find the true meaning of life. The pursuit of superiority is the commonality of all people. The author of this book combines theory with examples and uses two core phrases throughout the book: inferiority and transcendence. The first and second chapters lead readers to know and think about the meaning of life, and make a simple discussion on body, mind and spirit. The third chapter makes a detailed analysis of the core phrases of this book, inferiority and transcendence. The fourth to twelfth chapters integrate the relevant theoretical knowledge and academic discourse of individual psychology into actual cases and objects, and explore and deepen the discussion in stages.
Although there are psychological theories in this book, which may be a little difficult for me as a layman, I can basically understand the author's thoughts because I have a strong interest in psychology and usually dabble in books related to psychology. After reading this book, I have to be deeply impressed by the author's vivid and interesting writing skills and forms. Every chapter you read will inspire you. It is a good book that can really explore, revise and grow.
In fact, inferiority complex exists in everyone and cannot be eliminated, because everyone has their own weaknesses and shortcomings. When facing the shortcomings of self and comparing with the advantages of others, it is inevitable to have a sense of gap, thus forming an inferiority complex. Inferiority itself is not good or bad, and the influence of inferiority lies in individuals, but also in the environment, especially individuals. For optimistic and positive people, inferiority makes them know that they are not enough to stimulate their potential and tap their limited potential, so as to improve themselves, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and better show their strengths; For people who are passive and hesitant, inferiority will naturally deepen their understanding of self-deficiency, and ideology is not conducive to the development of individuals and family society.
Another revelation of this book is the importance of contact and cooperation between individuals and society. Individuals pursue development, horizontal connection is the development of the social circle, and vertical connection is the self-correction and self-development of the individual's body and mind. No matter which of these two aspects develops, after all, it can't be separated from society, because people are social people and have sociality. Connecting people, resources and nature through society is also a part of the social environment, so people's development can't be separated from society, and the relationship between them can be refined into cooperation, me and the world.
Generally speaking, this book has become a beacon for me to understand my lack of self and seek the meaning of life. It is a kind of happiness to learn to exert one's potential, surpass oneself and change one's consciousness and attitude. It is a great luck to read the author's works, but it is an inspiration, a resonance, a study and a reflection on oneself. A flower and a world, a leaf and a bodhi, find happiness, understand happiness and learn happiness. Thanks to the author's work Inferiority and Transcendence.
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