Love left me a message on Weibo, saying that when she was twelve, she saw the stewardess audition on TV and dreamed of becoming a stewardess in the future. Helpless, my family is poor, and I have suffered a lot to be a flight attendant. Love once saved money to go to a flight attendant training class, but it ended because the training class was closed. I have been tossing for more than ten years, and now I am 25 years old, and my dream has not come true. Love feels that with the growth of age, dreams are getting farther and farther away. Along the way, I left nothing but a sigh.
It's like being dragged by something. You are like a helpless child. It took you a long time to walk with it before you realized that it didn't belong to you. Or it's like you fell in love with someone and finally missed it. You live another life, and you don't know if the love you have been persistent is important.
Finally, she always stressed that she was thinking about one thing, that is, what's the point of having such a dream? What's the point of her persistence over the years? Her thinking is actually my confusion.
I once watched a street interview on a program and asked passers-by in a hurry, do you have a dream? What's your dream? Another host especially likes to ask the contestants. Please tell everyone your dream boldly, ok?
Really, the dream seems to have lost its mystery, or a word that has been rotten by people. Until people distort it, some people forget it, some people think it no longer exists, some people are ashamed to say it, and some people think that everything is an inviolable providence. In short, tell your dreams in front of others, unless you force yourself, do you really dare to make this heart public?
Once, my friend took me skating, and I saw an old man with gray hair groping for knowledge. I watched him struggle to stand up, trying to find balance, falling to the ground from time to time and getting up again. I thought he would give up because of a fall, and he would be distressed because he could not find a balance point. It never occurred to me that he had been standing hard, fell down and slipped again. ...
Later I learned that his grandson likes skating very much and once dreamed of becoming a figure skater. He thinks the sport is too dangerous and has been blocking it, so his grandson has to sneak around. Until the day of the accident, he lost his grandson forever, and every time sadness came, he couldn't help himself.
One day, he suddenly thought of his grandson's dream. He went to the skating rink alone and slid around. If he can't compensate his grandson, he stays in the regret of falling down again and again. Maybe the way he misses someone is to continue his dream and find a voice that resonates with him in his dream. I believe that he will find a balance in the skating rink. At that moment, he will feel relieved and finally understand his grandson's insistence. This is actually the meaning of the existence of dreams. It can make people remember you, miss you, follow your steps and gain understanding beyond time and space.
I also watched a program in which four 58-year-old women danced ballet together. Judging from their backs, they are still tall and young, like four elegant professional dancers, stretching freely on the stage, completely unaware of their actual age.
They said that everyone broke more than twenty pairs of dancing shoes for this performance and a dream. Before, relatives or friends didn't understand or even laugh at them, thinking their dreams were ridiculous, but they persisted: "We just want to challenge the most difficult dance and let everyone know that ballet is not only a professional dancer, but also exclusive to young people. As long as we are willing to jump, no matter how long it takes, no matter how late. " Because of the dream of ballet, they no longer have the loss after retirement, no longer worry about trivial matters, and they are naturally young and powerful.
When you really walk on the road to realize your dreams, you will find that your heart is as calm as a lake. You swim freely in it, and you won't fantasize any more. You just have to wave your arms hard and enjoy swimming in the lake every second. Thanks to the traction of dreams, you can get out of your old self little by little. Everyone needs a transformation. It is those changes that make your life interesting and directional, which is the luck that others dream of but can't get, right?
Just like Espe Lanza, the heroine in The House on Mango Street, she had a dream since she was a child. She wants to walk out of mean streets, which only takes a few minutes, but no one will care about her dream and understand herself. Therefore, she can only go alone, with a child's little dream. It was not until one day that she realized her dream that she realized that it was not important. What's important is that her life is rich and interesting because of this dream. In her view, all sufferings are steps.
Espeland said, I ran away just to come back, look at the street in those days, look at myself in those days, and also for those who can't run away. That's what dreams are all about, right?
You are anywhere in the world, you cry or lose at night, and you work hard during the day. I hope all your roads, even if it is stormy, are good enough.