1, get down.
In fact, it is not terrible for couples to quarrel. The important thing is that you always quarrel, not the object of quarrel. It is inevitable that couples will be a little excited when they quarrel about something. But if you always want to solve it by force, then this battle will only become more and more difficult. So, you should know how to put down your posture. If you encounter unhappy things in your life, you might as well talk to each other or solve the problem yourself. Don't concentrate on quarrelling. Because the more you argue with them, the more excited they are, and the more noisy they may be. Therefore, husband and wife should learn to put down their posture, understand each other's difficulties more, communicate more in life and understand what his difficulties mean. If you really want to solve this problem, understand each other's difficulties.
2. Don't bring emotions home.
When some couples quarrel, two people will blame each other for their mistakes. At this time, if you bring the other person's emotions home, it will directly affect your relationship with him. However, if some couples vent all their anger on each other after quarreling, it is easy for them to have nothing to say. So don't bring any emotions home after a quarrel between husband and wife. In this case, it is easy to cause family relations to become more and more tense. Only when two people stop quarreling completely can the relationship between husband and wife return to its original state.
3, rational processing
Quarrel is a very bad thing. When a husband and wife quarrel, don't get angry, let alone get angry with your partner. If you think your partner is angry with you for your own reasons, you'd better calm down first. Calm down and try to solve it. For example, if the other party is really angry with you on purpose, then you can apologize to the other party first, put in a good word for the other party, and then solve the problem. If the other person is already angry with you, then it's best not to do anything that hurts the other person. You should calm down with him as soon as possible. After all, what feelings need most is time to operate.
4. Appropriate communication
After a quarrel, both husband and wife must learn to communicate, and don't hold back their incomprehension or continue to talk. This will only lead to deeper and deeper contradictions. Therefore, when there is a contradiction between husband and wife, we should learn to communicate properly. It is best to ease the contradiction through communication, instead of holding back as usual, which leads to further deepening of the contradiction.