You have to believe that there is someone in the world who lives the life you want.
The friendship between China and Wei and Lan Zhan is enviable, and the tacit understanding of mutual trust goes without saying that everyone who is lonely yearns for it.
Emotion is the most unreasonable thing, whether it is love or friendship, there is joy of love at first sight and boredom for a long time; Some are as fragrant as old age; Some are like mountain torrents, rushing in and falling in love at first sight.
I always thought that Jiang Cheng would be with Wei Wuxian. After all, we grew up together and knew each other best. Like a relative, it should be a broken bone with tendons attached.
But in the end, because of the decline of the Jiang family and the death of the teacher and sister, Wei Wuxian and Jiang Cheng's lives went in completely different directions. It seems like a trick of fate, but in fact, there are already differences between the two people's personalities.
02
Friends are their own shadows, and people who can become friends are all because they have their own appreciation, like another self and live the life they want.
Wei Wuxian and Lan Zhan have different personalities, one is uninhibited and free and easy; A clever, calm, silent; But we appreciated each other the first time we met.
At that time, Yunmengjiang's family went to Gusulan's home to attend classes, but they were blocked out because of dereliction of duty. Lan Zhan did things by the book, but Wei argued unreasonably. Lan Zhan is unreasonable, Wei Wuxian is unreasonable; Finally, Lan Zhan chartered them into the house.
It can be seen that Lan Zhan is a well-behaved person on the surface, but in fact he is a heavy person at heart; Wei Wuxian brought wine into the palace, and the two men fought under the moon; Not only did Lan Zhan fail to meet his opponent, but Wei Wuxian saw the free and easy life he longed for and showed his true feelings.
03
There is another self in everyone's heart, which is repressed in essence and only open to those who know.
Lan Zhan's indifference is not innate, but he lost his parents' love from an early age and saw that their love was bound by rules. Finally, his mother died with a grudge, which gave him too many blows and thoughts.
He grew up under the guidance of LAN's strict family rules and assumed heavy family responsibilities at a young age. No matter from the growing environment or the needs of his family, he must be an adult who strictly abides by the rules.
In fact, he is just a teenager who deserves the love of his father and brother and the care of his uncles. Like every child who listens to learning, he should have his own partners and hobbies, talking and laughing, playing and making fun.
However, due to his seemingly cold personality and the shackles of Lan's example, he was isolated from these.
And all this is only understood by Wei Wuxian. Only Wei Wuxian treats him like a dude like them. Drink with him at night, giggle with him when punished, and never know what it's like to be sad.
In fact, Lan Zhanduo envies his freedom, freedom, saying what he wants to say and doing what he wants, free from any position and responsibility.
04
In Lan Zhan's view, Wei Wuxian is the self who got rid of all the shackles, so later Lan Zhan's behavior became more and more like Wei Wuxian, not simply because he trusted him, but because he was also a person like him in his heart.
Only when you agree with it in your heart can you support it unreservedly in your actions.
On a rainy night, Wei Wuxian took away the warm people. Lan Zhan didn't stop him, not because he was Wei Wuxian, but because Lan Zhan didn't convince himself to stop him. Right and wrong, he also has a steelyard in his heart.
Until later, Wei Wuxian gave up everything he insisted on, despaired of the so-called right path, fell off a high cliff and his whereabouts were unknown.
Lan Zhan did not "repent in time" as everyone expected, but went further and further on the road of finding himself and becoming himself.
He secretly saved Si Zhui when everyone cleaned up the mass grave, and silently begged Ling for thirteen years to find his whereabouts when everyone called Wei Wuxian the magic way.
Seeing each other again after 16 years, Lan Zhan stood beside Wei Wuxian without hesitation and for no reason, not only because he believed him, but also because he chose to be himself and no longer suppressed himself.
So when Wei Wuxian was besieged on the Jinling stage, Wei Wuxian wanted to cover for him, pretending to be intimidated by himself, but he did not hesitate to confess his position and had a rare fight together.
Since then, I have been out of control, so I won't talk about any rules or the right path; But to be myself wholeheartedly and protect the people I want to protect.
Wei didn't envy his leg injury, so he took the initiative to recite it, regardless of the image. Wei Wuxian lived in a hotel, and he took the initiative to buy wine to drink together; Get drunk and give him a chicken.
Lan Zhan's behavior is getting out of line, but he smiles more and more, and his mood is becoming more and more open, because his heart is no longer bound; He slowly lived the life he wanted.
Therefore, the two met halfway and became bosom friends, not only because of the intertwined fate, but also because they were originally fellow travelers. Wei Wuxian let Lan Zhan find his true self.
05
On the other hand, although Jiang Cheng grew up together, Jiang Cheng always disagreed with Wei Wuxian's unruly behavior and thought that he would only get into trouble. After several hardships, he decided that Wei Wuxian always wanted nothing, which brought disaster to people around him. Disagree with his view of justice.
In fact, everything has a cause and effect. The collapse of Lianhuawu did not have the excuse of Wei Wuxian in time, and there has already been World War I, and all unsatisfied desires will find an excuse to release. Therefore, I didn't envy Wei, and I didn't escape the established ending.
But from beginning to end, Jiang Cheng hated Wei Wuxian's self-righteousness and thought that he only liked himself and lacked a sense of responsibility. I don't want to be like him from beginning to end, so even if I don't have any follow-up experience, I will drift away and become a bosom friend.