Duke Zhou, what does it mean to dream of meeting two people at the bridge and then dreaming of dead relatives?

I dreamed that I met two men at the bridge: although I was invited by a friend of the opposite sex, these two days did not seem to be the days of readily agreeing. If you don't hate each other these two days, it's mostly a temporary feeling of playing. Afterwards, I feel that there is a great possibility of wasting time and spirit. In particular, although older men are attractive, they may feel the sweetness of love in a short time if they don't seek rewards, but they may have to pay a painful price in the long run.