For people who don't know Taurus, people who are biased against Taurus often think that Taurus has many shortcomings:
Greed, stubbornness, money worship, silence, introversion and conservatism, extremely slow response, and so on.
In fact, these are all misunderstandings about Taurus, and Taurus people are much more complicated than these.
Taurus people are really quiet, but that doesn't mean they don't have ideas and opinions.
On the contrary, most people in Taurus are thoughtful and meaningful.
It's just that sometimes they are too lazy to argue needlessly or argue with boring people.
They all despise those who talk endlessly and have no standards.
They also don't like very noisy occasions (although they are not crazy
Usually choose to entertain yourself; Low-key and insecure,
In fact, they have a blockbuster desire in their hearts, and usually they do have this ability.
The twin sisters of pride and inferiority are particularly obvious in Taurus.
Taurus people are usually very demanding about food, but that doesn't mean they are greedy.
They like delicious food, not just filling their stomachs.
They usually despise junk food.
Because they are more sensitive to taste than ordinary people, they regard eating as a process of appreciating taste.
Taurus is also famous for its appreciation of things.
In addition, food can also reduce the anxiety that Taurus often produces.
And inexplicably depressed.
And this kind of emotion often appears in Taurus, which is the so-called low tide period.
Taurus people have heavy romantic feelings, delicate and strong feelings.
But because they are not good at expressing, they always give people the illusion of indifference.
In fact, Taurus people are very serious about their feelings and are willing to go through fire and water for their lovers.
But once he is hurt, he will face his feelings with an attitude of shielding everything.
On the surface, he may pretend not to care (as cows usually do)
Actually, I care.
They believe in love, but they are usually pessimistic about the result of love.
After all, Taurus is an out-and-out pessimist.
But their behavior is not completely negative, but gives people a positive feeling.
Although they have a thorough understanding of fame and fortune, their desires are still strong or weak.
This is why Taurus people like to work hard to make money but never worship gold.
They disdain to be slaves of money.
They are indifferent to fame and fortune, but they are not born. If necessary, they will go up regardless.
But this kind of motivation and purpose is completely different from other people who are purely out of desire.
There's definitely a reason why they did this.
They are not limited to the pursuit of material things, in fact, they pay more attention to spiritual things.
Therefore, Taurus people are usually both material and spiritual.
Most Taurus people are very independent, of course, sometimes this goes too far and becomes stubborn.
They have original ideas and the ability to inspire others.
Whether this talent will be displayed depends on whether they like it or not.
They are also rebellious, but usually they don't do anything too deviant.
Because they are still lazy in this respect, but once stimulated,
They're bound to do something amazing,
Beware of those who are desperate. They are the most dangerous.
Taurus has amazing understanding in some aspects, whether it is mathematics or philosophy.
More in music and art. They are geniuses in these fields.
Although they seem to be gentle, they are no less perverse than Gemini.
And ordinary people can't guess what's going on under their expressionless appearance.
They don't like being with people,
Keeping their distance is their philosophy, although this does not mean indifference.
So falling in love with Taurus is a very tormenting thing.
Taurus people are straightforward but not too hot, sincere but don't tell everyone everything.
They are considerate of others, and they can understand human sufferings.
Even the cows growing up in the greenhouse are sympathetic.
But when Taurus people are hit hard,
They will be more ruthless and unscrupulous than anyone else.
They know how to be good and evil.
In short, Taurus people are very attractive.
Especially after in-depth contact with him,
Their extensive knowledge, humorous talk and individual style make people appreciate.
Of course, their appearance also exudes a unique temperament.
Usually, people are either extremely disgusted or deeply attracted.
Taurus: The most difficult sign for emotional injury to heal! I hate being a Taurus!
Feelings belong to Taurus, which heats up slowly, so it is relatively difficult to get out easily. Once Taurus is hurt in a relationship, it must take a long time to heal, which can be divided into two stages. First, everyone can see the sad period, but in the second stage, Taurus seems to cycle in endless hell without knowing it.
But the second stage always happens in the unknown; You may see a Taurus who loves to drink coffee after being injured, but never touches it again, or you will cry in a daze when you look at coffee, not because of the old love, but because you will think of the past when you see coffee. The stubborn Taurus has never forgotten the past injury, but only suppressed it, so as long as there are people and things that have appeared, it will tear the wounds of Taurus and fall back into the memories of the past; Even a mature Taurus can't forget it. At best, it can only dilute the wound.
When Taurus is lovelorn, they will try their best to win back what they like. However, if Lv Ji fails, Niu Niu will fall into extreme sadness ... every day, he is silent, often in a daze, his eyes are dim, and he has no mind to do other things.
In the evening, he will recall the happiness with her and think of the best days, so there will be a smile on his mouth, but when he thinks of happy things, he will definitely think of the saddest things, so the smile on his mouth will gradually turn into an unspeakable sadness, and maybe two lines of tears will flow out at this time. During the day, he felt even worse. Every day when he sleeps, it seems that nothing is necessary for him. When watching TV, ...
In this way, the poor Niu Niu may have lost dozens of pounds at once, and the circles and wrinkles under her eyes have grown a lot, and her health is getting worse and worse. ...
He looks peaceful, but possessive. He is a man full of jealousy. After getting you, you become a part of his property, and he needs every part of you to belong to him (your body, property, soul, talent and so on). ) He doesn't have Scorpio's abstinence and reserve to cover up his jealousy. He can't tolerate your intimacy and flirting with others, nor can he tolerate any improper behavior other than your relationship with him. When you arouse his jealousy, you also put yourself in danger. A stable Taurus loses its mind, which will only be more terrible than a mad cow in Spain. Sometimes violence will be the only way for him to vent his anger. You have only one choice-loyalty. Being a reliable, stable, safe and secure woman is one of the conditions for getting along with him for a long time.
If you are still in the passionate stage of seeking romance and excitement, his sureness, steadiness and reliability will be dull, boring and boring.
He makes you love. This is a loyal, reliable (very reliable), slow and solid animal, which gives you a sense of security and won't surprise you. He is peaceful, steady, romantic and realistic. What you get is the most practical man among the twelve seats who knows the value of material life best.
He is as strong as a Millennium mountain peak, and your life is safe. You don't even dream at night. He allows you to enjoy everything in real life: three delicious meals a day, sex several times a week is essential, bank deposits increase month by month, and with the improvement of life taste, you begin to appreciate oil paintings, music and flowers ... You think that tomorrow's life can only be better than today, and they are all so solid, reliable and tangible together, you don't need any illusions.
He kept his word and kept his word. He gives you the most basic support and help. He not only leads you to enjoy the sensual pleasure, but also keeps you from worrying about money. He makes you feel that life is very secure, and you are no longer willing to wander.
He makes you hate it. It's a stubborn cow that hits the south wall and never returns. He is the most stubborn, stubborn, rigid and uncompromising of the twelve constellations. He is too stubborn, no matter how much you say and teach him, it will have no effect on him unless you can unscrew his head and install a flexible thinking program for him.
He is too realistic to fantasize. His life is too rigid, and you are tied to a fixed routine. He can't understand your fantasy, your spiritual pursuit. He has no higher requirements, and you can't go beyond reality. Life is so regular that you are bored because of lack of energy. Life has no fantasy, no adventure. It's like living in a beautiful prison.
He knows the value of money too well, just like a miser holding a golden jar and not letting go. From eating and drinking to indulging, he never mistreats himself. He is generous to himself, but he has his own small plan when spending money for others, which makes you feel that sometimes money seems to be more important than you. His laziness is unbearable to you. This is the laziest "lazy cow" among the twelve seats. Everything in life needs you to spank him.
He is the most realistic person, and the sense of security in the material society is the first element he needs, and then the pleasant enjoyment. No matter in his career, love and sexual life, he needs a stable, solid and reliable guarantee. Any uncertain, unreliable and unstable people and relationships make this down-to-earth "native cow" feel anxious.
His calm nervous system can't bear too many changes, and his wandering and adventurous life is completely different from that of the conquering Aries man. If this real Taurus is not sure about his relationship with you and can't guarantee that you belong to him, he doesn't know how this unsafe relationship will develop. He feels nervous, anxious and afraid, and can't sleep at night. Therefore, knowing that safety is a necessary condition for his survival, you will know how to appease this "stubborn cow".
His basic needs: he is the most realistic person, and the sense of security in the material society is the first element he needs. Then, he needs good and pleasant enjoyment. No matter in his career, love and sexual life, he needs a stable, solid and reliable guarantee. Any uncertain, unreliable and unstable people and relationships make this down-to-earth "native cow" feel anxious.
The lovelorn Niu Niu seems to have encountered a storm on a sunny day, as if the day suddenly turned into night, as if the world suddenly turned upside down.
Niu Niu is the most pitiful when she is lovelorn. Either he doesn't fall in love, or he will be stuck. Poor; poor ......
For Taurus, love is both giving and patience. After all, Taurus is a slow-heating type, and even if you have a favorite goal, that love is slowly accumulated. Because it is hard-won, Taurus cherishes love and takes it seriously. Since you love, you will definitely love to the end. As for breaking up, for Taurus, it can be compared with the horror and pain of where you will go, and you will never take the initiative unless you have to.
When you fall in love, you throw yourself into it. No matter what the mountain is in front of you, you can chop yourself alive, or you can burn violently, or bottomless Wang Yang is willing to rot. Niu Niu's heart seems indifferent, but in fact it is the most reckless courage. It's just that there are always endings. Niu Niu left her love in the distance, but forgot to wash her heart. The residue in her heart slowly deteriorated and finally stinked. Niu Niu found that loving someone is destroying her original self.
If a Taurus boy finds someone he loves deeply, it is a great blessing for Taurus, because many Taurus people often don't know whether they love each other or not all their lives, and then they are not sure whether they can give their hearts to each other, so once he finds true love, he will cherish it very much. Taurus men think that doing is more important than saying. Although he can't express it in words, his sincerity is beyond doubt.
Taurus people are stubborn. Just like their stubbornness, once they fall in love with you, they will not hesitate to love you so deeply. It is said that Taurus people are selfish, but Taurus men in love are still very brave in dedication. Moreover, men in Taurus will put away their male chauvinism when facing the lover they really like. As long as they are alone together, they will hold their beloved woman in their hands and send her to heaven. Taurus men love money, but when true love comes, they would rather have nothing and buy the best for their partners. Money is their way of expressing love, and they will never be stingy with their lover. Cows are very cute in my eyes. They are not the kind of people who are easily tempted, and it is even more difficult to take the initiative to chase a girl. Generally speaking, men and cows are looking for people who can get married. They have only been looking for girlfriends and falling in love for marriage all their lives. If you need a steady girl, if you are liked by Niu Niu and you like Niu Niu, congratulations, you have found a long-term meal ticket and a husband who will always be loyal to you.
Cattle chasing a person will have a test period. Of course, physical attractiveness is crucial. Cows generally like girls with good figure, and they feel a little fleshy. Their faces don't need to be too beautiful, but they should be pleasing to the eye and not too weird and fashionable to wear. They are conservative and can't accept strange clothes, but they should be decent, clean and tidy. What Niu cares most about is whether girls are filial and kind. Because the male ox loves his family very much, he may be indifferent to people other than his family and friends, but he is responsive to the requirements of his family and friends, especially his family, so he asks his other half to be as filial as himself. Kindness is the basic criterion for boys to choose girls. My cow made up her mind to chase me because I gave the money to the old busker on the street. It was a simple thing, but Niu Niu decided that I was a kind child. So, hehe ... once you have sex with a male cow, the cow will be kind to you, will want to bring you into his life circle, and will tell people all over the world that you are his girlfriend and his woman. He is so careful with you that you are ashamed of yourself. Cows like physical contact, so if he asks to hug you, don't refuse, just take it back, or the cow will be very sad. Basically, both men and cows have strong sexual desire. Once the relationship is established, they may want to have sex with you. It's up to the girls themselves at this time. If you think you need more tests, tell Niu Niu clearly how you feel. Niu Niu won't push you, because he loves you and respects you. Being loved by a bull is a great happiness. He takes you as the center and cares about your feelings. He listens to you as long as it doesn't conflict with his principles. He is definitely a good baby. However, don't think that you can command Niu Nan at will. They are actually very proud. My Niu Niu said that you must give me face in front of outsiders and hit me as much as you want when you go home. Some girls are very competitive. It is actually very wrong to argue with Niu Niu in front of outsiders. Give him face and he will give you lining. Although not beautiful, it is the most real thing. Why not? Any kind of love is from passion to dullness. Therefore, many JMs will feel that Niu Niu has become indifferent and indifferent behind his back, and even wonder if he doesn't love himself. Actually, there is no need to worry so much. My first boyfriend didn't call me or send me a message for a month because he was busy with work. I was careless and thought he didn't love my music, so I ignored him for a whole month. Later, he called me to explain why, saying that he was really busy recently. When he was busy, he just wanted to see a comforting message from me, but there was nothing. He was particularly disappointed. In fact, if you are cold in Niuniu, don't worry about it, you will be ignored because of your work. Because cows want to be with you, they will want to give you a warm home and a stable environment, so that you can dress without worry. Their wish is simple, that is, they want their families to be happy. As long as they can achieve this goal, they are not afraid of hardship and fatigue. The love of cattle is really simple, without flowers and romance, but it can give you the most stable and warm haven. Although I am also a cow, I like freedom and I like to walk around. I told my Niu Niu that I like wandering, so don't stop me. Niu Niu was silent for a long time and said, I will try my best to make money and give you the most solid material foundation, but you must promise me that you will come back to me after wandering. At that time, I didn't say anything, just holding my Niu Niu and not talking for a long time. This is Taurus. As long as you are happy, maybe he will give you more romantic feelings. What he can do is to let you have no material troubles and give you a shelter from the wind and a place to rest. As a man, it is natural to like beautiful women. In particular, the ruler of Taurus is Venus, which is a constellation that pays attention to love and balance. Taurus likes all beautiful things, including beautiful women. Taurus itself is a bit colorful, it will be a bit dreamy for beautiful women and good for friends of the opposite sex. But it doesn't matter. Taurus knows who is the most important person in his heart. Occasionally a little jealous, Niu Niu will be very useful, and will think that this is a way for you to love him, which shows that you care about him. But if you have fun, you won't be happy. They like considerate women, and there is a limit to everything. Once you have fun, they will think that you don't trust them. At this time, if the cow is happy and grumpy, no 10 horse can pull it back. When I go out with my cow, I often encourage him to see more beautiful women, comment with him and go out to play with girls. He was mean to girls, so I was mean to him. But not too laissez-faire. Like the last time he bought a computer with a friend of the opposite sex, he took the initiative to report it and was very happy with my consent. Later, after buying the computer and installing music, the girl still refused to let him help upgrade the system. It happened that I was in a bad mood and called Niu Niu. He said happily, I am helping people to improve their systems. I will talk about it later. I didn't give him a good look at this time, so I replied with a fierce smile, that's good, don't worry about me. Then hang up. Later, I didn't answer his two calls. Actually, it was intentional. Who told you to tell me when I need you, and you can talk about it later? _ but I can't enjoy myself. When the cow hits the third one, I will answer the music. At this time, I can't let him pull. I had to pretend to be very wronged and spoiled. The cow's anger that you didn't answer the phone before ran to the clouds. Ha ha.
Bulls are sometimes careless. At this time, you should make things clear, such as what you want him to do and what you don't like him to do, and he will remember. They like to communicate openly with others. Don't beat around the bush, just say what you think.
Taurus husband, like a turtle, is hardworking, slow and gentle. The reason why the tortoise turned his face was a lack of security. A sense of security is to Taurus what a tortoise shell is to a tortoise. Turtles without shells can hardly survive. Without a sense of security, Taurus husband will become unreasonable. So what does a sense of security include? Sometimes it is material things, such as work, salary, house, and sometimes it is spiritual things, such as wife's absence and loss of dignity. Therefore, Taurus husband is the most afraid of unemployment and the most sticky wife constellation!
He is one of the most stable, reliable and persistent men in the twelve constellations. For him, there is no vague concept, and he rarely faces the situation of vacillation and indecision. He is methodical and never gives up. In real life, his firmness and reliability make you feel that he is a powerful hand in times of crisis and a solid arm that you can rely on in your life. However, his stubbornness and subjectivity will lead his thinking into a dead end, and he is like a deaf person if he doesn't want to hear it. He lacks objectivity and flexibility, or looks at problems from the perspective of others, and is stubborn, so it is difficult to be persuaded and moved by others. If he is a hero who would rather die than surrender during the revolutionary war, if he is in prison, he will have the perseverance of "being in prison" and he will never change his thoughts and beliefs easily. Do you admire or fear such a Taurus? He seems to be a peaceful, calm, calm, tasteful person who knows life, but don't think that he can be easily dominated and led. Although he is not a strong man with a strong desire to dominate, he will not be dominated by others. He hates being forced to do anything. Once pushed to the extreme, the rebellious Taurus has the ability to destroy all obstacles in front of his horn. Generally speaking, he acts in his own slow, rhythmic and unchanging way for thousands of years and enjoys himself.
This peaceful and cheerful Taurus is actually very simple. He doesn't need a complicated, profound and mysterious outlook on life. Although he does not strongly pursue the meaning of life, he knows better than anyone what the most basic guarantee in reality is. He's just looking for that assurance. He can't bear the unrest and crisis without guarantee, whether materially or emotionally, he will eventually find the most stable situation. Love makes him feel the meaning of life, but in love, like a beautiful thing, love gives him a sense of security and protection.
This is a practical, reliable, persistent and loyal man, but if you don't need a man who has been stable for thousands of years, Taurus, who is too realistic and lacks fantasy, will also be a boring man.
Unlike Aries, he is not a brave hunter, actively and fearlessly chasing and catching prey. This is a passive "lazy cow". It's hard for him to make up his mind to take any action unless your beautiful and sexy charm makes him irresistible. If you fall in love with him, don't be unhappy because he "waits for him" passively.
Because of his strong desire for security and seeking for security, he usually chooses a relationship that will not consume his energy excessively and make him feel comfortable and stable. Although he likes being seduced and seduced by women, he expects you to establish a stable relationship with him rather than flirting and teasing. Once the relationship develops, he needs a stable and lasting relationship. He is brave in dedication and loyal to his feelings, and usually does not give up his attachment to his feelings easily.
You can't change him because of his stubborn personality. He wants you to do things his way. In order to live a quiet life, you have only one way to go-change yourself. In the future marriage, he will work hard to make money and ensure that you live a comfortable life with him. He hopes that you can handle foreign relations when he is busy. He won't be an ascetic like Capricorn and Virgo, turning himself into a money-making machine and forgetting you. He doesn't like loneliness and loneliness. He likes you to express your love for him in material form. He also knows how to repay you, but don't expect him to repay you too much.
His calm nervous system can't bear too many changes, and his wandering and adventurous life is completely different from that of the conquering Aries man. If this real Taurus is not sure about his relationship with you and can't guarantee that you belong to him, he doesn't know how this unsafe relationship will develop. He feels nervous, anxious and afraid, and can't sleep at night. Therefore, knowing that safety is a necessary condition for his survival, you will know how to appease this "stubborn cow".
What he fears is that without enough money, there will be no enjoyment, and there will be no life full of beauty, nobility and taste. It's like taking away the foundation on which Taurus lives. Without enough money, he is afraid. He knows the value of money, and he also needs to know whether his future position is secure. For the future, he needs to ensure that his environment and choices are stable and reliable.
He is afraid of any unstable factors and changes. He may stay in a safe and stable position with little development for a long time and is unwilling to take risks to change the status quo. He is afraid of being abandoned, and he is afraid of falling in love with a woman he can't guarantee that he can have it all.
The woman he longs for is different from Aries' conquest motivation. This real cow doesn't need to beat women. Also different from Aquarius, he doesn't need you to have outstanding thoughts, so don't worry that you can't fly like his thoughts; Unlike Gemini, he doesn't have high requirements for your brain and IQ; Unlike Scorpio, he doesn't need you to dance with his soul. The simple and practical Taurus has the simplest and most realistic requirements for women. A woman is his companion and one of the things that bring him organ enjoyment.
He likes all kinds of sensory enjoyment brought by women, and he is eager to be seduced by a beautiful, fragrant and sexy woman. The attraction of beautiful and sexy women to his vision, feeling, touch and smell brought him into the psychedelic world. Falling in love with a beautiful and sexy woman and enjoying wine, food, wonderful music and beautiful pictures with her can mobilize all organs of his sensory system to enter the best state.
He is not a complicated, abstruse, mysterious and eccentric person. He is a "cow" who always longs for women, and he longs for the wonderful feeling of being overwhelmed by sexy women. His strong physical desire makes him eager to be seduced by erotic women. His dream of women is more similar to the sexual temptation in Playboy magazine. It is his dream to be seduced, enslaved and captured by his beautiful face and graceful body lines.
In fact, it is not difficult to be his lover. The woman who can attract his attention in sight, touch and smell is the woman he longs for and can strongly attract him. However, whether emotionally or physically, a strong Taurus doesn't like weak and fragile people. What he needs is the kind of woman who can have enough endurance and toughness and persevere. This kind of woman is his faithful friend and lover first, and she can bring him strong, profound and long-lasting feelings and desires.
This is the most primitive animal in the twelve constellations, which can make every organ of the body enjoy happiness. For him, sex and love are a mixture. Love means making love. Making love is an activity that people all over the world can enjoy without money. Therefore, sexual activity is not a game for him to compete with you for power. He won't manipulate you with sex like a complicated Scorpio, conquer you like an Aries, and experiment with sex like an Aquarius.
The simple and reliable Taurus doesn't have many playboys. Generally speaking, he is not the kind of playboy who seeks spiritual stimulation, likes the new and hates the old (unless there is irresistible tenacious temptation). Usually, he is a trustworthy lover. He also hopes that his lover will not have "sexual dysfunction", which is the biggest reason for his "affair".
If you want to stay with him for a long time, do this:
Let him think that you are a safe woman, and he can't stand changeable and unstable women.
Try to be consistent with him, even if there are differences, don't try to convince him. Don't jump into this relationship too quickly. He needs time to test you and make a decision.
Don't force or rush him, an angry and rebellious Taurus is indestructible.
When he is angry, you have only one choice: run away.
He needs sexual pleasure from his body and senses, and you should give it to him as much as possible.
Don't do this:
Never try to change them. Don't try to make him jealous with other men, and don't touch his possessiveness. Try not to let him spend for you, and don't take his things personally. Don't argue with him when he is angry. Don't disturb him when he is eating.
If you break up, he wants to break up with you. If he wants to abandon you, it will take him a long time to make a decision Because of his slow, steady, persistent, simple and insensitive personality, he is usually not good at accurately judging people's personality. Once he likes you, it is hard for him to believe that you are not suitable for him, and he has strong endurance, so that you can continue. Once he sets a goal, he usually doesn't look back. Unless, he is attracted by a more beautiful and attractive woman, and it has caused an irreversible foregone conclusion.
You want to break up with him
If you want to give him up, that's a problem! First of all, this is not a task that can be completed in a short time. You should be prepared to break up with him suddenly, which may cause inevitable difficulties for both of you. He is a man who refuses to change. Your sudden change can change his steady and gentle personality and lead to his violent side. Losing his peace before will make you regret your choice forever. Many times, he can't understand why you want to abandon him, because it is difficult for him to see things from your point of view. However, even if you are no longer his ideal lover, he will do his best to hope that you can "return things to their original owners." If you can't turn back, wait for the big liquidation, and he will remember everything he has done for you. He will be confused and suspicious for a long time, and some will even be very ill, but he will gradually recover after being strong. So, if you just want to flirt and don't want to establish a relationship, you'd better not find him. You will seriously hurt him and bring yourself trouble for a long time.
It's even harder if you don't want to hurt him. Don't expect him to understand your reserve and coldness. In most cases, he is not sensitive. Once you start to be cold and distant from him, he is usually not easy to be noticed. So your best way is to gradually alienate, and with implicit hints, let the interval between your meetings gradually lengthen, but the time together is getting shorter and shorter. He likes stable and reliable women, and he also needs financial security. You'd better implicitly show that you are a woman who is good at spending money and has no plan, hinting at her long-term economic difficulties. When he had to face the reality that you were not his ideal lover, although he was very painful, at first, he was emotionally dependent on you, and he hoped you could improve. You have no intention of repentance. He will make a decision after a long period of confusion. However, you must be prepared for a protracted war.