1. The first situation in which children dream of ghosts is that most people may exist,
1. The first situation in which children dream of ghosts is that most people may exist, which is not strictly related to the child's personality, growth environment and education level. Even without outside help, children will gradually get out of the influence of ghosts over time, leaving at most the sequelae of timidity and fear of the dark.
2. Metaphors from interpersonal relationships-parents, authority, strangers (adults), etc. , all related to the dream scene (at home, at school or on the way after school, and so on. ).
3. In the first case, even if you dream of ghosts, the scenes in the dream are basically the same as those in the images and stories that children hear and see, such as ancient temples, lakes, cemeteries and forests.
4. When the ghost dream scene of a child is closely related to the scene in which he lives, the ghost dream at this time is no longer simply influenced by the real image data, but often points to the interpersonal relationship around the child, so the ghost has a metaphorical meaning.
5. Ghost dreams have a strong depressive component, which usually brings a strong sense of oppression and bondage to children. Therefore, the metaphor of ghosts usually points to groups with control ability around children, such as parents, elders, school teachers, managers, bosses, influential gangsters and so on.
6, but the characters in life need to be presented in the form of ghosts in dreams to release their inner depression, which often shows that this child belongs to a sensitive group in interpersonal communication. In other words, when a child has a dream like seeing a ghost at home, it doesn't mean that the child's parents have been severely disciplined or abused. It may also be because the occasional verbal abuse by parents just aroused the child's inner fear of the breakdown of parent-child relationship.
7. It should also be noted that the scene in a dream often contains two meanings: first, protection. The scene in a dream is an acceptable environment that can be chosen to protect the dreamer. That is to say, sometimes ghosts at home do not necessarily mean that children and their families have a strong conflict, but only because the environment at home can alleviate some psychological pressure when they see ghosts; The second is strong correlation, which is the type mentioned above. Dream scene refers to the environment where children encounter problems in reality.
8. Therefore, when children have similar ghost dreams, there are generally three types to do.
9. The first thing is to understand the scene in the child's dream and find out the authoritative person who may have a realistic intersection with the child in this scene;
10, and then communicate with children, understand the way he gets along with these authoritative groups, and listen to their thoughts and feelings-if necessary, you can go on a field trip, especially when it comes to the environmental content outside the two scenes of home and school-some netizens provided an example about a child telling his parents that he saw a ghost on his way to school. At first, the child's family did not pay attention to it, and neither did the parents until the child reacted to the same situation again. Later, parents began to follow their children after work early, and found a stranger in a hat following their children for several days. Realizing the seriousness of the problem, the parents of the children were scared for a while and finally called the police to handle the matter.
165438+ Teach him the ways and means to protect himself (walking together, seeking help from public office, seeking help from long-term and stable self-employed, seeking help from an adult group with obvious characteristics-Uncle Glasses to save me, etc.). ); Help children manage their emotions, especially sensitive children, and avoid criticizing her sensitivity.