Some people telecommute at home, practice cooking, play games, count floor tiles and peanuts, and miss them for a long time.
People often say that when the body is idle, the brain will come alive. When there is less activity during the day, dreams at night become varied. No, some netizens left me a message backstage:
I often dream about him recently, sometimes he is very kind to me, sometimes he quarrels with me and wants to break up, and sometimes he dreams of cheating. Do you think these dreams are real?
When I dreamed of him, did he dream of me, or did we say that our hearts were linked together and he missed acacia in a long dream?
Needless to say, this must be the dream of young people in love.
So, what is a dream?
Why do people dream?
What is the truth of dreams?
Keep looking down, and you will slowly uncover the mystery of dreams.
1. What is a dream? Nowadays, people who have strange dreams at night and want to find out will often check the Duke of Zhou.
Indeed, China was the first country to study dreams. As early as 2000 years ago, Freud's monograph The Duke of Zhou was born and became an indispensable reference for people to interpret their dreams.
The problem is that Duke Zhou only explained all kinds of dreams, and there is no scientific basis to follow. Wang Fu, a political commentator in the Eastern Han Dynasty, once said: "When a husband dreams of strangeness, many people gain something but do nothing." He thinks there is always a reason for dreaming.
This question was later answered by the famous psychologist Freud. He said: dreams are an extension of a person's subconscious, that is, people will sort out the information they receive during the day through dreams.
For example, this netizen wants to see her boyfriend every day, but she can't see him, so she forms a strong subconscious, so in her dream, the subconscious helps her make up for the shortcomings in her daytime life.
Although the subconscious mind is invisible and intangible, it is going on all the time. According to relevant data, the amount of information in the subconscious is huge, accounting for more than 95% of the total information in the brain, and our usual memory is only the tip of the iceberg of information in the brain.
Here we don't discuss the subconscious, just need to know that the so-called dream is the activity of the brain.
Second, where did the dream come from? In life, we often say that we had a good dream or a nightmare, and the hints in the dream became a sign of good or bad. Is that really the case?
In fact, people don't dream when they are in deep sleep. Only when they are in a light sleep, the subconscious will sort out and reorganize the massive information in their brains.
Because it is a dream, the information lacks the control of the higher consciousness center, so the pieced together information is very messy, so the dream will present all kinds of strange scenes.
Just like the female netizen said, I dreamed that I went to the moon with my boyfriend, dreamed that they went to fairyland, or dreamed of all kinds of monsters and so on. All this information comes from the emotions and scenes when they get along with each other on weekdays, but it is pieced together.
In order to find out the source of dreams, Professor Robert Stigott of Harvard University once did a creative research.
Finally, it is found that only 1%~2% of daily life scenes appear in dreams. If it does not come from life, where does it come from? Anxiety and worry from dreamers.
Which is mental pain. Because I was worried about cheating or breaking up with myself, I had various dreams related to my boyfriend. That explains it.
People's dreams come from the subconscious during light sleep, from the dreamer's emotional distress during the day, anger, fear, anxiety, worry and so on. Come to think of it, are you like this?
Third, dreams are just dreams. Since the dreamer's emotional distress is presented in another way through dreaming, can dreaming solve these emotional distress? Of course not!
Whether a boyfriend loves you or not can be proved or let go with a dream. Dreams are just a trivial by-product.
It can make anxious emotions pour in, but it can't change any facts, because it's just a dream. The anxiety and troubles of reality can only be solved by putting them into reality. Time is the best healer.
The movie The Sun Also Rises is a dream directed by Jiang Wen, and there are many similar literary works.
You have the same experience in your life. A dream makes you unforgettable, so you can quickly record it in a short time after waking up. This time is not long, because it is restored by your hard memory.
But this shows that dreams also have a creative side, and some dreams can bring comfort and enjoyment to people's life or spirit.
Just for this lovely netizen, when she was dreaming about each other, did her boyfriend miss her or dream about her? I think this is a question of probability, maybe it is, maybe it is not.
Even if you can't meet, you can communicate safely by phone, WeChat, video, etc. Maybe when the special period has passed, it will become the spice of mutual feelings to mention this interesting dream when we meet.
Dreams are dreams, as common as people eat and work. Whether it is a good dream or a nightmare, there is no need to guess too much.
Of course, if you have an unforgettable dream, it is also a great blessing to record the memories and even process them into wonderful works of art to share with others.
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People have thousands of faces, and everything has everything. The world under the tip of the iceberg is an undercurrent real world, and life needs to be seen through the eye of illusion. A little knowledge of laymen will lead you to see through the truth of life and solve the daily puzzles of life.
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