Because of the preconceived characteristics of the subconscious mind, the first person to be recognized will leave a deep impression on the subconscious mind. When your mood is absent, it will appear in the dream as the meaning of emotional compensation. This is the subconscious's emotional compensation for you through dreams.
As for dreaming about this person after marriage, there is nothing strange, and there is no need to bear moral guilt. In fact, the subconscious itself has no moral concept, it only has the concept of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.
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Dream interpretation method
The way to get rid of this dream is to make your husband do better, let your subconscious recognize him, and let you have feelings and security to rely on. Only in this way can the person who is often dreamed disappear.
When you have emotional problems, or face pressure and confusion, the subconscious will choose a person who can comfort you the most to compensate you.
However, when you understand this explanation, its frequency in your dreams will also decrease, because your subconscious knows that you have understood its meaning and does not need it to remind you repeatedly.