Many years ago, when the ancients walked out of the cave, they had noticed that people would "move" in their sleep except during the day, but the difference was that their bodies could run freely during the day and their thoughts could fly freely in their sleep at night.
In their dreams, they can run, fly and meet all kinds of people. This phenomenon is called "dream". Dreams are illusory, but there are many realistic shadows in them. It originates from reality and is detached from reality.
In your dream, you may have many unusual experiences. Some people dream of their lovers, some dream of their idols, and some dream of their dead relatives.
Zhou Gongdan is the idol of Confucius. Because of his contribution to young Zhou Chengwang, he personally put down his uncle's rebellion. At the height of his power, he became king and returned to power. Power greatly attracts a person, but Zhou Gongdan's behavior makes him a saint and an example to many civil servants and military commanders, including Confucius.
Confucianism pays attention to "monarch, monarch, minister and minister", and Zhou Gongdan's actions are completely in line with Confucianism. Therefore, Confucius often expressed his reverence for the ancient sages by saying "I no longer dream of Duke Zhou". Later generations extended that Zhou Gongdan often entered Confucius' dreams to communicate with him. Because of frequent communication with sages, Confucius' ideological accomplishment is also unparalleled.
Confucius had a decisive influence in the history of China. With the development of time, Zhou Gongdan became the originator of "dream interpretation". He also wrote a book about the Duke of Zhou, aiming at the emergence, development and formation of dreams, and finally he could analyze and explain the special meaning of what he saw in his dreams. People with this hobby can study it.
What is the reason for dreaming of your deceased relatives? Some people say that dreaming affects the quality of sleep. I don't think so, because I can have many wonderful experiences in my dreams. Another thing people expect is to see their dead relatives in their dreams. I dreamed of my dead relatives in different scenes more than once, as if it were true, and the sound, appearance and appearance were so clear and lifelike.
I believe many people should have similar experiences. As for the reasons, I think there are three points:
Have deep feelings for the deceased, or have a lot to say to the deceased; People live all their lives, and plants grow in autumn. Even the ancient princes and princes could not cross the threshold of death. Therefore, an accident or an illness in life can easily take away people's lives. After all these years, death is not terrible. The terrible thing is that there is no chance to say goodbye to the relatives, and there is no way to tell them.
Or I want to express my apologies to the deceased, or I want to express my love for the deceased, or I have always wanted to say something I didn't say, but because of the sudden incident, everything came to an abrupt end. So, this little regret was buried in your heart, and finally you could meet your loved ones in your sleep, so you told each other everything in your heart, which drew a satisfactory end to your encounter on earth. In my dream, I became a place to make up for my regrets.
Think every day and dream at night; People have gone through a long process from the initial fear of death to the awe of death, and finally accept death. Only humans will bury and sacrifice the dead at different times of the year, remember their ancestors and express their grief.
Death is never the end, a person's end is forgotten. "Some people are alive, but unfortunately they are dead. Some people are dead, but they still live in people's hearts." For us ordinary people, it is the same. Although our relatives are dead, they have not gone far in their hearts. In a certain scene, or at a certain moment, an idea that flashes in our mind may appear in your dream at night. You have a long talk and comfort each other.
Live up to youth and go forward bravely; Maybe it's really a friend's family under the spring. Seeing you immersed in pain, they quietly walked into your dream. As for what to say, everyone's situation may be different, but one thing is definitely the same, that is, I hope that the living can get out of their sadness and hope that you can live a wonderful life, which is the greatest comfort to the deceased relatives.
Postscript: We work hard. When we meet our relatives in our dreams, we should not only express our thoughts, but also tell them that we have a good life and a wonderful life. Perhaps this is their happiest sentence.