It is because he is the person he trusts and loves most, and it is worse than death to be betrayed and betrayed by him! The funny thing is that I still don't know why he did it in the first place! However, since he betrayed you, it proves that there have been serious problems between you. Even if we make up again, it can't be as good as before. You don't say, but you know! If the other person regards you as a friend (whether ordinary friend, good friend or lover), you should not betray your friend. The most important and precious thing between friends is sincerity! Whatever the reason, in short, you betrayed your friend, which is wrong and shameful! Don't do anything wrong, but also say some high-sounding reasons to defend yourself and get away with it. Doing is doing, and being wrong is wrong. Aren't you sad if you don't even understand this basic truth? Put yourself in others' shoes.
I am a trusting and soft-hearted person. Sometimes I really want to vomit blood for my friend's betrayal, but in the face of my friend's confession and apology, I finally laugh it off ~ sometimes I even put myself in the other person's shoes, and I always feel that he will not betray me unless I have to. Maybe he had no choice but to betray me. He was cornered and forced to betray me. This is not true. Now that I know I was wrong, I will give him a chance to turn over a new leaf. Maybe I can give myself a chance, because good friends are really hard to meet. Actually, I don't want to lose my good friend for so many years. Take a step back and broaden the horizon. Besides, he already knew that he had repented, and even knelt down and begged your forgiveness. How can I have the heart to refuse? In this way, I will forgive him once, twice or even three times. Every time, I will tell myself that this is the first time, but it is also the last time. I will never allow similar situations to happen again! However, some people just tell the truth when they get a bargain. The guy who pushed his luck made three mistakes! Moreover, I am praying for my forgiveness, but the third time I told myself that this is really the last time, and I will never treat you as a good friend again in my life. It's really over between us You disappoint me so much. Betraying me three times and four times is worse than a pig or a dog! Losing my friend will be the biggest loss in your life. Dogs can never change and eat shit!
Maybe someone will think I'm stupid. Being betrayed once is not enough, but being betrayed by the same person three times. Isn't that stupid? Yes! I feel stupid too! How stupid! Why should I forgive him for his first betrayal? Is it to forgive him so that he can have a second and third deeper betrayal of me? Everyone has a different interpretation of the word betrayal. Betrayal not only happens between lovers, but also between friendship, which makes you really miserable!
In short, I think there is an old saying that makes sense. Once you are unfaithful, you will never use it again! Think about its truth! Since you have the first time, the second time is logical, the third time is familiar, and the fourth time ~
However, it is undeniable that we can't kill a boatman with one pole. Some people can correct their mistakes. Of course, we will give him a chance to correct it. But do you have the Monkey King's eyes? Or is there Zhuge Liang's extraordinary wisdom? Or can you predict the future? If you can do this, the problem will be simple. What if the answer is no? Do you know how to do it? Can you guarantee that he will really turn over a new leaf this time? Now some * * * acting skills can rival the Academy Awards! If you forgive him this time, will you give him a chance to hurt you deeply and betray you next time? Nobody knows this, only time will tell whether your decision is right or wrong! But if it really happens, you will regret it. Wouldn't it be like shooting yourself in the foot! Hey ~ think twice ~ think twice before you act ~ good luck ~ at least this is my personal opinion!
But I don't believe there are really good friends in this world, because I have been betrayed by my best friend again and again! I asked myself, I am not such a loser, but why do I always get hurt? You may not believe it. I can say that I have no friends now, none, because I have no one to trust! Why does everyone do this! Turning your back on people is faster than turning pages. I can't wait to step on my foot again! No matter how good a friend is, a friend who has known you for a long time may betray you at any time, and you are still in the dark! Do you know the feeling of heartache? I found countless reasons for myself and her, but the cruel facts proved that she really betrayed me!
I've always been kind to my friends, but why did it end up like this? I'll find the reason myself. I asked my relatives and others. I changed my bad side. I really made every friend with my heart, but it's still useless. At this point, I no longer trust any friends! I also remind you, please don't trust your friends easily. Nowadays, social friends are all sold. Just keep the general relationship. Why are you so serious? When you are really betrayed by your most trusted, intimate and intimate friend, it is too late! It's okay to go to Sanbaotang! If you are still useful, or if your family is rich and powerful, then you must have many friends. Do you think those so-called friends will still know you when you have nothing? She would rather make a detour than see you! The friends mentioned here are just fair-weather friends or friends with playmates. Of course, you can't kill a boatman with one pole. If you are lucky, don't miss it! She will know you very well. Even if you haven't seen each other for a long time, your feelings are not affected at all. Even if you sit quietly and don't talk, you won't feel embarrassed. Even if you don't talk, she knows what you need! A true friend is a close friend! He will accompany you to cry, laugh, forge ahead, be happy, work and walk through life. A friend is someone who doesn't have to change his name even if you are promoted to president! A friend is a person who cares about you and cares about you wholeheartedly! A friend is you, you are a friend, a friend is your shadow, and a friend is the wealth of your life! I hope you have such a person!
Finally, I wish you a good mood as soon as possible!
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Why, often the people I trust most betray themselves? Of course, only the most trusted people know your importance, and they are qualified to betray you. They are also insignificant people, who hardly know anything about you and don't know what to betray you.
I feel very uncomfortable. I feel that the person I trust most has betrayed me. You said you felt betrayed by someone you trusted.
Have you ever personally proved the facts?
Don't judge by your feelings alone.
Especially since it's the most trustworthy one.
Since you are the most trusted person, you should explain your doubts to him.
You may have some factors that lead to this situation.
I hope the landlord won't end up in an unmanageable situation because of his momentary speculation.
It should be carefully considered.
I dreamed that everyone I trusted betrayed me. Hello! I'm Xiaoyang 3548, and I'm glad to discuss my dream with you. As a well-known celebrity of Baidu, I think the person who can really interpret dreams should be the dreamer himself who interprets dreams by thousands of people. Tell me about my interpretation of dreams. If it helps you a little, I hope to get your adoption!
Modern theory holds that dreams are subconscious, and what the brain hasn't finished is what the cerebellum is doing, thinking and dreaming day and night. It may be something I met or thought of recently, it may be Zhang Guan Li Dai, or it may be body double; Perhaps it is a series of books, film and television works, and real-life storylines; It may be because the sleeping posture is not good, a certain part of the body is uncomfortable, and there are similar objects, and related dreams appear. Maybe the dreamer doesn't sleep well and has more thoughts. Maybe I miss, worry, care and prejudice the relatives, friends and people I used to get along with, so I have related dreams. Perhaps it is nostalgia for the past and lost relatives and friends; Maybe it's hope, expectation, fantasy, fear, worry, struggle about what's about to happen ... all of which can't explain anything.
Is it easy to betray the person you trust the most? Yes, everyone is easy to betray.
It's just that people are used to betraying you.
It's just hard to accept that the person you trust most betrayed you.
Why can I let all the people I trust betray me? In fact, I have been fascinated by a saying recently, "It's not that others don't care about you, but that you care too much about others." I can only say that we take them too seriously. Maybe we are not that important in people's minds?
Why are lovelorn people uncomfortable? Because people are like this, life is so wonderful because of emotions.
Why would the person I trust most betray my friend? Friendship is a pure heart and clear eyes. A true friend can not only add icing on the cake, but also help in an emergency. True lovers can not only enjoy each other in happy time, but also support each other in the ups and downs of life. Feelings are lifelong care for each other and never give up. What these three things have in common is that they all need to be carefully cared for with their own responsibility and trust.
Common sense says that affection is of course more important.
But true love will eventually turn into family affection.
So the best way to let go is to take care of both emotions.
But if I had a choice, I would choose my family. Because from the first day you came to this world, your family has existed, and it has always been with you and has never left. With it, you will feel that life is warm and sweet. And love, only when you grow to a certain stage. If there is a conflict with your family, I can stay away. Of course, if you want to live a complete life, these are the best.
Without affection, there can be no love. Without love, there can be no affection. Both of them won!
Love, marriage, friendship, when we talk about these things, we will all be deeply tired-but don't neglect our grateful heart because life is too heavy. It is the people we love deeply that move us. It is the people who love us deeply that let us taste the happiness of being loved. It is our lovers who are willing to pay for each other without regrets, and even their lives have experienced the magic of love! Having a perfect marriage may be a yearning. After you have lived with him for many years, you will find that not only love, but also the affection you can't give up, each other will become a habit. Without each other, you will feel very unaccustomed ... Friendship is equally important on the road of life. Without it, it will be boring, and you can't do without the help and care of your friends at any time. Friendship is something that both parties pay, and only one party's contribution is not enough. As long as you silently send your blessing to your friend when he is successful, and come to him as quickly as possible when he fails to send your sincere greetings, and give him the most intimate warmth, I think it is enough ~ ~ ~ In fact, friendship has many problems, sometimes influenced by external factors, and sometimes by its own psychological factors. In fact, the most important thing between friends is understanding and tolerance. Treat friends honestly and support each other, hehe.
Friendship is a universal and universal passion. He is calm and steady, leisurely and unchanging for a long time. He is likable and elegant, and he won't hurt anyone at all. Moreover, love is just a crazy desire. The more you escape, the more you want to pursue it. Love is for * * *, once you have it, you will no longer cherish it.
Love may not last long, and family members may not be able to complain. Only sincere friends will always give you the most appropriate care when you need it.
Wealth is not a lifelong friend, but a friend is a lifelong wealth!
The first person to think of when you are sad, the one who doesn't have to pretend in front of him.
Adversity and * * *, treat each other with sincerity, share weal and woe, and be friends who can talk without reservation.
You are content to have such friends in your life.
In fact, friendship between friends, friendship is more of a spiritual effort between friends, to understand others with heart, and to let friends experience with heart. Only with the joint efforts of both sides, the friendship will be more brilliant! Knowing everything in life is enough. It is not only the care and help of friends in life, but also the comfort and satisfaction of the soul. Patiently understand the feelings of others, be considerate of others, and don't bother if your friends have any shortcomings. No one is perfect.
In addition, remember, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.
In fact, it is very simple, understanding, trusting, communicating, sincere and caring.
Be nice to others first, and then you will find true friends around you.
Won't make you feel cheated. You can't wait to tell him anything, so he is your true friend.
Simply put, we share weal and woe.
The first person to think of when you are sad, the one who doesn't have to pretend in front of him.
Adversity and * * *, treat each other with sincerity, share weal and woe, and be friends who can talk without reservation.
You are content to have such friends in your life.
In fact, friendship between friends, friendship is more of a spiritual effort between friends, to understand others with heart, and to let friends experience with heart. Only with the joint efforts of both sides, the friendship will be more brilliant! I hope you can take it easy!
! I also have an analogy. Affection is like a cup, love is the water in the cup, and friendship is the sugar or salt in the water. Cups will bind the freedom of water, sugar or salt will change the taste of water, but water is still water anyway, and sometimes it can best meet some needs ... personal opinion.
The boundary between love and friendship is equivalent to a layer of paper. If you break it, you will love it. This layer of paper is: jealousy and possessiveness+you will miss others when you don't see them, and you will feel very happy when you want to walk with him in the future+you will care about his every word, you will remember his preferences+you will feel the same way with him, cry and laugh together. ...
Come on! @ @ @ Don't be upset by emotions, be happy.
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Why love hurts so much. Is it really hard to feel dull pain? Feeling dull and painful proves that you really loved, and feeling hurt is that you can't let go of this feeling.
What's it like to be betrayed by someone you trust most? This is not betrayal, betrayal is a very serious problem and can never be forgiven! But in fact, many small problems are not betrayal! If you betray, you may suffer a fatal blow! Is the current blow fatal to you? Come on, that's not betrayal, it just makes you realize that things are impermanent and people are treacherous!