This careless idea can easily put children in danger.
Xiao Huan's daughter is very lively and cheerful. She likes dancing and acting. She often dances with dance videos on TV at home. After kindergarten, she is also the fastest dancer in the class. Xiao Huan is going to wait until the child is older before sending her to a training institution.
Shortly after the start of school, the kindergarten held a parent-child activity, all parents were invited to participate, and the children also performed a group dance. Xiao Huan's daughter became the monitor and stood in the first row because she danced well.
This made Xiao Huan very proud and prepared a professional camera to record her daughter's style early. In addition to her, other parents also brought mobile phones and cameras to take pictures and videos.
The children danced beautifully, too. They are wearing skirts just above the knee. As soon as they turned around, the skirt flew up, which was very beautiful. This is also my parents' favorite shot.
Xiao Huan is also very happy, but she gradually realizes that something is wrong. Every time she turns around, the clothes under the child's skirt will be exposed. Wouldn't it be dangerous if there were no thick pants inside?
Later, when children interacted with other children after dancing, they were also very careless and always exposed their pants under their skirts.
Xiao Huan suddenly felt a crisis. She thinks she often buys beautiful skirts for her children to wear to kindergarten. Her daughter may have accidentally walked away many times.
She felt annoyed and regretted it, and then she never dared to let her daughter wear a skirt to kindergarten again.
Inconvenient activities
There are many activities in kindergartens, and children who care about light are easy to be at a loss; Children who don't care are easily overlooked.
It is not conducive to protecting children's privacy.
When a child takes a nap, sits on a stool or makes big moves, the skirt may be unconsciously lifted, leading to exposure.
Not conducive to the safety of girls.
Because some parents don't have good education, some boys who are still in kindergarten don't respect girls very much. They like to tease other people's little skirts and touch other people's hands, which makes girls encounter trouble and embarrassment.
Moreover, when children dress up too maturely and beautifully, they are easily targeted by other bad adults.
Have a comparison mentality
When a child dresses too well and pays too much attention to dressing up, she always wants to dress up better than others, which is easy to form a comparison mentality and is not conducive to her physical and mental health.
Don't shy away from this question.
When children are confused about gender and physical problems, it also shows that they can be guided, instead of thinking that they are too young to know these things, or that gender problems are shameful, which can easily set up a bad cognition for their daughters and make them ashamed to face these problems in the future.
Establish a good parent-child relationship
Many children were injured outside and were afraid to come back and tell their parents. It is also because they have a bad relationship with their parents, and they are afraid that they will be scolded and not trusted when they say these questions. In this way, their daughters are more vulnerable to being bullied.
Choose the education that your daughter can accept.
Toughly asking her daughter not to wear revealing clothes, not to fall in love early, and not to go out at night may cause disgust. Parents need to express their concern, not to explicitly prohibit it.
Today's topic: What are your unique ways to educate your daughter?