First of all, we must realize that everyone's accomplishment and level can't be the same. Many times, when what we do is very good, but we can't get the recognition of the other party, we are responded by the other party with a bad attitude. Then, in this case, we should not change our minds and give up kindness. We should not punish ourselves for other people's mistakes. True kindness comes from the heart and is not influenced by anyone or anything. Moreover, as long as we persist in our kindness, we will certainly find someone who truly recognizes ourselves, which will give us a certain sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.
On the other hand, when you do a good thing and are misunderstood and scolded by the other party, if the other party can understand what happened, they will often take the initiative to apologize to themselves. After all, I believe that most people are kind and grateful, so in this case, we should not be too entangled and uneasy because of such things. As long as you explain clearly to each other, the misunderstanding between two people will be eliminated soon. Even if the other person can't understand himself at first, then in this case, we don't need to persist. As long as we do ourselves well and stick to our kindness, we will make our hearts more calm and practical.