A: Please refer to the above questions for specific solutions. Just replace the family above with colleagues.
A: It is always not smooth after learning Buddhism: 1. It's not because of studying Buddhism, but because your past career has matured. Don't be wrong, cause and effect, take it out on Buddha and Bodhisattva, and blame Buddha and Bodhisattva for planting doomed love instead of blessing you. 2. If you really learn Buddhism, you will become a Buddha's fruit and a great wish of all beings. If you wish to become a Buddha, you must pay off your debts. Some karma debts may have to wait for many generations if you don't study Buddhism, but if you study Buddhism, some karma debts are reported in advance, that is, they are reported again and then lightly. If you are unclear and unreasonable, you may get angry. Besides, people always have difficulties. We should have a good attitude towards them, especially us so-called Buddhists. We must have a correct understanding and attitude when facing all kinds of karma. Thinking about paying off debts, accept it gladly. It's easy now. If you don't accept it now, you won't know how to accept it later. If you think like this, your mentality will definitely be better and you won't feel too bad.
A: This is a sign that karma is brought and eliminated. First of all, congratulations, which shows that you have certain merits. For example, if you are incapable, who will ask you for help? You don't have a certain merit, and the related relatives won't come to you, because he can't get the benefit of Buddhism liberation. You have certain merits in studying Buddhism, so they come to you because they can get the benefits of Buddhism from you and get relief. Don't be afraid, stick to it, release it, recite Buddha, chant scriptures, hold spells, and repent of your merits. It will get better gradually. Just as you ask the Buddha and Bodhisattva guru to help you solve your problem, and they help you out of compassion, your problem will be solved. Where is your career? They brought it to you for the same reason. But karma is not easy to bring, and there is a price to pay. But we must not be afraid of this. Our spiritual merits are achieved in the process of helping all beings.
We beginners should pay attention to what we can do to turn the tables for others or return the merits. Don't cross or return more than one work at a time, one by one, too much at a time, the effect is often not obvious, the effect is not obvious. Because beginners' beliefs are not firm and they are not clear about Buddhism, their confidence in Buddhism will often be shaken after some problems appear. If some people are still in poor health, out of compassion, they cross over or return for their parents and others, and they take on too many jobs at once, and their bodies can't bear it, just like a person can only carry 100 kg, but he carries 300 kg, so it's strange not to be crushed. Wait until you can carry 300 Jin at a time. Therefore, our advice to beginners is: make a big wish, step by step, and do what you can.
You should also stop and go directly to the unjust creditor who caused you discomfort or the unjust creditor on you, otherwise it may be too much. Don't try to be brave because of greed, stay in the green hills, and be afraid of burning without firewood.
Especially for beginners, we must pay attention to this problem.
Answer: You can try. Come back if you want. If you don't feel particularly uncomfortable after returning to your merits, or you can support yourself, it means that your merits are not bad now (this is what you did in the past). You can continue to ask, or you can not ask for the next few times, just recite and go back to it until the discomfort disappears. But if you are sick for a long time at a time, you don't need to be invited. You can go straight back after you finish it.
A: First, yes, the world or relatives in the past have suffered a lot from heresy, so we should return to merit and pull them out of heresy. This is explained in the original vows of the Tibetan Bodhisattva. Second, it may be a manifestation of what has been done in the past. Third, it may be hell. If you don't wake up now, this may be your future. You can dream, 1, which means you have good roots and good merits, otherwise you won't dream; 2. Explain that related relatives want to solve problems with you; If you don't do it, you may have bad karma soon. It's a good thing to be able to dream. When you encounter these situations, you have to return to merit (see the notes for specific methods).
Unlike some dream interpretation books on the market. Dreaming like a snake, saying it is rich, is all nonsense. This is a sign that friends and relatives are coming to collect debts. Don't make mistakes. For example, in my dream, I dreamed that my relatives attacked you and bit you. This is an unfinished business with you, even a sign of debt. Be sure to do merit and repay them.
Other dreams are prophetic dreams and superficial manifestations of fatalism. There are also dreams that are tips for practicing. There is also thinking during the day, dreaming at night and so on. Source: