To identify what a person is like, ancestors have their own uniqueness. Know someone? Look not at the face, but at these three places. You can't go wrong. You might as well try.
First of all, look at a person's hobbies
You can tell who he is by what he likes. Ouyang Xiu
Perhaps a person's language and behavior can be disguised, but his hobby will not lie and will tell you honestly what kind of person he is.
For example, if a person is interested in singing, dancing and other arts, it shows that they are positive, positive and optimistic, like to show themselves and are willing to express their feelings. A person who likes sports shows that they are passionate. If you are addicted to games all the year round and neglect your studies or career, it shows that this person is not enterprising and has poor self-control ability.
A person who doesn't like studying pretends to like reading. It may be ok for a day or two, but in the long run, he will show his true colors and can't pretend at all. They won't understand the mystery of their own golden house in the book.
Judging a person's character, knowledge and conduct from his hobbies is basically infallible.
Second, look at what a person is thinking.
There is always a shadow between ideal and reality, between motivation and behavior. eliot
You don't have to listen to a person. Their words may be lies, mainly depending on their motives, because a person's opportunities to move greatly expose his character. Because of the different motives, the behaviors are very different, whether they are friendly or evil, which has a lot to do with motivation.
When you get help from others, it must be for some purpose. Maybe it's just simply sympathy for you, helping you tide over the difficulties and asking for nothing in return; Maybe I want you to owe him a favor to pave the way for asking you for something in the future.
From a person's intention to do things, we can infer what kind of person he is, whether he is pure and kind, or whether he has selfish purposes.
Third, look at a person's behavior.
Evaluate the time and think about it, and there will be nothing in the world. Zhang Juzhong
Some people are well versed in how to deal with people, know how to observe words and observe colors, assess the situation, have high emotional intelligence, care about everyone's feelings, and take care of others' emotions when they speak. In the crowd, they can always be liked by everyone.
But some people just don't have the eyesight to see. They don't think before speaking and say whatever they want. It's embarrassing and humiliating. This kind of behavior can't be learned in a day or two, but some people can't learn how to learn, and they will offend people as long as they speak.
People with high emotional intelligence seem to be a gift. They are very sensitive, and they can always feel each other's emotions at the first time, and then they feel very comfortable when they get along.
Summary:
Know someone? You should judge a person's character, knowledge and conduct not only by his face, but also by his hobbies. Looking at a person's motivation can reveal a person's character, whether it is pure kindness or self-interest.
By looking at a person's behavior, we can feel whether he is a person with decent speech and high emotional intelligence.