Hehe, what you meet can't be more ordinary, so strange ~ If you don't believe that there are souls and ghosts in this world, then there is no fairness in this world. What is the reason why the world is so chaotic now? If you can't believe in religion, try to get in touch with the latest science. If you study the new discoveries of famous scientists such as Japan, America and Britain, you will find out why science is now studying religious theories. They even proved that there are other spaces in the space of this world. People's spiritual consciousness can control the properties of matter. The human body has immortal matter (legendary soul), and the same inseparable molecule can appear in countless places.
I suggest you still believe it, otherwise you will never see the truth of this world. What you see is only a small result. I don't know why or how to change it. Why do you want to talk about taking control of your own life?