This proverb means that if a child makes a mistake, it is best not to teach him before eating, because if the child is unhappy after being taught, it will affect the next eating and eating activities, and eating badly will affect the growth and development of the child; If your wife does something wrong, don't scold her before going to bed, because she won't be in a good mood after being trained. If she is in a bad mood and can't sleep well, it will also affect her health, so it will not be worth the candle.
If you don't train your children before meals, you will always be naughty when you are young. Many times, if you make a mistake, your parents should educate him and find and correct his shortcomings in time. However, educating children is skillful, so we should encourage them more and scold them less. At the same time, for their growth and health, it is best not to scold them before eating. Otherwise, the child will definitely feel uncomfortable after being trained, which will lead to poor appetite, and the appetite for the next meal will be greatly reduced. After eating a few mouthfuls, he may never be able to eat any more. The child is in a critical period of physical development. If they can't eat, it will affect their physical growth, so choose the right time to educate their children.
If you don't train your wife before going to bed, you will grow old with us as a lifelong companion, so you must treat your wife well. Even if your wife has problems, you should control your emotions. You'd better not scold your wife or quarrel with her before going to bed, because she will definitely be in a bad mood afterwards. It is very harmful to feel uncomfortable or angry in your heart, especially to sleep and rest with emotions, which has great influence on your health, so for the sake of your wife's health, it is best not to scold her before going to bed.
The Art of Life In fact, this proverb is about the art of life, and it is also about how to do a good job in family relations and let the experience of family harmony accumulate, which still has a guiding and reference role for our modern people's real life. Many proverbs left by the ancients are really the result of experience and wisdom.