What should I do? Although his girlfriend is not you, I still have a crush on him. So the heart began to struggle and hesitate. You don't want to be wicked, but you don't want to let go. Your love and competitiveness make you very frustrated, and even make you feel that his girlfriend is inferior to you everywhere. You see, there are blackheads on the nose, small flat chest, short hair and shabby clothes. Basically, they are all Taobao models, their eyelids are still stuck, and the NB on their feet is still imitating. But it doesn't matter, just like it, don't let yourself regret it. First of all, you and her girlfriend had better not be the same type of girls. For example, if she is spicy, you will have a small bridge; She sells cute, stupid, sweet, you are cold, royal; She is a rationalist in college, and you are a strong girl.
Secondly, be sure to get the contact information. I believe you can find it if you want. If you know the contact information, don't add it. Try to set up a bureau. This is the simplest thing. Just find his good friend and say that you want to bring his sister to make friends, pack cigarettes and get everything done, which means you want someone you like to come over. As long as it meets, it's OK, not ugly. He will remember you more or less. At this time, you can add WeChat, you don't need to say too much, just talk about daily problems, and don't look too purposeful. For example, about his major.
If he studies programming, ask about software or something; If he is studying agriculture, ask about raising flowers. These are all examples. If you really don't know what to ask, you can also ask Du Niang and Zhihu for help. At this stage, you can't talk to him about personal matters, and don't always take the initiative to find him. Although I want to shoot, I can't eat too ugly. You should be clear about this scale in your heart. Wechat friends circle is a good thing, you should make good use of it, often like comments and get familiar with it. It is inevitable that you will have love conflicts with your girlfriend, or a person will have the habit of complaining. This is your chance. At this time, you don't need to comment and praise, just talk privately!
Then let him get into the habit of relying on you to complain. Although he doesn't talk about feelings, this kind of chat record will collapse once it is discovered by his girlfriend. The reason is that he will feel that he is not wrong at all, just chatting with the opposite sex. Is this not good? When his girlfriend quarrels with her, he will find her incredible and unreasonable. Does he think he is so good to her that he doesn't even have a friend of the opposite sex? Remember, but her girlfriend must have zero tolerance for such things. The more aggressive she is, the more pathetic you are, so delete me. I really don't want to affect your feelings. Men won't delete you. Men don't know who has a plan (but sometimes they play dumb). They just think they are right.
Put yourself in the shoes. If you were a man, gentle, considerate, arrogant and unreasonable, who would you choose? During their cooling-off period, cold war period and quarrel period, men will complain to you. At this time, you can comfort yourself. At this time, her girlfriend will definitely notice your existence and try to visit your Weibo or circle of friends, just to get to know you better. At this time, you can write something ambiguous to stimulate her and break her psychological defense. I can't help it. Women are always too blind and too devoted in love.
When she broke up in order to make a man be nice to her again, it was useful once or twice, just like a rubber band that tied her hair, it would lose its elasticity sooner or later. After breaking up, you accompanied him to eat, drink and watch movies soon, and you also accompanied him through the pain of lovelorn love. It was beautiful in name, but in fact it was just to give the poor ex no choice. At this time, you can intentionally or unintentionally reveal that someone is pursuing you. You think the other person is excellent, but you don't like him enough, so you are still hesitating. As soon as a man's possessiveness and impulsiveness come up, you are finished. At this point, however, the game is not over yet. Do you think you are not worried because you are in love? Girl! All wet! One day, when you see a girl talking to him about something unimportant on his mobile phone, you will be crazy and nervous because you know the routine of women.